â some aces like sex! â
okay
â some aces can seek out sex! â
o..okay..
â some aces enjoy sex with their partner, seek it out, and enjoy the experience!â
uh, yeah, thats sexual attractionâŠ.?? thats like saying gay men seek out female partners the fuck are you even saying
Thatâs literally not sexual attraction. You think the only reason someone would enjoy sex or seek it out from their partner is because theyâre sexually attracted to them? Eww.
this is what that âew icky sexual attractionâ concept does to people :/
Sexual attraction is an attraction to a person. Enjoying sex is not sexual attraction.
Honestly, thinking that sexual attraction has to be present is ludicrous, because otherwise prostitutes wouldnât exist. Do you think people are attracted to many prostitutes? Letâs be honest, there are some ugly, crashes out prostitutes who still get business. A lot of the time itâs just people wanting to have sex because it feels good.
- Blue
Arenât asexuals beings without sexual desires? To have sex doesnât require you to be attracted to the person but it does require the desire to simply want sex, unless itâs rape. However OP mentions an asexual person seeking sex and enjoying it with a partner. Including the following arguments of saying sexual attraction isnât required, sexual attraction is sexually desiring someone. With that said. If an asexual person was someone who had sexual desires and seeked sex with a partner, arenât they just a person who likes loveless sex and not asexual at all? If anything I would understand calling them aromantic if they must have a label.
Like, I love my fiancé. I enjoy the act of sex. I like making him happy and feel good. I enjoy having sex with him.
But I donât experience sexual attraction. To anyone. I donât feel what others feel when they see someone attractive.
But still, sex is fun. I enjoy it. He enjoys it. So I enjoy having sex with him.
Think of it this way, if you get the urge to masturbate, does that mean youâre sexually attracted to your hand? Of course not.
- Blue
Iâm having a hard time comprehending how that makes literally any sense because itâs such a blatant contradiction.
>I love my fiance
>I enjoy the act of sex
>I enjoy having sex with him
>But I donât experience sexual attraction
You see the contradiction right? Iâm not in the fucking twilight zone here am I?
I also like how you inadvertently compared having sex with your fiance to masturbation, that was fucking funny. Because sex is obviously just like masturbation.Â
Anyway, if you want sex or experience sexual attraction or have a sex drive, youâre not asexual
âI donât experience sexual attraction but I experience sexual attractionâ
Can y'all maybe just accept that youâre an âicky allosexualâ and move on
âI donât like eating broccoli but I get enjoyment from putting it in my mouth, chewing it, and swallowing itâ
this is so confusing
I feel like Iâm having a stroke
Iâm fucking done with y'all Holy shit
âIf you get the urge to masturbate, does that mean youâre sexually attracted to your hand?â
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