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Until death, all defeat is psychological.
It doesn't matter if you don't like someone's pronouns, refusing to use them is transphobic. "Faer pronouns are stupid" didn't ask don't care stop being transphobic. "It pronouns make me uncomfortable" grow the fuck up and stop being a transphobe. If someone has pronouns in their bio (that aren't they/them) and you use they/them, you are being transphobic. "I'm not going to check for your pronouns" then why do we share them? You just sound like "I won't learn your pronouns, faggot" type of people.
controversial facts on tumblr dot com: trans men are men. trans women are women.
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oh so when the final boss‘s phase transitions, gamers love it, but when I, a trans woman,
I support every trans woman's right to have their health bar dramatically refill accompanied by flashy VFX and the name above the hp bar changing.
Wanted to go to a sauna with friend because they organize trans only event some day of the week, and i was so excited! And trans women don't have to pay for entry, so they have some understanding of transmisogyny and shit right, right? That's awsome, right?
WRONG
When checking their website, it its turns out that these "trans only" events are "women and trans" events, so ew already
But also their website for these "women and trans" event, says about trans people being welcome and tarrifs :
"Cross-dresser and transgender:
Please note that cross-dressing and fetishism are not the same thing. Cross-dressing involves a desire to fully embody the opposite sex; we will assess the authenticity of the look, and the male admission rate will apply if it does not meet our standards. Transgender women will be asked to provide proof of status to qualify for free entry."
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I'm fucking disgusted
what I think will happen if I message my mutuals
the image was making me really sad so i drew the little guy being taken care of
^ what will actually happen if you message your mutuals
i think once u successfully win a debate there should be a period where they let you get out all the ad hominems you were holding back
like this i think
YOU are a glasses girl. going about with your long hair and such.
[obediently]i am a glasses girl. going about with my long hair and such
i…. how is it a nazi thing????
The “White man with blond hair and blue eyes” originated as an “Aryan Superior Race” type of thing on like. 4Chan or something.
ok, if that’s true, that doesnt change the fact literally *nobody* uses it like that at all.
i’m not going to bother scraping through the internet to personally find examples, but here is a page explaining Nordic Gamer’s history and common use. it was made and used for racist purposes, and it’s absolutely something white supremacists and nazis co-opt. you just don’t blog where you see it happening.
Very closely related: the blue-eyed, blonde-haired girl meme.
You swipe through your Instagram feed and see a meme. There’s a badly drawn, blue-eyed, blonde-haired girl in a blue dress — it’s an image y
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cuz it got wiped from the internet: transfems it's so cute to want to be cute. do what you think makes you cute, it's ok if you feel awkward that's cute too. you can be yourself, even if you don't think that's very cute, you will still be the worlds cutest girl. i love you
one of the best parts of transitioning was been the freedom to be a little silly and cute. before, if i tried to act that way, i'd get hit with a wave of disgust and self-hatred so strong i'd get a pain attack. today, i was chatting with a coworker and made a pouty face without even thinking about it, and it was so natural. i feel like a human now, i don't have to remember what emotions i am feeling to express them, they just happen.
it's wonderful. it makes me smile, and thinking about it makes me giggle.
This has probably been done to death and taken as fact by now but... I thought this sums it up well
the common phrase "you can't be punk, it's just not possible" is mostly true but there is actually one way to be punk and it's to become a girl and take estrogen and make out with other girls and squish boobs etc.
this is the only way to be punk.
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When you hug your angel, don't forget to pin its wings to its back.
“The ad was in a women’s magazine and if I remember correctly, was for a perfume. It featured a white woman lying in bed with a black man. The man’s shirtless back was to the viewer, making only his taut, muscular form and powerful-looking arms and shoulders visible. He was faceless, unidentified. The woman looked sultrily at us from over his mysterious form, satisfaction writ large over her features. She had partaken of whatever delights this man had to offer and was smugly, luxuriantly basking in the afterglow. The ad copy was, “Take a walk on the wild side.” My teacher used the ad as an example of how marketers can use certain words and images to convey large amounts of information subtly and effectively. A white woman having sex with a black man? How risqué. The implication: be a little like that woman. Spray on that perfume and feel like the kind of girl who has sex with faceless, muscular black men in ritzy hotel rooms because it’s an adventure, a thrill, a risk, something illicitly pleasurable. These are the semiotics of race. This is why columnists will trip over themselves not to call Lupita Nyong’o or Angela Basset “beautiful”, choosing instead to use terms that call to mind a kind of savage, animalistic magnetism: fierce, striking, edgy, eye-catching. Words like “pretty” and “beautiful” and “cute” are for white women whose bodies and sexualities are not seen as wild, animal, or untamed. Black men are hulking, threatening, thuggish; white men are charming, sexy heartthrobs with hearts of gold. Brown women are exotic, with their “honey-coloured” skin and their “mystical”, “enchanting” beauty, unlike their white counterparts, who are held up as not only ideal, but knowable and safe. White people are beautiful; non-white people are dangerous.”
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“The Semiotics of Race, or: Walks on the Wild Side”
by Aaminah Khan
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Fascinating how what's considered feminine and what's considered masculine can change over time. The rebranding of being a horse girl into being a stereotypical feminine girly trait needs to be studied.
Look at classic children's novels. As recently as the 50s and early 60s, being obsessed with horses as a girl was depicted as strange and tomboyish, and the very concept of being obsessed with horses from early childhood and loving toy horses and desperately wanting your own horse being a "little girl thing" and not a "little boy thing" would send someone from the 1800s and earlier into a coma.
There's maybe a point to be made here somewhere about how when keeping and riding horses stopped being necessary to the functioning of society and became a more "frivolous" thing, it was rapidly rebranded as silly and girly and for women, but what do I know.
i wrote a paper in my masculinity studies class in college about this exact phenomenon, specifically about how high heeled shoes started as a practical way for Persian cavalry to keep their feet on their stirrups, then likely due to that association, became a popular fashion item and status symbol among the upper classes of Europe, before the Great Male Renunciation of the 18th-19th centuries, when men started shunning opulence in favor of utility, leaving them as a fashion item for women instead.
I've joked that the two genders are Aesthetic and Utility before but thats just kinda the case
Important detail: "Utility" is often not the same as actual utility. It's often the presentation of utility.
The trend a few years back for men to wear macrame bracelets and justify them as a way to always carry cordage so they could survive in the wilderness wasn't based on the actual behavior of cord that's been knotted for an extended period of time. It was based on the self-image of being someone who's likely to get into survivalist situations and excel at them. (and possibly on liking the aesthetics of the bracelet but not feeling able to choose to wear it unless it had a "utility" justification)