Dance Among the Flowers

This is where I reblog a lot of different things and make stupid text posts about my life.

[shaefierce-blog]

[sailor-plut]

hey

[flowerchildofthemoon]

Me reading JTHM in 2013: Bloody boi

Me reading JTHM in 2014-2015: This is a very delicate and complex character whom we must regard carefully, it is easy to fall into the trap of sympathizing with him, we must not forget his actions remain inexcusable no matter what

Me reading JTHM in 2016: Even though his actions are inexcusable, it is okay to sympathize with him to a point because he was purposely written to be sympathetic, even if this was only done to turn it back around on the reader in the seventh issue

Me reading JTHM in 2017: Bloody boi

[fastestslothalive]

[akami427]

[bajo-el-mar-blog]

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

[imnotreallyherecheckagainlater]

what book is this?

[tehbewilderness]

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

[chemicalheart-deactivated202009]

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

[queen-mayhem]

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

[bhuttu]

Arm yrself with knowledge!

[birkenth0t]

Changed my life, would reccomend.

[fuckyeahsexpositivity]

Reblogging for the PDF link.

—BB

[egodram]

Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…

[tinierspacecharm]

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

new link (the old one is broken)

[hansbekhart]

Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.

[angryblackgirlrants-blog-deacti]

“Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…”

[shiobookmark]

Heads up guys. It moved again. https://www.pdf-archive.com/2015/10/21/why-does-he-do-that/ But if it breaks just use the sites custom search. :3 That’s how I found it.

[witchkingblogs]

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Username: wolforphan

[deathmoth-deactivated20181229]

X

[theycantalk]

upgrade

[wingbeifong-deactivated20160204]

DAPHNE WHO THE FUCK U THINK U FOOLIN 

[shaman-music]

fred finna tear it up in the basement

[prettyboyshyflizzy]

shit u never notice as a kid lmao wtf who put this in kids shows lol

[thatsthat24]

I FINALLY GET IT

[meladoodle]

honestly “you shouldve killed me when you had the chance” is probably the funniest thing you can say after minorly inconveniencing someone and i plan to say it always

[zackisontumblr]

[ruinedchildhood]

[ruinedchildhood]

[flowerchildofthemoon]

new life plan: cosplay as Xayah -> go to con -> meet Rakan cosplayer -> ??? _ profit

[flowerchildofthemoon]

kk so get this, my class doesn’t start for 20 some-odd minutes and I managed to get a parking spot this morning (also yay) but, i haven’t eaten in over 24 hours now. I did buy myself a bagel w/ my coffee on the way to class though.. And I should eat it before I start class.. Why is this so difficult? Shouldn’t I be ravenous and woozy?

[flowerchildofthemoon]

randomly went on deviantart today. it was kinda cheesy to see all my old “art” from high school days, and so many pictures from my first year at Portcon. but then i found *his* deviantart page, that he hadn’t touched in over 7 years. so im totally not crying over dumb bullshit right now nope..

[flowerchildofthemoon]

well the best weight loss plan is apparently to agree to stay at your parents’ house for two days where they haven’t been in two weeks so there’s no food..... ok

[flowerchildofthemoon]

i’m so fucking depressed. I just want a real job.