This is about to sound brash, but I hope you'll bear with me.
I usually don't talk about this stuff since it's a no-brainer that the weirdos and creepos should be given the heave-ho, and part of the reason is that, well. What good does keyboard warrior-ing about it do? Just making an empty announcement that you hate these people, do you actually want to tackle the problem or did you just want the pats for saying it?
One unfortunate truth is those nutjobs won't just go away and lie down because someone made a long "no, bad" post like they're whacking a dog with a newspaper. They slip through the cracks most of the time, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't act and do more.
If these randos want to treat us like shit, then treat them like shit back. Block random assholes, bring awareness to them, report if possible. Feel free to get on their ass if you see them reposting on other sites. It may not always have an effect, but it's something.
On top of all this, some discord servers can most definitely be your friend. I know it also sucks to feel your kink limited to those spots rather than the whole wide web, but it's still comforting to see how many like-minded people are just right there to be equally kinky.
