Fugue a moi

Dani 24 becoming a psychoanalyst in Berlin, tell me about your daddy issues --I am gay

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Timm Ulrichs, “Wolf im Schafspelz – Schaf im Wolfspelz: Ein Verwandlungskunststück (Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing - Sheep in Wolf’s Clothing: A conversation piece)” (2005/10): Ulrichs demonstrates a sharp wit with this smart arrangement of objects. Here he presents a literal translation of the Biblical idiom of the “wolf in sheep’s clothing” and pits across its opposite, the inverted metaphor “sheep in wolf’s clothing.” It’s interesting to witness how simply changing the exterior of each stuffed animal seems to change the physiology and the expressiveness of the animal. In this case, the skeletal interior seems to preserve the animal’s inner “essence,” since the sheep in wolf’s clothing looks like a docile wolf, while the wolf in sheep’s clothing looks like a predator sheep.

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This is so cool 😆😁 vid by @extraweg on insta 🤘💀🤘

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back on tumblr lol, still depressed and horny

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The threat today is not passivity, but pseudo-activity, the urge to “be active”, to “participate”, to mask the nothingness of what goes on.

Slavoj Žižek (via nova2yung)

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Ok I need to say something that I will probably get hate for

I get the increased visibility on people with ASPD not being inherently bad. I’m one of those people. I want everyone to know that no, having ASPD does not make you a bad person. 

However, I feel like this has been spun to a very wild extreme. I’ve seen an influx of recent posts saying that only the people with ASPD who fit NT’s perception of ‘nice’ and ‘good’ people count, and that the others are just fakers and bad people. This isn’t really a fair representation of people with aspd. 

By nature, we are antisocial. No, that doesn’t mean we are murderous assholes and gaslighting manipulators, but people need to appreciate and accept that we are symptomatic. 

People are trying to pretend, at the moment, that those with aspd act, feel, and behave in a similar way to NTs, and therefore are worthy. But we have symptoms. No, I don’t think of myself as a bad person, but I am symptomatic of my personality disorder. People have taken our attempt to redeem ourselves to a wild extreme in perceiving and accepting us as their version of ‘good’ people and expelling everyone who they see as ‘bad’ which, tbh, are the ones who actually display symptoms of aspd.

What we need to do is just cut out all the extremes and accept people with ASPD for what they are. Let’s stop saying that we’re all evil and gaslighting manipulators, and let’s stop saying that only the morally unambiguous and those who try to be perfectly ‘good’ are worthy of your support. Because that’s not realistic. Can we just start portraying us as we are, instead of flitting between the dramatics of evil manipulators and perfect angels because that does not accurately portray us, and it doesn’t help those who are struggling with it. If I was wondering if I had aspd and I came here, I would feel much worse, rather than enlightened.

So, please, from someone with aspd, can we begin by accepting those with ASPD for what we are, rather than try to pretend that we are either ‘good’ or ‘bad’ with no middle ground.

(I also need to say that I’m not excusing abuse in the slightest. I’m not ok with it and I’m not saying we need to accept it)

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“MRY”

[fugue-a-moi]

Now that I know how it feels when someone who was close to you died, I just can say that it’s so hard to realize it. It rather feels like he is on a long vacation, you get used of is absence but it feels like he’s still there

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vertical landscapes

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The "Doing the project the night before and it's still better than yours" Squad

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Gemini, Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Scorpio, And Pisces