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hard pill to swallow: there are some things that are not meant for you. you will meet people that are not willing to stay. there will be times that you will fail. but don’t be discouraged because alongside, you are meant to be something, you will meet people that will stay, and most importantly, you will get better.

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I think one of the most important things I’ve learned this year is about love. 1. You can’t always control who you love. Sometimes, you’re going to love someone even though they don’t love you back. The worst part about that is even though you don’t want to love that person, you still do, and nothing can stop that. The best part, though, is getting to figure out who loves you back. 2. At other times, you’re going to choose to love someone. This is the true kind of love, the kind that matters. There’s going to be days where you’re going to have to look at their present self and not their past, and you’re going to have to choose to love them, even with their past. Those are the days when you could walk away at any time you choose to, but instead, you decide to stay and love that person. Because love isn’t supposed to be something that you can’t control, though it can be. Love is supposed to be a choice, an action. If you’re loving without a reason, at any given point, you can stop loving that person. 3. There will be times when love seems like a cruel thing. After a heartbreak. When a family splits up. While someone you love is in pain and you can’t help them. All of that hurts, and you’re thinking, “If only I didn’t love them, I wouldn’t be so hurt.” Well, one thing you learn is that love is worth it. For every pain and sacrifice, there will be two moments on joy to make up for it. It may not happen right now, but believe me. Love is worth everything. 4. The last thing I learned is that the first step to knowing how to love anyone is loving yourself. Not a conceited, arrogant love. That isn’t how you’d love someone else. You love yourself by accepting that you make mistakes, that you’re not perfect. and by forgiving yourself. You accept your flaws, but by doing that, you accept your strengths. When you can love yourself, you can surely love someone else. It’s the hardest thing to do sometimes, but then again, it’s worth it.

dream-poet349, writing prompt #73: Write about the lessons you learned this year. (via wnq-writers)

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It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there, because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling— that really hollowed-out feeling.

J.K. Rowling (via thequotejournals)

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You, my love, are all over my blood.

Rykarda Parasol, Oh, My Blood

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When you’re in the middle of sobbing and you start dissociating so you’re like “okay I’m done now” and turn into an emotionless zombie

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It wasn’t that long, and it certainly wasn’t the kind of kiss you see in movies these days, but it was wonderful in its own way, and all I can remember about the moment is that when our lips touched, I knew the memory would last forever.

Nicholas Sparks (A Walk to Remember)

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Let me tell you what love is. Love is a storm. It’s rain, and lightning, And thunder. Loud f*ckin thunder. But, it’s after the storm too. The calm, feel-good feeling. Love is fire. It burns, it blisters. It leaves scars that won’t go away. But, it warms. It comforts and seduces you to sleep. Love is an earthquake. It shakes your very foundation. Rattles you apart. But it settles, and lets you start over. Fresh to rebuild. Love is a disaster. It’s tough to survive thru, to live thru When it’s not right. But, when it is, Love makes you stronger.

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