natural creations

[mienhar3l]

DANGERS OF RICE CEREAL

Here Here Here

DANGERS OF GIVING YOUR BABIES FOOD BEFORE 5-6 MONTHS Here Here Here

Educate yourselves. Things that were ‘okay’ 20 years ago aren’t actually okay. Things that your mom/friend/sister/cousin/great aunt Joan have all done and their babies turned out “fine"… doesn’t mean every baby will turn out fine. Doesn’t make it okay. That’s like saying you sped down the road at 110mph and didn’t get in a wreck so it’s obviously safe. Where’s the flaw there? It’s not safe. Science has proven it. So please, educate yourselves.

[future-mama]

Funding for Life Is Too Short

I am looking to go to Korea and Japan within the next year or two. 

I know a lot of people look down on asking for money, however, I don't have money sitting in a heaping pile beside my bed and I know for sure that won't be able to go without help. 12,000 is my goal... 

I am baby sitting, mowing lawns, dog sitting, house sitting, cleaning houses, doing laundry and much more just to get enough money since jobs are here are few and far between.

I am learning Korean and Japanese to the best of my ability, and without proper help I might fail miserably. I am not asking for you to donate hundreds of dollars, I just.. kind of want to do this really bad. I've pushed my TTC date to 2018. Which is really sad for me but I realized something... I haven't lived really.

I can't find a proper job, or anything and it's really getting to me. I am twenty one almost and I've never had an experience outside of home that left me somewhat wiser. I want a cutural experience that left me aching for more and begging to go back.

This trip, will be six weeks. 

3 weeks in Japan.

3 weeks in Korea.

If you don't like this, then don't read it, but ... this is important to me.. 

[future-mama]

My hours are litterally fucked up. I slept all day again.

[future-mama]

I'm kind of hungry right now, been cleaning all day well since about 7am ish... the curse of having eight indoor cats.... all that fur... it's everywhere.

[brainycomics]

[future-mama]

I... don't know.. I mean with the twins it hurt but... It wasn't like I was dying until the contractions felt like they were never ending....

[allergictoadulting-deactivated2]

Toddlers are NOT naughty or disobedient or manipulative. They are normal little people who are learning.

[future-mama]

And that is why you have to teach them right from wrong, and tell them that taking turns is good and to be patient and to keep quiet when the time calls for it. There is a place for playing and place for behaving yourself.

[mama-bearj]

Please reblog if you are a non-judgmental Mumblr.

As in you don’t care if someone circumcises their son, or pierces their daughters ears. Or uses cloth diapers or decides to strictly formula feed. Making a separate page on my blog with a list of you all!!

[future-mama]

If your child kept a diary would you read it?

In my own opinion I don't think it's a good idea, unless you feel like something serously wrong is going on then I'd let them have their safe place. Without it many teenagers and kids feel traped and scrutinized for their opinions at a very important time in their life where everything they do is questioned.

What do you think?

[cavonchong]

July 1st 12dpo 3 days till AF due HPT I feel like I see a faint line but I feel like my eyes are playing tricks… Can you see anything?

[future-mama]

I see a line, but it looks a little pink and grey. I think its positive. :D

Lots of baby dust your way.

[future-mama]

To Do

* Force someone to hire me and pay me money

* Get Drivers Licenses (I'm lame)

* Get car

* Save Money ($5,000 for move to Tulsa. OK)

* Start job search in Tulsa from home.

* Start apartment search in Tulsa from home

* Move to Tulsa, hopefully with a job that pays AT LEAST $10 an hour, and 40 hours a week.

* Start buying baby stuff.

* Make sure I'm healthy enough to have a baby.

* Decide on a sperm donor (I've done this already actually)

* Buy sperm ($2,050 muuulaaahh D:) 

* Get Pregnant

* Go to NY before baby is born (before I'm 6 months)

If anyone is curious, I have been "single" since I was 16, and I have no interest in dating or whatever. I don't get along with most people so it's hard for me to even consider dating. I know having a baby while you're antisocial is probably frowned upon but I want a little child in my life reguardless of how much I hate people. 

This is my goal list... it's very long term... so anyone in killeen wanna give me a job?

[future-mama]

I actually have a regular period after freaking...11 years

I have never been regular... well not until this year. I actually get my period around the same time. I usually have signs as well, mild cramping the week leading up - tender breasts and fuckin' lighting crotch from hell, holy shit that hurts.

I also get super sleeping and weak, and I know when I'm ovulation because well ;) I'm in the mood. My app says I'm due to start my period on the 7th of July... I am out of my fertile zone.

My cycle runs about 33 days and my doctor told me a typical cycle ranges from 28 - 35 days for most women. Between the ages of 12 - 19 I could go months without even getting a period, and it was super weird it's just recent'y that I started having a real pattern going on here. :)

I actually enjoy knowing when I'm going to start - keeps me from leaking. I generally start at night too, it's weird. 

Does anyone else have signs? Did anyone else struggle with their periods when they were  younger?

[acherise-blog]

“The many benefits of rear facing car seats, narrated by a grandfather, of a true accident involving his 18 mo old grandson who suffered a broken neck while in a front facing car seat." 

  If you haven’t considered extended rear facing, PLEASE watch this video and consider the facts it provides! Extended rear facing could save your child’s life. 

[art-of-waiting-deactivated20130]

From Uncommon Goods

[pro-choice-teddy-bear-blog]

It’s ok to have an abortion because you don’t want to go through a pregnancy.

[pro-choice-teddy-bear-blog]

Anti-choicers talk about pregnancy as though it’s a minor inconvenience.  Guess what?  It’s not.  Being pregnant can be really, really shitty.  Some people have unbearable morning sickness!  Some people have tokophobia (phobia of being pregnant)!  Some people just don’t want to be pregnant right now, or ever.  And that is fine.  It is your body and you get to decide what happens to it.  That right extends to pregnancy.  You need to do what’s right for you and that’s ok.

[raisingkings]

Can you mama's do a favor?

I have a friend who’s looking to talk to / follow women who’ve miscarried and who’ve carried a healthy pregnancy afterwards.

So please like or reblog this to help her out!! (:

[future-mama]

Ugh

How do you teach a boy (my cousin) how to not get so angry. He has always had severe anger issues. He is on Concerta and Adderoll because of them and he gets so angry all the time.

He calls people names and when I try to give him logical advice all I get is "Okay." I know he has called his older sister a cunt before when she laughed when he tripped over a rug (like we've all done a million times) and it makes no sense to me. I know he has no daddy, his daddy ain't around so he was raised by his momma. 

She doesn't force him to do anything. He takes the dogs out, gives them water and feeds them and that is all she expects him to do. He will be 17 this year.

He has never held a job, he has had several girlfriends in a short time span and I know that doesn't mean anything but he has no general respect for girls and doesn't take women seriously. It makes me want to beat him over the head sometimes and no matter what the advice I give him he snort/laughs and it makes me want to spank him with a switch >_>

I don't like being that angry, I NEVER want to be that way with my kids but if they give me any of the  trouble he is giving his mother I'd beat his behind regaurdless that he is almost grown. I know, if he knew he could get away with it - he'd abuse his mother and sister but his sister is heavy handed and he knows thats a dangerous thing to even try.

Does anyone have advice for teenagers like this?

[future-mama]

All of a sudden

I feel completely unsure about my TTC date.

My mom mentioned something about not being able to have an outside birthday party because it will still be super cold out when his or her birthday rolls around. This really made me start thinking, I mean I have plenty of time to really make a solid decision but I feel like time is slipping through my fingers. 

Finding a job is becoming more of a hassel than I'd like to admit, and I want to have moved to Tulsa and have gotten settled in before I get pregnant. 2016 is starting to look too close for comfort right now and it might even pushed off if I can't find a job within the next four months.

I had an interview with Target, and they emailed me; telling me I wasn't what they were looking for. I have seriously 0 retail experience but I don't know how they expect me to ever get any experience if they don't hire me. This is so frustrating and I wish I knew people who could just let me work for them and then give me like 7k to and then I could me on merry way. 

I know that that reality isn't going to happen. I've always had to work for what I wanted, a lot of people I know have things handed to them and I am so jealous - I wish there was a way for easy money.

College is one way but It won't be enough to help me move even with the left over fasfa. I think a lot of people can understand my discouragement. I have applied at over 15 jobs in the past month and not one (except Target) has called me.

Tips?