future-tradwife

Early 30's woman who recently realized she wants to be a tradwife, feminine not feminist. Currently single, looking for like-minded female friends, so feel free to message me! I'm bad about staying on Tumblr, so ask me for my discord. SFW 💗I will block NSFW accounts that follow me

[andallshallbewell]

[takecareofwomen]

Women without children or family plans also have the right to be homekeepers, stay at home, and be fully provided for.

[feralfaelife]

[future-tradwife]

My ideal life

[dollypartonswig]

[lightthewaybackhome]

Practical Thoughts for a Young Homemaker: Attitude — HearthKeeper

Homemaking isn’t so much the work we do as it is the heart with which we do it.

Excerpt: We all cook, clean, and do laundry. We all keep the house. But that’s not homemaking. Those are tools we employ in our great endeavor. Homemaking is a heart pointed towards these specific people and pouring ourselves out for their sake. It’s not just washing our husband’s clothes, but doing it with joy because we love him. It’s not just baking cookies, but baking cookies for a friend because we love them. It’s not simply, never just simply, decorating, but creating an environment that encourages engagement with others.

Nothing in the world will be actual homemaking if our attitudes are off.

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While this article is addressed to a woman new to homemaking, I found it to be an uplifting reminder as I started my day, so I hope it's helpful to everyone. Share what you do to help sustain a good attitude.

[vanalex]

Goodmorning 🤍💜

Happy Monday 💜🪻

[jesuspilled]

[traditionalgirlme]

are place is at home

[trdvalues]

[everlastinghistory]

Ah yes, you look very feminist telling women they can’t be a housewife or stay at home mom or traditionally feminine because “it’s a step backwards”.

Just saying if your idea of feminism requires women to abandon all traditionally feminine things (and involves believing all women who are housewives will end up in an abusive situation because “all men are abusive eventually” even though feminism is about gender equality and you’re also ignoring that not all women are straight), maybe you’re not the feminist you think you are.

[everlastinghistory]

Stop using Hannah Neeleman (Ballerina Farm) as an excuse to claim all housewives are miserable.

Yes, Hannah is in a horrible situation. What you are missing here is that SHE IS IN A CULT. She is LITERALLY in a cult. Her being harassed for 6 months and forced into that lifestyle is insanely different than women who willingly choose it on their own.

I 100% think Hannah deserves freedom from that relationship. But the problem in that relationship is not that she’s a housewife or a stay at home mom.

It’s that she and her husband are in an actual cult. Their values are not traditional. They were created by a cult.

Hannah is not a tradwife. Nothing about their situation is traditional. Her husband is a billionaire. She has millions of followers on social media. She competes in beauty pageants. She’s not a tradwife.

The problem is that they’re in a cult.

[justatradwife]

[notsomodernwoman]

I love a good a line dress

[future-tradwife]

A line and retro dresses are amazing

[eananoor]

I want to be a loving woman, a soft woman, always.

[theambitiouswoman]

This woman has a lot of self love, and a lot of boundaries. That is how she remains in this essence.

[eananoor]

"O' but to be human is to be a fantastical bundle of both flaws and wonders."

To: The Ambitious Woman 🪶

Thank you for your very kind words, for your notice of my efforts to not only protect my essence, but to nourish her. 🕯️

But I too have found myself lost in forms of "love" that I believed were love. Thankfully, I have not allowed the pain to harden me. In fact, such losses have only taken me back to my self, to my soul. For where there is vulnerability, there is strength, and where there is softness, there is courage. If we truly seek to love and honor who we are, then we must learn to be honest to and soft with our heart and her needs. ❤️

I have learned that true love (of all kinds) does not lead to ruin. A breaching of boundaries is an invite for chaos. Therefore, we must not seek to fall in love. But to rise from the love we share with others. Apart from our divine connection to God, this is the only other form of love worthy of our time here on earth. 🤍

[everlastinghistory]

[fettssmile]

[feralfaelife]

[exquisitelytrad-deactivated2024]

♥︎♥︎♥︎ it's a blessing!

[thehouseofmorningstar34]

Manifesting I want kids so bad 😔

But I'm terrified that mentally I will never be ready 😔

I'm 23 and I feel so far behind

[exquisitelytrad-deactivated2024]

23 is still young I had my baby at 22, and my mom had her first at the same age too.

for us we took it one child at a time, forever I thought mentally I couldn't ever handle a second child but I have always been very happy with our one and only. Never ever would I regret that.

I also think no one is ever actually ready, especially when they talk about the cost of kids, because you can't predict if they'll be healthy or what sports they're into etc.

It's best to not worry too much and stay joyful :)

They say a lot of people having kids in their 30s even if I haven't been able to at 32, I do know a friend who did successfully have healthy babies in her 30s, and a few who even managed miracle healthy babies at 40! I don't regret just trying as soon as we got married, I do regret not calming down mentally about having multiple children, but it's ok. God gives us whatever he knows we can handle in my experience.

[modern-tradwife-deactivated2024]

Cottagecore witches and religious tradwives exist on the same frequency and need to be best friends.

Both can:

Connect with a God or Gods

Have a nurturing spirit

Value home and hearth

Love things that grow

Embrace slow living and mindfulness

Be abundantly creative

Be fashionable af

For real, am I projecting here? Am I wrong? How many of us started with the former and ended up the latter. C'mon show of hands. 🖐

[future-tradwife]

Me! And I'd still consider myself a cottagecore witch tradwife lol

[feralfaelife]

[takecareofwomen]

The media and SAH women

We need books, films, TV shows that re-normalise women staying at home. A mix of historical and modern women. A mix of wealthy women supported by rich husbands and couples/families who live simply and modestly. Idyllic countryside and gritty urban. Mothers or simply homemakers. All ethnicities. Young and old. Many different sorts of women, all allowed to stay at home. Media that reveals the stresses and sufferings of females in the paid workforce (including single mothers) and the relief and freedom when a man starts taking care of them. Media which, in the background of the story, shows the skills, dignity, duties and pleasures of homemaking. Alternatives to today’s ideology.