The worst part of "not all men" is that it's just a pointless phrase.
Not everyone is a thief, you still lock your doors at night. You're not generalizing all your neighbors as thieves.
Not everyone is a mugger or a pickpocket. You still keep your valuables close to you when out and about. You're not "assuming everyone around you is inherently a criminal".
The cries of generalizing and not all men are really confusing because they babble on and on about how likely or unlikely certain crimes are....... but then say nothing about what it is, exactly, that they want us to do.
"Not all men are bad"... so women shouldn't be cautious at night?
"Not all men are bad"... so women shouldn't be careful and get the license plate number when meeting someone new?
Like, at the heart of the "not all men" cry is just "your caution upsets me".
And why, why, why, would an innocent person be so personally pissed off and offended by a total stranger not instantaneously trusting them?
"Not all men" Okay, so, what EXACTLY fucking is it that you're asking of us?