When I was a little girl I left my mother to try&win my father's love and attention. As I grew up&so easily accepted with gratitude anything from him-especially disappointment,I realized I was not a 'daddy's girl'. As Ive grown&tried to forgive&move on-I realized I couldn't respect a man who treated his mother&my mother (who gave him their all) they way he did/does. I deserve more&to be told "get over yourself" when for so long I have lacked ego,confidence-shows me that he was unaware&blinded on how to treat the beautiful&valuable. I'm letting go of you,who I wished you'd be,who I wanted to be to you-all the dreams I had for us and valuing my damn self. I finally get why I'm not so "ladylike" or gentle-because this whole time I've been fathering myself but I'm done waiting for you to learn💔😪😭🤔💡🤓👸🏽👐🏽 #selflove #detaching #daddyissues #acceptance #daddysgirl #notdaddysgirl #yourloss #igotthis #bebetter