10 Members to go.
This is a post from one of the admin. (Linda).And I have some words to say.
This is my own opinion so if you have any comments, feel free to put it in the ask box, disagreeing or agreeing. I will not hold back, even if I cuss.
I know some of you feel betrayed when kris left and think it's all his fault because he was selfish and didn't tell anyone prior to leaving, especially his members. So you learned to hate him. And now that luhan is leaving, due to the same reason, except for the fact that he warned everyone, he is presented with support nomatter where he goes. And I think that's unfair. We, as one, should stay as one right? Fuck, we as a fandom are as important as the members themselves. Because we are supposed to be family. We are freaking one. Even if you say you hate kris now, at one point you used to think he was some awkward clumsy uncool derp, but you still thought of him as part of the group, whether or not if he was your bias. Because believe it or not, he and the other members loved eachother like brothers.
So stop assuming he left because 1. it was all a part of his plan to get famous and leave. Because if he really wanted to train all those fucking years with a fake smile and fake laughter in his face all these years, then wow is he persistant. Unless you heard it yourself from his very own mouth, don't go acting like sherlock holmes, trying to collect what little bit of clues you have from what you think shows that he was accting all along. Because we all know kris sucks at acting cool, and acting in general. So when he cried during the time he saw his training video. Tears like that just doesn't come out forced.
He left because he knew the liftestyle wasn't right for him. His health was on the line. And his career wasn't going anywhere in general. Even if you still think he was being selfish, sometimes health is important too. You have to be selfish sometimes if your life was on the line. If you didn't feel like something was right for you, will you still do it? The members would have want the same for him as well. While everyone is being manipulated by sms words, you really think the members hate him? Of course not. Words are words but have you seen their eyes.
There is a saying. If you cry, it means you care. Not everyone are good actors and not everyone can fucking cry and hate someone at the same time.
Of course theyre mad at him for leaving because sometimes when someone is being abandoned, theyre not only crying because theyre mad, theyre crying because that person is dear to them and they will miss them alot. Kris still freaking follow some of the members on instagram. If he was really seeking attention, he be updating his instagram as much as he can and everything.
So I hope when luhan leaves, noone hates him as well. And I hope noone fucking uses the chinese shit either.
Yeah the idol life is hard, you have to deal with it. But if you were an idol, and you were forced to do shows, do world tours, have a comeback soon, and skip meals, not go to the hospital while your awfully sick, and not sleep, are you freaking human anymore? I dont think any human, nevertheless idols should go through that. Not just sm, but other idols like the leader of zea stood up and confronted about how his company was horribly treating him, so yeah idol life is hard, but it shouldn't be a near death hard. And maybe alot ofo ther idols go through that as well and theyre just fine. But if thyere so fine, then why after kris left, so many other shit from other idols start unriveling. Alt of idols are getting fedd up. You can only hold off of something for so long. Alot of idols are dealing with it because theyre still getting fame and recongnition, but what about kris? He barely gets any show offers, he doesn't sing mainly or dance mainly, he can't get acting offers, and people say he doesn't get them because he isn;t talented enough? So why when he left, he quickly got a acting offer, and even made a song? He left because he knew staying in that shitty company won't get him anywhere. And If you were a chinese man flying all the way to korea to start a career, leaving your family behind, you would at least want your freaking name to be heard and make it worthwhile.
So I support him for leaving. And since this is the second time, it wasn't hard to see luhan go. I support him as well. But I just hope nomatter what happens to exo. We all hold no grudges because we are still family. Family can split to be somewhere else, but at the en of the day, they are still family.
