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Read first: This is a Frabby-focused RP/ask blog. This Langdon is still married to @/abbyoblivion and will be staying that way while we explore how they rebuild what they broke. I'm more than happy to interact with whomever as long as you're respectful when you enter this space. Don't bring your hate for any character or ship here, and we'll be cool. All love to other ships, but this is mine.

My therapists agreed I should start a blog. I'm paying them to give me advice, so I might as well take it.

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sageisgreengreen

i have infiltrated PTMC. no one tell frankie

franklyimtheproblem

Uh.

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abbyoblivion

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franklyimtheproblem

Look at the dog sitting still!

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do you wear wigs

Um. No?

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genuinely asking this, but because you work and abbys stays home with the kids does that mean you don't have to wake up at all in the night with them?

Kids don't exactly care if one parent is working outside the home and the other is working in it. Of course I'm up if the kids need me.

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franklyimtheproblem

Am I the Asshole?

So I'm 34M and my wife is 23F, and I work as a cardiologist and my wife is an intern, which means I put more into the bills etc. We have a three and five year old, and they usually go into day care.

Yesterday, I had been busy with work so I couldn't clock out early to pick them up so I texted my wife. And she called me angry that I didn't pick them up. So I told her that my job was more prestigious and I can't just drop it whenever our kids need picking up. I told her her job was lower leagues and she didn't do anything there anyway so SHE could go get the kids.

She's annoyed at me and we had an argument last time. Am I the asshole?

YTA x1000. Use your cardiologist's salary to get a nanny and a very, very nice apology gift for your wife. I hear Birkins are sought-after. Maybe send her on a spa trip without you.

Is this really that hard or is your head so far up your own ass that your brain is being crushed?

abbyoblivion

If he couldn't pick them up he could easily ask a relative of his to do so. If it's agreed it's HIS job to do it then he should do it. Also, if his boss tells him he can't finish early to pick his kids up when he's clearly agreed with said boss he needs to go at that time, then he should've left imo.

Also the age difference, wife was 18 when they had their oldest. He's using power imbalances to get his own way.

franklyimtheproblem

I think she has to kill him, Abby.

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Am I the Asshole?

So I'm 34M and my wife is 23F, and I work as a cardiologist and my wife is an intern, which means I put more into the bills etc. We have a three and five year old, and they usually go into day care.

Yesterday, I had been busy with work so I couldn't clock out early to pick them up so I texted my wife. And she called me angry that I didn't pick them up. So I told her that my job was more prestigious and I can't just drop it whenever our kids need picking up. I told her her job was lower leagues and she didn't do anything there anyway so SHE could go get the kids.

She's annoyed at me and we had an argument last time. Am I the asshole?

YTA x1000. Use your cardiologist's salary to get a nanny and a very, very nice apology gift for your wife. I hear Birkins are sought-after. Maybe send her on a spa trip without you.

Is this really that hard or is your head so far up your own ass that your brain is being crushed?

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franklyimtheproblem

frank i also work full time and my wife is making me put my toddler to bed every night when she stays home with her???

Have you considered that this toddler is also yours, that homemaking = whatever you do for work bare minimum, and that parenting involves each parent giving 100% of what they are able for the wellbeing of the child you wanted?

In short, bro, your mindset's the issue. Put your daughter to bed or both she and your wife are going to end up resenting you lol

abbyoblivion

Think his wife already resents him tbh

franklyimtheproblem

Valid. Wife should go on vacation and let her husband feel the loss of what she does for their family.

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BRO I'm screaming

I was put on this earth to antagonize bad fathers.

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frank i also work full time and my wife is making me put my toddler to bed every night when she stays home with her???

Have you considered that this toddler is also yours, that homemaking = whatever you do for work bare minimum, and that parenting involves each parent giving 100% of what they are able for the wellbeing of the child you wanted?

In short, bro, your mindset's the issue. Put your daughter to bed or both she and your wife are going to end up resenting you lol

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