Once a cheater, always a cheater?
I’m not entirely sure if that sentiment applies to everyone. Though for some, it definitely holds true. The fact that there are people who can witness firsthand the damage that their disloyalty has inflicted on someone’s life, then turn around and do it again is mind-boggling. At that point, cheating isn’t just a singular act (or multiple acts) of betrayal, it's mental illness.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not judging those who don’t believe in monogamy. I am, however, judging those who don’t believe in monogamy, but spend a lifetime convincing their partners that they do. To those who cheat: have you ever considered that there is a better alternative, that you could simply stop exploring relationships with people who desire exclusivity? Is it a thrill for you to see someone else in pain? If the roles were reversed, would you experience that pain yourself? Or would you feel a different kind of hurt? Not the heartache that comes with a lover’s betrayal, but the grief that occurs as a result of learning your game is no longer single player? A sort of defeat; powerlessness.
“It’s easier for rich people to cheat because they don’t have to face the consequence: being alone.”
Sure. Celebrities and those of a higher status will always have a flock behind them regardless of their scandalous behavior. But do the birds really squawk so loud that any semblance of self-reflection is completely drowned out? Are V.I.P.s so far removed from the rest of us that they’ve lost the ability to feel remorse? Is guilt no longer expressable? If all else fails, the mental penalty should be enough to keep someone from cheating (again). It should cause them anguish to know that their actions have hurt someone they care for. If the mental penalty no longer works…..respectfully, seek help.
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