heaux reminders
* you are in control of how much money you make. it is the law of attraction. you are a siren. you are a cash magnet. you are opulent. you are expensive. excuses, negativity, insecurity, and victimhood will never pay your bills.
* stack your fucking money and use allowances towards what is going to give you affluence and net worth. don’t let the internet rush you into splurging on chanel for temporary happiness. it’s only going to keep you from having the lifestyle you’re truly striving for.
* invest in your body and only spend what is going to make you more money. plastic surgery, skincare, gym memberships, and veneers are always going to give you a quadruple return. routine spa days are such a treat to your mental health and prevents burnout. the rest of it can be put on a man’s tab.
* use successful men as your educators. is he an investment banker? you can get thousands of dollars of investment services for free. diversify your portfolio. is he a multi million business owner? use him to start up your own business. is he a tax advisor? you can save thousands in taxes with a wink of an eye. this is advice google can’t give you.
* there’s always money in the club. every man with a credit card is full of potential. just because he says he can’t afford it, doesn’t mean he can’t. it’s up to you to make him fall in love with you, or the next girl. it only takes one.
* make a handwritten schedule and stick to it. this allows you to capitalize the most out of your time. never waste it… use your schedule as your own personal assistant. this helps alleviate the stress of adulting. every day can be contributed towards your success.
* write down your goals often and always remind yourself of the big picture. create a vision board of your success. visualize it. dream about it. obsess over it. conceptualize it. manifest it into fruition.
* eye contact, confidence, and a smile. eye contact, confidence, and a smile. eye contact, confidence, and a smile.
* your sexual health is important. routine full panel std blood tests are important. gynecologists are your friend. never ever trust a man.
* never make assumptions. just because he hasn’t been spending, doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a stack in his pocket. just because he said no to her, doesn’t mean he will say no to you. you are the dream girl he’s been waiting for.
* always be grateful and always stay gracious. truly appreciate what you have and your capabilities to have even more. you are so blessed and you are so lucky.
