Gain love not LOVE

The Blog exists, so that anyone who is getting attacked for their ships, their preferences or whatever else can come here and ask for advice, encouraging words and reasons as to why they are awesome. And you can even encourage others to stay strong despite of the hate they are getting as well. Let’s fight hate with love instead of more hate, ok? Header Art by: http://ukop15.tumblr.com/ WARNING: UNPOPULAR OPPINIONS.

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If you reblog this, a piece of Fontcest dies.

Reblog to save a life, ignore for it to spread and kill our wheat and we’ll never make bread again

[gainlovenotlv]

I'll be honest with you, this post is terrible. Even if I don't ship fontcest, you should allow others to enjoy what they want to enjoy. You can block fontcest posts, if they make you feel uncomfortable, you can avoid it, say you don't like it. BUT. You should never, and I emphasize this, NEVER shame someone for their ship if it doesn't hurt you or others. Do people like this even waste one single thought about the fans of this ship? Do you really believe, that all fontcest shippers are horrible people just for liking an incest ship? Well, if you feel so free of “sin”, you should start by stopping liking / watching anything that isn’t “socially acceptable”. For example, violent movies. They make some people feel uncomfy too, y’know?

Anyway, to get back to the point. If we all just tried to just take one moment to understand each other, to accept each other for what we like and do, instead of going out of our ways to suppress or mock each other for our hobbies and interests, the world would be a much better, thoughtful place.

If its not harmful to you, or anybody else, what gives people the right to say it “should die”? After all, we are all just a bunch of nerds, and I’m sure some people would say the same about us, just because we like something that they don’t like, and I’m sure, this makes us all feel bad too. (depending on how thick skinned y’all are.)

Also.. uh... off topic, but I hope its okay I reblog / write this comment on this blog .. It is .. kind of dead, because I am horrible at keeping projects alive. But I thought, this was a good addition, because this blog is here to promote understanding and acceptance in the fandom anyway, and this post just seemed so revolting to me, that I had to add my 2 cents to this.

On another note: THIS IS NOT HERE TO ENCOURAGE ANYONE TO SEND HATE TO THE PERSON WHO POSTED THIS. Like I said, we all should try to get along peacefully, thank you very much.

[utpcsitivity]

“This is a shout out for all the under-appreciated Undertale OC blogs that have a lot of work put into them. I want you all to know that you need to stick with it and not give up. The start is always rocky but once you find those fantastic partners willing to give you a chance you can show them how you shine. Just stay determined!”

~submitted by anonymous

[utpcsitivity]

“@ EVERY MUTUAL & NON-MUTUAL IN THE UT COMMUNITY!!

Recently I’ve noticed that it isn’t only my dash that’s been pretty dark & heavy. A lot of my mutuals haven’t been feeling so hot here, either. And I’m sure a lot of my non-mutuals out there are feeling the same. It kinda makes people feel pretty low and lose hope, so I thought I’d go ahead and say to not only my mutuals ( you should know who you are ) but to my non-mutual babes out there, too.

Keep your chins up, darlings. Stay strong, be kind. I’ve been seeing a lot of you battling through some rough times right now but I still have hope for all of you! There are so many of you that are fighting some hard fights right now, and I strongly encourage that you continue to do so.WIN!! Don’t give up too easily. And if you’re feeling pretty bad for not being so active with your blog or with your writing, it doesn’t make you any less of a roleplayer/writer here. Everyone’s got their personal lives. Your portrayals are all unique, you’re all talented with your own twists on your muses. You’re all outstandingly incredible writers, you can’t argue with me about it, either.

Your health comes first. If you’re looking for a sign showing that someone cares out there tonight, this is your sign. You, yourselves, are top priority here, beauties. Your partners would want you to be okay, trust me, they’d much rather know you’re healthy + safe than unhealthy + not-so safe.

You’re only human and so am I. It’s okay to feel low every now & then, to ask for a dose of positivity and reassurance. Go at your own paces, take care of yourselves. How are you supposed to be here if your health isn’t in good condition? You’re a DELIGHT to have here, believe it or not. Take a hot bubble bath, pamper yourselves, and please: remember that all of you are loved. Whether you know me or not, this message still applies to you.

For your sake & everyone else’s, take care of yourself. You’re extremely appreciated & admired. If you’re fighting depression right now, know there’s someone out there ( myself, included ) who’s rooting for you and waiting for you to be in good conditions again so they can continue to love you unconditionally. Don’t give up. Don’t stop doing what you love doing here because you think you aren’t wanted. We’re all here for you & love you. So look alive out there, sweethearts.

And keep fighting because all of you are such amazing people. Love yourselves. & remember: You’re all strong winners. xoxo

( ps. @ the owner of utpcsitivity, thank you, too, for being here to make messages like these possible & available for the public to see. xxxx )

~submitted by @mettatoniic

[gainlovenotlv]

dappermusician

@dappermusician is a really cool blog! :) I don’t talk to them much, in fact I don’t think I have ever spoken to them, but the mun seems really nice from their posts. Please don’t feel scared of being called out. 

[gainlovenotlv]

Unpopular Defence

Okay, and I shall do another thing which will be really unpopular... However.

Please do not hunt down @thetoxicfandomofundertale either. 

Their girlfriend apparently has been attacked by some members of our fandom and she was brought close to the point of committing suicide. This is not okay. Please understand why they feel salty. 

Even though I wish they would let out their frustration about things like these in a different way, we should prove them that we are better than the ones that spread hate and negativity. 

Maybe we could try and apologize for what our fandom did? I have no idea, but let’s just all be mature about this.

Besides, I talked to their admin and they are reasonable at least, they don’t go around insulting you if you start a mature discussion with them.

Umm yeah. Sorry.

[gainlovenotlv]

This Alphys is awesome.

Okay, noone asked for this, but since I follow them and they have been targeted by negativity today, I will do this on my own accord - I hope you won’t get mad for this.

@royalnxrd is not elitist. Besides, being picky about who you roleplay with is a very normal and okay thing to do, as long as you are polite about it. 

I personally haven’t had the chance to roleplay with them, however I have been reading some of their threads and their writing is really good. I also am a huge fan of  their adorable art. 

Please stay positive - and to the person calling them out, please try to approach the mun directly and talk it out like adult, mature beings instead. I’m sure everything will be fine.

And .. I’m sorry for kind of interferring. .. I will delete this is if it makes you uncomfortable.

[gainlovenotlv]

Positivity for everyone: Undertale fandom, you are great!!! You guys don't need to be bothered about a hate blog, that's nothing compared to what you guys will achieve or have achieved! Focus on having fun and enjoying, don't give protagonism to a person that doesn't deserve it, so everyone, please! Just be happy! :3

Admin agrees 100% with this. <3

[gainlovenotlv]

Btw guys should I make these things fancy? I’m kind of too lazy but if you want fancier posts I will try. Like, posting them as images or something? Once again, like if you want fancy.

(watch me just copy the things into a photoshop template with the most ugliest font imaginable XD)

[gainlovenotlv]

And another call out post to the people who respect another person's head canon and doesn't attack them even if they don't agree with it. There should be more people like you!

THIS. ^

[gainlovenotlv]

Call out post to blogs made me feel welcome to the Undertale fandom as I joined with an OC. There's nothing scarier to me that joining a fandom with an OC now a days. A big thank you too those who keep on interacting with me while not in my Undertale blog. Like even though I am not 'in the Undertale blog' its just very nice to still talk to others even though I am active elsewhere.

I will just post this as it is. <3 Feel free to spread it!I am sad to hear though that joining a Fandom with an OC makes you feel worried. This shouldn’t be the case because OCs are great. Anyway, have a lovely day, you lovely person! :)

[gainlovenotlv]

core-chara hat auf deinen Eintrag geantwortet “core-chara hat auf deinen Eintrag geantwortet “¦ On another note, I...”

Clearing note xD: I mean I don't mind seeing ships, every ship looks cute fore me o3o I respect foncest, but I don't like it ^^U

That’s totally okay. <3 As long as people respect each other its totally fine to not like something or to like something :D I personally, like I said, don’t ship it either. But, I don’t care if people do, they have other preferences. 

Anyway XD 

[gainlovenotlv]

core-chara hat auf deinen Eintrag geantwortet “¦ On another note, I might have to add a warning that there will be...”

Pff... I practically ship anything in front of my nose XD (Except foncest ^^U)

Fontcest will be defended as well, even though I don’t ship it personally. I just think that everyone should be allowed to like what they like without getting hated for it - except if they hurt others with what they are doing then its not cool.

But I’m glad you ship a lot XD ... I don’t actually ship so much in general..

[gainlovenotlv]

... On another note, I might have to add a warning that there will be unpopular oppinions on this blog, because I’ll defend anyone - also people that ship Sans X Frisk for example. Or at least I will try to mediate between both sides. But people will be defended on here without being judged for what the like, else the whole blog doesn’t make sense.

[gainlovenotlv]

Also, I have been thinking that I might post general encouraging words to those marginalized groups of the fandom once in a while? For example to people with OCs, people with unpopular muses, people who feel their writing is bad ... Like this if you think this is a good idea? :’D

[withoutcomedy]

Anti Hate Blog

Yo, guys.

I’m not good at formatting or making this look and sound fancy, but I made a blog to counter that new callout blog that appeared. Here’s the deal though.

THIS NEW BLOG IS NOT A HATE BLOG. In fact, it is somewhat of a support blog for people who receive hate in this fandom. I want to prove that you can fight fandom toxity without having to hurt anyone else in the progress.

The Blog exists, so that anyone who is getting attacked for their ships, their preferences or whatever else can go there and ask for advice, encouraging words and reasons as to why they are awesome. And you can even encourage others to stay strong despite of the hate they are getting.

Let’s fight hate with love instead of more hate, ok? Also this sounded incredibly sappy, I know that. But its true though. I’m so tired of seeing people being hated, on both sides.

I am tired of peolpe from the fandom hating on others. And I am tired of seing people hating on the fandom … 

I think you all deserve happiness. Anyway the url is this:

http://gainlovenotlv.tumblr.com

(I’m real smart with this, am I not?)

I hope I’ll do good at managing this because this is kind of the first time I’m running a positivity blog, or any public blog like this in the first place… don’t expect fanciness please. XD

[gainlovenotlv]

Reblogging this here as short summary as to what this blog is about, so I don’t have to write another summary (although I probably should, for the description haha)

Feel free to submit things, if you feel sad and need some cheering up. <3