gakyuri

[tear-dropp-deactivated20241031]

idk but fast replies makes me feel important

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

reminder to self: one day it won’t bother you every night. one day it won’t even pass through your mind, not once.

[gakyuri]

''and I know that it's sad that I settle for the backburner'' part hurts because you know that you deserve better but you like them so much you don't know how to stop. you badly want them to the point that you're willing to settle for whatever he would give you because a fraction of him was better than nothing at all.

[tear-dropp-deactivated20241031]

I love a “talk to me, what’s wrong” type of person

[wearenotjustnumbers2]

The consistent dehumanization language used in describing Palestinians in western media is unfathomable. The consistent denial of seeing our children as children. For everybody seeing this, don't fall into this, seek out the truth and educate yourself because that's the best and only way we can help people in Palestine. We have to amplify their voices.

[stuckinapril]

one thing about me is I know everything but I’m gonna act clueless about it

[gentlenotes-moved]

*cups your face with my hands* you are not your parents' trauma. you don't have to carry of the burden of their pain caused by their abusive childhood. they inflicted rage and pain upon you for a reason you weren't alive for, and it's not your fault; you didn't deserve it. it's not something you have to carry on to your children or future relationships. the generational trauma can end here, my love.

[malusokay]

30 Things To Do Alone

Go for a walk. I've been trying to reach 10k steps daily.

Read a book, article, or blog... just like you're doing right now. ;)

Watch a tv show. I'm currently watching Gilmore girls.

Watch the sunset/sunrise. I prefer sunsets.

Try a youtube workout. Daisy Keech is my favorite!

Do your nails. Nice nails make a vast difference in my opinion.

Go to the grocery store and buy some snacks that you've never tried before.

Try a new recipe. I'm trying carrot cake oatmeal later!

Write a letter to your future self. <3

Test old pens and throw away the dry ones.

Make a birthday wishlist. one of my favorite things to do when I'm bored and have nothing to do.

Take the 16 Personalities test. I'm an ENFP :)

Make a bucket list. I just started writing my autumn bucket list!

Research something or watch a video essay on youtube. One of my favorite channels at the moment is Mina Le.

Make a mood/vision board. You can check out my Twitter or Tumblr for some inspiration.

Scroll Pinterest for the next 6+ hours; we've all been there.

Take a long bath. Do a full skin/hair care routine.

Cut/dye your hair. I just cut curtain bangs, and I'm loving it!!

Bake something for a loved one; I made lemon-poppy seed cookies for my Dad.

Create a new playlist. I've started making an autumn playlist, lol.

Make a photo wall. I made one last year and still love it!

Accomplished your to-do list, and you'll feel great once you're done.

Get rid of old clothes, make room for new stuff.

Go to a new coffee shop and get something to try.

Learn how to crochet. I made a sweater for my dog, lmao.

Make yourself a drink, like a tea, coffee, or smoothie!

Declutter your digital space. (emails, photos, apps, etc...)

Make your room cozy and take a nap, or just relax for a bit.

Plan some outfits and look for things to buy online.

Apply a facemask and watch a coming-of-age movie. (my guilty pleasure, lol..)

Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[c0deinee]

Do simple shit for your significant other. Send them songs you like, tell them they look good, write them dumb little notes, buy them their favorite candy, tell them corny jokes, watch their favorite show with them, etc.

[vivaciousofficiall]

Lets Talk: Elegance

 In todays society, true elegance is rare.

 Women are now shying away from words like this because for some reason they believe it doesn’t empower us. However, elegance is one of the most important attributes you must have if you truly want to succeed.  NO DEBATES. 

What is Elegance?

If anything, elegance is princess energy. Imagine yourself to be the daughter of a king. A royal. You walk with poise and grace. You are a prized possession. You are not stressed over men because you know the right prince will find you. . You befriend other princesses. You are polite and respectful to everyone regardless of status. You don’t tolerate bad behavior from others. You are soft, gentle, optimistic, kind. 

Why Should One Be Elegant?

In my opinion, money can only get you so far in life. The way people receive your energy is too important. Money cant conceal bad behavior. If you want to have a successful relationship with other people you need to master grace and elegance.

Xoxo, Vivacious

[introvert-unicorn-deactivated20]

My favorite forms of affection

Holding hands.

Resting their heads over my shoulder.

Lying on their lap or chest.

Kisses on the forehead.

Playing with my hair.

When they give me that look of admiration.

Them making me laugh.

Giving compliments.

Putting their arms around me.

Making me feel heard and seen without even trying.

Random hugs when words aren’t needed.

When they remember the things I am passionate about.

Buying me food.

Them checking on me constantly.

When they respect my boundaries.

When they talk to me about things that reminds them of me.

When they speak their truth.

When they say they love me.

When they lift me up, support me and make me feel valuable and capable when I least believe in it.

[xxxxxxxwwxxxxxxx]

train your mind to be calm in every situation.

[at14]

Your future needs you, your past doesn’t