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let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open

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In Super Mario 64 DS, Wario's unique ability is to be able to destroy black brick blocks, which contain some of the game's stars. However, Yoshi can actually clip through any black brick block simply by collecting the 100th coin while above it and then performing a sideways somersault while collecting the star that spawns.
The block will be the correct distance away to be intangible when the star is collected (blocks in both Super Mario 64 and Super Mario 64 DS only have collision when the player character is very close to them) and collision is not turned on during the star obtaining cutscene, causing Yoshi to fall through the block and get the item or activate the switch (as seen in the footage) inside.
While a lengthy and cumbersome process to set up, this completely obsoletes the need for Wario.
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i think my favorite type of fandoms are the ones where people like collectively hallucinate a guy to go crazy over
There are no ducks in this post.
no wait hold on i can do better. look at these ones i took pictures of a few years ago
There are now ducks in this post.
to make this item you need GREEN SLUDGE do you think you have GREEN SLUDGE i think you should use GREEN SLUDGE dont you have GREEN SLUDGE oh you already used GREEN SLUDGE to make the material for this recipe that required GREEN SLUDGE well you need nine more GREEN SLUDGE to make the recipe you wanted dont you love collecting GREEN SLUDGE
honestly "oracle that nobody believes" is such a solid trope. imagine trying to convince anybody in 2006 what the next two decades was gonna look like
Remember when Lil Nas X beautifully explored his sexuality, seduced and killed the devil to the banger of all time, and instead of cheering on this openly gay and proud Black artist for his artistry and fighting back against respectability politics, suddenly said respectability politics was all the Queerest Place on the Internet cared about? Hm. Wonder what happened there.
Anyway I miss him and hope he's doing better with his mental health 🙏🏾
Like say what you want about "bad queer representation", but this was the song that made me openly and happily accept that I was bisexual. To see him up there Black and beautiful, making music that I love, absolutely killing it? Yeah. You couldn't tell me shit. This man made me proud to be out. "This will make them think we're evil for being gay" hey newsflash dawg-
YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN HANDLE CRITIQUE. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN EMBRACE BEING TOLD YOU WERE WRONG. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH UNPLEASANT TASKS. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN DELIVER DISAPPOINTING NEWS. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU KNOW HOW TO BE DISAGREED WITH. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN BE CORRECTED. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU CAN BE TOLD YOU MESSED UP. YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY. YOU ARE ABLE TO DO HARD THINGS.
Linktree will be feeding your images with DALL-E, Open AI from 5th July 2026.
Warning to anyone using Linktree.
From the 5th July, they'll be feeding all imagery you use on your landing page into DALL-E by OpenAI.
I deleted my account just now, because there was no way to turn this off or opt out.
Update with some alternatives-
Carrd.co. Free alt with paid features.
Bento.app Currently free, integrated with bluesky
Everlink.tools Closest to Linktree, has some paid features.
Omg.lol Currently $20 a year. If paying for Linktree features this is a great upgrade.
[“The first step is insisting that emotional labor, together with other private, unremunerated feminized forms of work, be rendered visible. Instead of people treating emotional labor as an extension of being sexed or gendered as female, emotional labor should be seen as a form of work demanding time, effort, and skill. Nor should emotional labor, in the same vein, be seen as a passive expression of an innate trait, say, an expression of possessing emotional intelligence. What we see as the expression of emotional intelligence is emotional labor in action, and we should acknowledge it and reward it as such.
The next step is marking the emotional labor provided and relied on as valuable, and sometimes even vital. Such a marking needn’t necessarily be rewarded with money. Marking a performance as valuable can involve nonmonetary rewards like affording the doer of the task real status, expressing gratitude, and marking the performance as deserving of reciprocity or even an IOU for another type of performance.
For couples seeking to make their relationship more egalitarian, emotional labor sweat equity can start being attained with timekeeping as one way of measuring output, as long as emotional labor is seen as its own category on top of other activities and chores. Whose feelings are being put first? Whose experience is being protected? Who is filtering their emotions for the benefit of the group? Who is taking up space? Negotiating different responsibilities, including sharing the overall responsibility of the well-being of a family unit or a group, or deciding in a way that feels fair who can carry the burden of that responsibility, is an obvious part of it too.
Licensed psychotherapist Shirley Johnson said that she often reminds people who have been in relationships for decades that it is never too late to renegotiate labor divisions or dynamics. Communication lines need to be open. Johnson, who works with individuals and couples, explained in an interview that emotional labor came up especially as an issue in “hetero cis” couples. She agreed with studies and interviews that this was mostly an unequal burden carried by women even if they worked, or by those playing traditional feminine roles in non-breadwinner situations.
But Johnson warned that better dynamics when it came to emotional labor also involved women letting go of what she called “compulsive caretaking at one’s own expense.” This was something the psychotherapist had observed in all people who at one point had been socialized as women, regardless of age, race, ethnicity, or religion. “I see this so prominently in my practice that women are very much in this compulsive caretaking role. And often they don’t know it, and it is so entrenched as the norm in our society. Even the idea that they should keep someone happy. It becomes very toxic.”
Erica, my coffee shop interviewee, was particularly reflective on the amount of personal responsibility she carried in performing an inordinate amount of emotional labor and household duties, on top of working and being the primary parent. “The men say, ‘I didn’t ask you to do it, nobody cares if our kid’s sandwich is cut into little stars.’ That’s always a balance. My husband, when I get frustrated, I come home and I am going to have to do the dishes, and he says, ‘I will do them, I will do them!’ And I say, ‘I know, but I want to start dinner,’ and he says, ‘Why don’t we just order something,’ and I say, ‘I know we can just order something but I have this nice really healthy meal planned for all of us. So that we can stay healthy and not die.’”
Erica’s emotional labor lies in the details of the tasks she performs—injecting thoughtfulness into pretty sandwich cutting and doing what needs to be done to get her husband to be healthy and avoid hereditary heart disease. Some of it she sees as superfluous, and some of it is necessary, even if she ends up caring more for her adult loved one than they are caring for themselves. “The world wouldn’t stop if I didn’t do it,” she told me. “So part of this is that whole balance of how much of this is because we choose to do it, because this is what we think we are expected to do.”
Johnson explained that “often the person doing that labor is scared of handing over that labor because their identity is baked into that labor.” This was something I also encountered in some interviews with parents, particularly a few mothers of toddlers, who were desperate for more hands-on help but were also unwilling to give up much of their role. Erica despaired at the amount of labor, including unpaid emotional labor, she did, but also took some of the blame.
“Part of it is me. I like keeping everyone around me happy. I want to be a good hostess, I want to be a good mom, I want to be a good wife, I want everyone to be happy and healthy. I want to keep our son’s teachers happy. I want to make sure he has all his extra clothes, and he doesn’t run out of diapers.”
Johnson suggested a two-pronged approach to address compulsive caretaking. First, women, or people socialized in feminine roles, needed to learn “to tolerate a bigger array of emotions” and accept that not everyone was going to be happy all the time. Accepting this would lead to the withholding of the labor to other members of the family or the group, who—through the absence of the labor—would be forced into acknowledging it was there. The second component involved each person taking responsibility for their needs, identifying what they were, and seeking to fulfill them, including through communicating them to their partner. “The more each person is caring for their needs, self-caring, the stronger the relationship is,” Johnson said.
Doing an inventory of needs and sharing that with a partner was key not only because it helped fulfill that need but also because it decreased a key component of emotional labor: constant preemptive thoughtfulness. “We are supporting decreasing anticipating one another’s behavior,” Johnson said, as constant projection into the future causes anxiety. This exercise disrupts the notion that one person or group should have their needs seamlessly anticipated and catered to, and another person should be in a constant, anxious state of multidimensional projection.”]
rose hackman, from emotional labor: the invisible work shaping our lives and how to claim our power, 2023
>have problem
>recognize it as part of my divine punishment
>no problem
dawn dimmadome? wife of doug dimmadome, owner of the dimmsdale dimmadome?
actually she took the dimmadome in the dimmadivorce
In 38 years of life I have learned 1 thing;
If anyone is ever training you to replace them in a position and tells you 'its an easy job I don't do much' what this means is that you are about to spend six months to a year catching up on all the stuff they didn't do and sorting out the stuff they did poorly.
In related news I finally managed to finish un fucking my predecessor's lack of a filing system.
Textile art featuring a school of koi fish, by artist Lin Xia.
Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.