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My mom just found out I’m trans and took it worse than I thought. She’s going to kick me out. I need a place to live.
PITTSBURGH FOLLOWERS (i know you’re there): REBLOG AND HELP. this could’ve been me two years ago.
signal boost the hell out of this this kid needs help
look i know i havent been on this blog in a while BUT I KNOW I HAVE PITTSBURGH PEOPLE ON HERE SO???
okay so this is the “im too tired to think correctly but need to get this said” version of my thoughts on the Monosexuals and their privilege (tm) STUFF
i am a bi woman and comin at this from the persepective of “this is mostly a problem that pits women against women” cause i havent seen this turn anywhere close to bi men vs gay men ok
i get where the idea came from: the idea that women attracted to men and women arent Queer Enough. i get that, ive felt it, it sucks and we shouldnt have to feel like that.
BUT HOLY SHIT, THERE IS NO ACCEPTABLE REASON FOR US TO HAVE TURNED IT AROUND INTO WHAT ITS BECOME which, for those who havent noticed, is “lesbians are the enemy bc they only like one gender which makes them not queer enough”
LIKE. NO. FUCK YOU, THAT IS WRONG. and lesbians deserve SO MUCH BETTER FROM US THAN THIS.
first of all, the idea of not queer enough is not something that ANYONE with non hetero attraction EVER needs to feel
second, yall think youre being radical with this shit? sorry, no. lesbians are ostracized by a huuuuuuuuge number of ppl BECAUSE THEY DONT GO FOR MEN. to be honest, i think THAT is a real big huge marker of what lgbtqia+ oppression looks like and does to ppl, because lesbophobia works heteronormativity AND male centric focus into one nasty ugly force that stomps right on lesbians and marks them for hatred coming from everywhere
so, in crying monosexual privilege, youre saying lesbians arent queer enough or worthy to be seen as queer as you are, WHICH IS FACTUALLY INCORRECT AND HATEFUL AS SHIT.
so lets not play oppression olympics against people we should be standing beside, fighting for, defending and protecting just as hard as we fight for ourselves, please? just drop this concept, because its harmful and it sucks.
we each face our own unique kinds of oppression, and we should fight those things together and defend one another from outside hate and oppression from straight ppl.
not… not do this shit.
not responding to any hate or anger i get for this.
kinky ppl pulling the no true scotsman thing about bdsm and abuse, y’all really fucking piss me off.
like no. stop that. right now. you’re wrong.
hi, i am a kink-inclined person. specifically, a submissive woman in a d/s relationship, who has been in and out of bdsm communities on the internet and face to face. who has had experiences both good and bad with these communities. and i’m here with a reality check, hello!
abuse does happen in bdsm communities, OFTEN. that’s the truth of the matter. bdsm is a fucking playground for predatory ppl who want to excuse their behavior as being run of the mill dominance. a WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE gloss over when dom-type folks abuse sub-type folks especially because of the power dynamics. THAT IS INEXCUSABLE AND IT NEEDS TO STOP.
stop saying 50 shades “isnt real bdsm because it’s abuse.” yes it’s a poorly written book. yes the execution of bdsm dynamics is piss poor. yes we should be ashamed to be associated with it.
BUT
that shit happens too often in real life and IT GETS EXCUSED AND BRUSHED OVER because of the nature of the relationship. THAT HAS TO FUCKING STOP. IMMEDIATELY.
get your goddamn act together and police your communities. do not let the word of an abused person go unheard. defend victims and survivors at all costs. do NOT allow places of safety for abusers.
ESPECIALLY STOP prioritizing an abusive dom-type person’s word over a sub-type person who speaks out against an abuser. AND don’t think that sub-type people can’t be abusive as well.
just. holy fucking shit. we need to be more fucking responsible. stop pretending it doesn’t happen and ACT TO MAKE IT FUCKING STOP.
this has been a psa type thing. stay safe, don’t drink and drive, etc. i’m off the soapbox now, bye.
with You Know What: The Movie two weeks away now, I think I’m gonna bring this post back.
okay so this is the “im too tired to think correctly but need to get this said” version of my thoughts on the Monosexuals and their privilege (tm) STUFF
i am a bi woman and comin at this from the persepective of “this is mostly a problem that pits women against women” cause i havent seen this turn anywhere close to bi men vs gay men ok
i get where the idea came from: the idea that women attracted to men and women arent Queer Enough. i get that, ive felt it, it sucks and we shouldnt have to feel like that.
BUT HOLY SHIT, THERE IS NO ACCEPTABLE REASON FOR US TO HAVE TURNED IT AROUND INTO WHAT ITS BECOME which, for those who havent noticed, is “lesbians are the enemy bc they only like one gender which makes them not queer enough”
LIKE. NO. FUCK YOU, THAT IS WRONG. and lesbians deserve SO MUCH BETTER FROM US THAN THIS.
first of all, the idea of not queer enough is not something that ANYONE with non hetero attraction EVER needs to feel
second, yall think youre being radical with this shit? sorry, no. lesbians are ostracized by a huuuuuuuuge number of ppl BECAUSE THEY DONT GO FOR MEN. to be honest, i think THAT is a real big huge marker of what lgbtqia+ oppression looks like and does to ppl, because lesbophobia works heteronormativity AND male centric focus into one nasty ugly force that stomps right on lesbians and marks them for hatred coming from everywhere
so, in crying monosexual privilege, youre saying lesbians arent queer enough or worthy to be seen as queer as you are, WHICH IS FACTUALLY INCORRECT AND HATEFUL AS SHIT.
so lets not play oppression olympics against people we should be standing beside, fighting for, defending and protecting just as hard as we fight for ourselves, please? just drop this concept, because its harmful and it sucks.
we each face our own unique kinds of oppression, and we should fight those things together and defend one another from outside hate and oppression from straight ppl.
not… not do this shit.
not responding to any hate or anger i get for this.
breaking it off with negative people is a really good thing to do. but it’s also really dificult and it can be painful, isolating, and socially disruptive to more than just thefriend group
so it’s Really Cool that we’re promoting the idea of cutting off negative influences but it’s Not So Cool that we’re implying everyone can do it and either live without a support network or magically conjure new, non-shitty friends from the aether
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I debated for a long time about whether or not to write about Leelah1. In part because I loathe the prurient media fascination in recent years with trans kids and also because the things I have to say are going to be difficult, uncomfortable, and could bring me a lot of harassment. Trans women of colour (twoc), dear friends of mine and people I care about, have received death threats and endless online harassment for talking about some of the topics I’m going to cover in this post.
But…
I can’t ignore Leelah’s entreaty: “Fix society. Please”2.
I also can’t ignore the fact that, on Twitter at least, people have been demanding #JusticeforLeelahAlcorn without any clear notion of what this means or what it entails. In a general sense, true justice for Leelah would involving fixing society, just as she asks us to do. But as I’ve been articulating on my own Twitter account, for the past few days, this hashtag and most discussions only focus on one part of her story. The easy part.
This part, of course, is the abuse she endured at the hands of her parents. Most calls for ‘justice’ in the Twitter hashtag mainly involve parents accepting their children, religion bashing, and similar remarks. At least this is the comments from the mainstream/cis society.
The response from the trans community has likewise been disappointing in how much it misses the mark and refuses to engage with narratives and comments not only expressed within Leelah’s suicide note but that have been articulated by trans women of colour since we started the entire modern ‘gay rights’ movement3.
This post/essay/etc will be an exploration into what justice for Leelah Alcorn might actually look like and some of what is needed to ‘fix society’.
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can you explain why it's okay to be selfish sometimes??? my boyfriend gets really sad and he feels like he's really selfish for doing completely normal things (like, he thought he was the most selfish person in the world when he bought himself a soda and asked for a hug on the same day. i don't get him) like can you just explain why it's okay to do stuff for yourself so i can show it to him
sometimes being selfish is the least selfish thing you can do as funny as it sounds. think about it though, you’re the only person you can always ask to take care of yourself, by taking care of yourself you’re not asking other people to take care of you. and sometimes it’s ok to ask other people to take care of you, as long as you keep in mind their needs as well. forgoing your own wellbeing doesn’t help anyone, you can’t help others if you’re not in good shape yourself. the people who love you want you to be happy and healthy, asking for a little help sometimes isn’t bad and doing things for yourself to keep yourself healthy mentally and physically isn’t just not bad, it’s good. one more thing: if you have someone who loves you and likes hugs, chances are they want to hug you. it’s not like you’re taking away their hug supply by asking for one. you can’t be selfish by asking for something that someone has an unlimited supply of!!
Susie is a trans woman being released from prison as soon as January.
Please help Susie get on her feet and some rent money so she has a place to stay upon being released!
Susie is literally starting from scratch again. her family has ceased contact for a while now, she has no place lined up to stay (depending on her release conditions and when there’s a date available we will search for a place) , very little money, no clothes (also working that out, she needs a place for them to be shipped to in PA she can pick them up at), etc but in the meantime if you have any spare money please consider helping her out
Please spread this and support where you can!
Feel free to circulate this if you wish. I figure it’d be useful for some of you.
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My name is Jackie, and I am working on transitioning from Male to Female, but work is hard to find, so my savings go to food and rent. I need help. Your help. Any donation is welcome and aperciated. My wishlist breaks down the transition process quite nicely and gives a general overview of what t…
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Hey! Mel here. I hate to do this on New Year’s Eve, but my mom just went through my sister and my closet and ripped everything out and basically ruined it. I have the rest of my stuff packed but I fear for my safety. The reason? My sister voiced her complaints about my mom leaving us on New Year’s Eve to go to a party. Things escalated, and my mom KNOWS I am trans and refuses to call me by my name/pronouns. She’s blatantly transphohic, not to mention ableist. She says that since she named me, I’m attacking her. She is unpredictable and dangerous and I don’t want to stay with someone who misgenders me and makes me feel worthless on a daily basis any longer. She is also the main cause of my hospitalizations. I’m asking for temporary residence from someone in Connecticut or around the Connecticut area. My number is available for people who come to me off ank . If you can’t help me, please signal boost this. Thank you.
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Satan called to remind that they’re content with their current legal team and professional support platform, as such, the Devil is currently not taking in applications for further “advocates” and is formally requesting all annoying would-be-intellectuals on the internet to stop.
