sankofa.

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[ninuile]

[roua-poemului]

may your next lover be the reason you’ve waited and endured for so long.

[sacredmanifestations]

When I see myself, I see sophistication, beauty, luxury, softness, gentleness, and goodness.

[hwaetis]

powerful women recognise each other

[bakwaaas]

gentleness and softness and sweetness

[fairyinthetrees]

the feminine urge to just fucking do it yourself

[garmentpurist-deactivated202603]

I love getting older. I’m hotter, more confident, more intelligent. Ageism is a dirty trap. Don’t get caught in it.

[goth-queen]

[floriental]

“He felt warm and familiar. He felt solid and safe. I wanted to cling to his shirt, bury my face into the warm curve of his neck, and never let go.”

— Becca Fitzpatrick, Crescendo 

[tragicburnout]

a solid man is a stress-reliever. your whole body softens in his presence

[woman-respecter]

whenever i see a woman caring about men’s feelings or men’s mental health i am like girl please worry about your own rights first.

[dreamgirlvibes]

[petaltexturedskies]

One day you’ll have whatever it is you’re now so confusedly seeking. That kind of calm that comes from knowing oneself and others. But you can’t rush the arrival of that state of mind. There are things you only learn when no one teaches them. And that’s how it is with life. There’s even more beauty in discovering it for yourself, in spite of the suffering.

Clarice Lispector, from “Gertrudes asks for advice” in The Complete Stories

[keenbugg]

probably the most important post of the whole decade

[fullnessandfire]

random thoughts

spent Christmas in Ghana, it was wonderful. that being said, I do not like the fact that Ghana has become a vacation spot. costs were UP, plus it was giving spring break in the airport on my way back. tacky.

hit my lowest weight a few days ago. from 320 to 170, 7 years after WLS. Currently microdosing zepbound for maintenance.

work is work. this year i want to make $xxx,000 without killing myself picking up shifts. having money is a beautiful thing.

for the first time in the history of my life, i'm *kinda* talking to multiple men at once. one of them is non-Black (!). we will see.

i'm more sensual & horny in my 30s than i ever could have been in my 20s.

2026 is the year that I do things without over thinking. last month i saw an IG ad for a Kes concert at the Lincoln Center...bought the ticket on a whim and ended up LOVING it. i love Kes but wasn't in the mood that day and almost didn't go, so glad i ignored that part of my brain and had a good time.

i can go days-weeks without thinking about my former best friend & her betrayal.

i frequently have to remind myself that i'm right on time and there is no such thing as being too late.

yesterday i had 3 pregnant patients, all over the age of 40.

this year i will align myself with more fun, spontaneity, adventure, passion, sex, travel, etc.

[hollysdekker]

Alfred Enoch as Isaac Fagbenle in Run Away (TV series)

[in-love-with-movies]

The Departed (2006)