Love’s not always a walk in the park holding hands while sipping on an iced strawberry matcha latte, Bunny…
My homegirl @urrmomzfavorite & I collaborated on twin pick-a-card readings regarding jealousy in your union with your future spouse!
On my blog, we’ll explore how your destined lover will react when you display jealous feelings. On her side, she reveals how your spouse will act when they’re the one jealous! To pick a reading, don’t overthink it; choose the one that draws you in the most. Keep in mind that this reading is intended as playful guidance, not absolute truth. Always use your discernment & take only what resonates.
Your future spouse will feel conflicted when they realize you are jealous, Bunny. On one hand, they’ll feel quite melancholic honestly. Your destined lover thought they made you feel seen, loved and appreciated in your connection, so your jealousy will make them doubt their worth as the ideal partner for you. They might spiral for a little bit and judge themselves harshly. How can they act so foolishly that they’d make you doubt, even for a second, the depth of their devotion to you? This will ignite a deep desire to get to know this part of you better so that they can improve their role as your lover. Immediately after their sulky phase, they’ll start brainstorming on how to make it up to you and how to show up in the future. They’ll want to release any doubt you might have of their commitment to your union.
Your future spouse will even start to resent the thing that ignited your jealousy in the first place. If you were jealous of their relationship with someone else, they’ll instantly want to back away from this person especially if it’s someone that they aren’t particularly close with. If it’s a colleague, for example, they could develop an uncontrollable disdain for this person, even if the other party doesn’t necessarily deserve it… If they come to realize this person was flirting with them and they didn’t notice before your jealousy, they’ll do their best to cut all ties with this individual. Be careful, because they’d even be willing to sacrifice things they care about to make this happen, like a job, a group of friends or a hobby. Your future spouse is someone polite and friendly, but this event will make them realize that some people may come towards them with hidden intentions. They’ll conduct some research on how to recognize that someone is secretly attracted to them, it may seem weird but your partner may not know much about that for any specific reason. They could come from a place where people have different behavioural habits, they could have difficulty understanding the subtle way the opposite sex flirts (if it applies) or they may simply be neurodivergent and they aren’t good at discerning innuendoes…
On the other hand, they’ll find your jealousy attractive and they’ll see it as a learning opportunity and an opportunity for growth in your relationship. They’ll love that they’re still learning new things about you, and they’ll find it enticing. They’ll wonder where your emotions stem from, and they’ll smile at the thought that behind this jealousy is your own infatuation with them. They hate to see you pout, but they love to feel desired by you. They’ll also feel secretly happy to know that they’re not the only ones who occasionally feel jealous, you and they are so similar, so they’ll feel silly not to have thought about this scenario before. Your future spouse will also feel a sense of pride in their relationship with you and want to make it even better by introducing more words of affirmation in your dynamic. The storm of emotions reminded them once again how important you are to them, and they’ll vow to never make you doubt how focused on you they are.
Your future spouse will take the time to sit down with you and discuss after they’re done with their own inner turmoil. (They had initially felt so afflicted by the thought of your unhappiness that they needed a moment to calm down first.) They’ll remind you of the vows they made to you in the past and they’ll vow to do their best to make you feel cared for in the future. They’ll tell you how you’re the center of their universe and the thought of them with someone else makes them feel sick, Bunny. They’ll ask you to never keep these feelings to yourself, they want you to always feel comfortable telling them if you feel jealousy in the future so that they can make sure to adjust their behaviour. They might pout a little bit and tell you that they actually feel that it’s unfair to them if you don’t communicate those feelings! In the case of something major, they might even propose couples counselling or a drastic change in your day-to-day lives. I think that the reason couples counselling is coming forward is that your future spouse is more methodical and this approach will seem grounded and mature to them. The drastic change they propose could be something like moving somewhere else or quitting their job. You might think they’re overreacting, but to them, this is a big deal.
After this event, your future spouse will make sure to introduce even more dates and they’ll let you know every time they think you’re attractive! They used to think that their attraction to you was already obvious and that it was a given, but now they understand that it is important to remind you of their love for you daily. Your future spouse will also make it even more clear to their peers that they’re in a happy committed relationship with you by talking about you more openly, showing off their ring or putting a picture of you on their desk or wallpaper!
Aries, Libra, Virgo, Capricorn, Taurus
0, 1, 13, 3, 30, 33, 21, 29, 55, 57, 70, 888
Kalima, Isis, Freya, Venus, Hera, Eros, Plato, smoky quartz, selenite, freshwater pearls, Korea, baby phat, Prada, kitten heels, pink wig, black fur coat, salt lamp, makeup brushes, silver bangles, wood hangers, cottage, parking ticket, rococo
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Your future spouse will be very surprised if you express any jealousy regarding them, Bunny! They see you as someone so alluring, sexy, abundant and successful that they wouldn’t think you’d ever feel insecure about where you stand with them. To them, you’re not just the one they decided to give their heart to, you’re their family, their destiny, their purpose! For you to ever put that into question through your mistrust is almost ridiculous to them. They’d initially wonder if someone could’ve fed you lies about them in their back, almost feeling paranoid because they don’t understand where your worries are coming from. As soon as they find out about your suspicions, their mission will be to make sense of this whole thing and rectify the situation. Your future spouse will think that a thorough conversation is needed to reassure you and resolve this issue!
Nevertheless, your future spouse will feel aroused by your possessiveness. Frankly, this is a pretty sexy scenario to them because it makes them feel desired. It’ll remind them of how they felt at the start of your connection with them, when you just started dating and weren’t exclusive yet. They’ll reminisce about how they used to pray upon the stars that you weren’t entertaining anyone else. They’ve felt defensive over your relationship countless times, so they’re not the type to judge you for your jealousy at all, Bunny. Your destined lover sees jealousy as something normal to happen in a relationship and they won’t feel too alarmed by it. More turned on than worried, that’s for sure. They could even daydream about a fiery conversation where they raise their voice and start saying some corny shit like “Don’t you see that I am all yours! Don’t you see that you’re the only one I could ever love, the one I want to wake up to, the one I’d go to war for!”. And of course, after that, they want to have steamy sex et cetera.
Your future spouse will actually jump at the occasion to propose some cheesy ideas they had but never dared to bring up before; “Maybe I should get your initials tattooed somewhere visible so everybody knows I am taken, what do you think?” And the craziest part is that I think they’re only half kidding (for some of you, your person would sincerely be open to it). Your spouse will be someone very romantic who (not so) secretly loves romcom-like displays of affection. When they learn about your jealous feelings, they’ll amp up on the public displays of affection! They’ll grab you tighter when you’re out and about, give you kisses on the cheeks every time they get the chance, they’ll post you more on their social media and might even ask you to do a more planned photoshoot with them so they can have some great professional pictures of you two together. Their peers will start wondering if you’re pregnant or something because of the way they’ll start to pander to you even more! Their friends will tease them, wondering why they’re acting like it’s the honeymoon phase all over again.
However, you should be cautious of the fact that your possessiveness will make them feel more comfortable to express theirs and they may become more clingy or a tad controlling. They’ll want to tell you when they’re jealous instead of aiming to process it by themselves first. Your future spouse could potentially start to attempt to prove that you’re the only person they can be attracted to by belittling other people (and I don’t really like this part of their reaction because it’s not very kind but I think you’d be the type to point that out as well.) For example, if you ask them if they find someone alluring they might reply “Ugh? Them? I could never be with someone like that, look at them and then look at you!” I doubt this is what you want to hear as someone mature, but maybe the initial question was a bit of a trap, and their immature answer will make you realize that. I think that you’re someone discerning, and that you’ll eventually be able to process your jealous feelings mainly by yourself when you realize that it stemmed from insecurities.
The moment your destined spouse will be the most turned on by this situation is when you inevitably take your power back and realize who the fuck you are. This jealousy thing won’t last long on your side, because you’re someone high vibrational who knows your worth. You’ll also realize that it was low-key quite humorous to think that your spouse would ever be looking somewhere else because you made sure to choose someone who was fully devoted to you, and it really shows in your partner’s reaction. They’re crazy about you, Bunny! A jealousy scenario between you two might be more of an interesting preliminary role play or an exciting way to flirt than a real serious issue.
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13, 14, 28, 555, 77, 757, 99
Gemini, Sagittarius, Leo, Aries, Aquarius
Aphrodite, Dionysus, Loki, green aventurine, jade, clear quartz, azurite, malachite, pyrite, sheep, donkey, cow, dragonfly, firefly, London, Amsterdam, Bali, Jakarta, little black dress, Audrey Hepburn, camel cigarettes, pink scrunchie, leather journal, favourite pen, pencil case, round glasses, septum piercing
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Your future spouse will feel shocked and disheartened to hear that you feel jealous, Bunny. They might even tear up. They’ll feel profoundly touched and sorrowful to learn that you’ve had to deal with this unpleasant feeling. They’ll wonder if you feel lonely in your relationship with them, it’ll be initially very heavy to bear for your lover. They’ll worry that you’re depressed or that your mental health isn’t doing well. They’ll start rethinking their past actions, and wonder if they haven’t been spending enough quality time with you. Your destined lover will sigh and think of all the times they could’ve done more for you. Their heart will sink in their chest while their imagination goes too far and they start visualizing scenarios where you leave them because they didn’t prioritize you enough. It’ll make them nauseous. They could take some days off work to manage this situation with you because of their fear of losing you.
Whatever criticism you feel the need to say will be heard and respected. They’ll put all the blame on themselves internally while putting up a more serious detached front. They don’t want to make it about themselves so they won’t open up about how miserable it made them feel until some time after you said your peace. Your future spouse could feel the need to overcompensate by giving you lavish gifts and inviting you on an expensive date (even if it’s more than they can afford…) Your future spouse is normally confident of their place in your life but they’ll feel like their spot is in danger now that you’ve expressed some unhappiness. They’re also secretly terrified that you’re projecting and that you are the one wanting to look somewhere else. They’ll be all choked up holding your hands, feeling like they’re vomiting their words when they start anxiously asking you about how you’ve been feeling in your union and where you see the commitment heading.
After they’ve reassured you and you've taken the time to reassure them as well, they’ll be able to look at this situation more clearly. They’ll start laughing to themselves realizing that they perhaps exaggerated the issue and that it probably only stemmed from your deep feelings for them in the first place. Your spouse will make sure that this situation has a productive lasting impact on your relationship; that it deepens the trust between both parties through honest conversation. They want this moment to prove that they won’t back down from the relationship and that they’re willing to go through hardship with you. They’ll also be glad that they peeked through the veil and met your shadow self. It’s a part of yourself you may have talked about, but they rarely experience it firsthand. They’ve helped you through conflicts with others, but there’s rarely any friction between you two.
After this event, your future spouse will feel more connected to you. They’ll also feel more confident moving forward when it comes to tackling relationship issues because they acquired the experience. Your destined lover will make sure to prevent this situation from recurring by stating clear boundaries with the people around them and always being crystal clear about their relationship with other people to you. They’ll also make it a point to update you on their whereabouts through text as much as possible. They could give you full access to their calendar and want to start sharing their location 24/7. They’ll also try to show you how much you can trust them by giving you their password, but I am seeing a funny scenario where instead of straightforwardly giving it to you, they just make it a point to tap it in front of you and say it out loud, ahah!
Your future spouse was always open about their relationship with you but after this event, they’ll be adamant to mention you in the first few sentences of meeting anybody new. They were the type to do it before as well, but your spouse will also always take the time to mention you when they celebrate a success, reminding everybody in their social and professional circle that they wouldn’t be where they are today without the love of their life!
Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio
11, 222, 88, 91, 19, 100, π, 369Hz
Fibonacci sequence, Metatron, Artemis, Apollo, Dalmatian jasper, carnelian, Japan, Russia, bows, satin sheets, ballet, white cat, white rabbit, dove, shells, starfish, acrylic nails, art prints, infinity scarf, new tarot deck, plaid print, Hennessy, old-fashioned (cocktail)
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