I love the WHA fandom. Most of the people in it are very cool. But something that really bothers me is how people keep referring to Qifrey as 'the mother' or 'wife'.
I totally get why somebody would call him either of those things. He checks a lot of boxes when it comes to the stereotypical traditional woman, despite being a man. However, as funny as it is, it does feel misogynistic.
Why can't we just accept that a man likes cooking and taking care of kids without calling him a woman? Why must some things always be a woman's job?
It's very disappointing when you take a look at the story and realise that the author puts so much effort into challenging social norms only for things like this to occur.
















