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@from-an-infp
I just heard this woman say “you procrastinate because you are afraid of rejection. It’s a defence mechanism, you are trying to protect yourself without even trying.” and I think I just realized what was wrong with me.
Yep, this is a very, very common reason for procrastinating.  It’s also why procrastination, even though it’s often associated with laziness, is a fairly common trait in a lot of people with anxiety and perfectionism issues.
very nice things
people who notice you’re feeling left out from the conversation and try to include you
people who know that words won’t change the fact that you’re sad so they sit quietly and be sad with you
people who send memes to you when you’re sad to cheer you up
people who understand you need your space and time to be alone
People who understand that they don’t understand
so im at work and bagging for this lady and her little kid and the kids askin me about what its like being a big kid and all that so he goes “do you have a girlfriend? is she pretty?” and i live in a pretty liberal area and it was pretty quiet in the store so i just calmly responded “actually i have a boyfriend, but he’s fairly pretty” and the mom just kinda pauses on her phone and looks down at her son like please dont say anything bad please dont embarrass me but he just gets so fuckin excited and is like “you can do that ???? i didnt know boys were allowed to have boyfriends!!” and hes turns to his mom and is pulling at her phone trying to get her attention and is just really excited like “mom did you know that ? can i have a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend ??” and she just started laughing and was like “if you want sure” and they took their groceries and left and im just standing there like
DID THAT JUST HAPPEN
THAT WAS SO CUTE
out of all the aspects of millennial-bashing, i think the one that most confuses me is the “millennials all got trophies as a kid, so now they’re all self-centered narcissists” theory
like— kids are pretty smart, y’all. they can see that...
One of my best friends is INFP!
Nice, INFP unite!! :) Some of my closest friends are INFP as well as my mom
Signs an INFP is interested?
We will hang on to every word you say, laugh unnecessarily, get self conscious and awkward in normal conversations, look at you when we think you cant see (doesnt everyone do that?), wait until we are 100% sure that we like you to say something (maybe it's best if you initiate the romantic stuff or you might be waiting a while).. once we've opened up, we will invest a ton of emotion into the relationship. We will value your opinions and probably will ask what you think about things that are important to us. If they tell you things about themselves that are not common knowledge or talk about feelings then thats probably a good sign
There’s a lot of young people who are going to be eligible to vote in America during this election so in light of the fact that this website is currently thrumming with political interest I’d just like to remind them that abstaining from voting is not useful or radical, it’s playing right into the hands of the people who want this country to progress backwards. I can guarantee you that there will be an ENORMOUS conservative turn out and if the younger generation doesn’t match it it will literally be a disaster
What's the best way to show an INFP how much you care about them?
INFP have so many different sides, we have a deep emotional side, a fun and hilarious side, a loving side, a dark side, and everything between. And each part of us we feel so intensely. Yes it is nice when people like us when we are in our friendly public side, but what I think would be the best way to show you care, is show that you appreciate all sides of them. If we are upset or mad, don't be distant, let us act insane around you and let loose and be able to laugh about it, listen to us and all of our ideas (if we're talking about it, it must be important). I love the people who do this for me. Â
sometimes im really excited about things and i want to tell everyone but then i remember nobody cares and i just sit there like
to tell or not to tell
This is me on so many levels.
5 WAYS TO MAKE UR LIFE BETTER:
1. Let go of anger. It is much easier to forgive and forget than you think. Holding on to grudges doesn’t help anyone.
2. Stop focusing on who you are not or what will happen in the future. Live in the moment and learn to love your life right now! If you live every year waiting on the next, I guarantee you will regret it when you realize that living like that will never truly satisfy you.
3. Realize that there are literally no rules. Somehow we have grown accustomed to listening to imaginary societal standards for so many different things, but NONE of them matter. There is NO specific thing (career, relationship, children, level of confidence, etc.) you should or shouldn’t have at a certain age. Stating your opinion (whether it is the same as those around you or not) will NEVER be a bad thing. And so on..
4. Smile more. At strangers, at your family, at yourself in the mirror. Just smile :)
5. LIE TO YOURSELF. I know it’s hard, but replacing your negative thoughts with positive ones can change your whole day. Saying “it’s okay, this is only temporary” or “I know I can get through this” or “he doesn’t deserve me” or “I’m a fricking awesome person”, even if you don’t believe it, can make your day 100x better. If you spout off positive words that you may not believe in, you will eventually start to realize that they are true :) it is so much easier to reject negative thoughts than you think.
I wanna know what people assume about me because of my tumblr.
Put an assumption in my ask. I’ll confirm or dispute it. I’m not gonna be mean or anything, I’m just very interested.
having 3 friends is a lot of work
The way you treat yourself is the standard you set for others.
Unknown (via psych2go)
Life is all about the little decisions you make everyday. You cant change the decisions of the past, but every new day is another opportunity to make the right ones.
(via positive-outlooks)
I'm really into an INTJ, but I'm not sure if she likes me back? Background: We're both female (and swing that way), we've become pretty good friends since then (strong mental/emotional connection)She can't stop smiling around me (but she's a cheerful person anyway), and she got all blushy and wouldn't make eye contact when some of our mutual friends were talking about her ideal girl (she doesn't usually get flustered) Idk I'm probably overanalyzing due to the fact that I like her. ~confused IXFP
I would take those as good signs! I have an INTJ friend who I've never seen get blushy like that, so maybe she likes you back! You should straight out tell her how you feel about her, and then you will know for sure. <3
I'm an infp which I guess is accurate. I don't know what to do with my life. I'm in my last year of college getting a Bachelor's degree in psych but idk what to do after this. I thought I wanted to become a clinical psychologist but I just don't know anymore. I like many things but I can't focus my interests. Recently my best friend recommended I try acting/performing. She said there were lots of introverts who are actors. Idk if she's telling the truth and I'm scared to try. Thoughts?
I think it is difficult for infp to find the right job since we want to do something we're passionate about. Being a psychologist is a great idea since it involves helping others and using intuition to understand people. If acting is something that you are passionate about then go for it! If you look on celebritytypes.com there are a ton of actors who are introverts and INFP. However, I'm not sure that would be a reliable consistent source of income. It's a difficult decision, but I think going into psychology would be a good idea since you already put in the work for this long. Then in the future you can still look into acting. The best way to decide is to just try something out rather than waiting. Good luck!
INFP Things #64
Seeing beauty in everyone since we're all the same
