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@galateasmad
I should have listened to myself and stayed cautious. I shouldnât have let you in but I didâŠ
I did, I fell in love, and you just up and left. Now Iâm all fncked up.
Youâre the worst. You said you wouldnât hurt me but you did. You played my heart strings and now theyâre all torn up.
I hate you. I hate you. I hate you. I hate you so much.
"It seems to me, that if we love, we grieve. That's the deal. That's the pact. Grief and love are forever intertwined. Grief is the terrible reminder of the depths of our love and, like love, grief is non-negotiable." Nick Cave
I donât know what to do. I donât know whatâs going on. I donât know why this is happening and what I should be doing about it. I donât feel like I can trust anyone and I feel so so so sad about it. I canât pick myself up. Every day is a struggle. Itâs getting worseâŠ
Score: 28/34
One step forward, two steps back
Having trauma blocking. Couldnât remember or talk about what it was that made me upset yesterday at group when it was my turn. And now Iâm upset about the memory block, scared of the hurt my subconscious is protecting me from.
Went to the lake but couldnât focus, cried. Vented to bestie.
Had to stop driving, avoid the freeway because I felt physical symptoms trying to remember what got me into therapy while driving. Mild pulsing headache, ringing in my ears - as I tried to remember.
Successfully distracted myself by playing a prerelease event for MTG. Felt paranoia at the event, banter made by players around me felt like they were talking about me. Laughing.
Heavy feeling in my chest, in my footsteps.
I think Iâm remembering now though. Slowly trickling through the cracks of the locked doorâŠ
Am I facing it? Am I not?
Do I? Do I not?
Thereâs something there
Something I fear
enough to lock it away
without me wanting it to be
I know something is there
And I know that it hurts,
But what was it?
June 20
Score: 16/18
I reflected on my reflection from yesterday hahaha uhh I realized it sounded like I was frustrated and thought that being selfless was wrong, that it got me into therapy and that it felt like a time out or a punishment. I wanted to speak less in processing group yesterday but itâs just super hard not to act on the urge to help others when theyâre clearly in pain or suffering. Thatâs⊠thatâs me. Thatâs probably something I canât change about myself and I canât label that as wrong.
I have to be on my side.
Therapy isnât time out or punishment either, itâs assistance. The problem is how bad I feel, my conflict avoidance issues, my history of abuse that wove parts of me that has low self-esteem or belief that I have to be perfect in my work or abilities or loved by others to have self worth.
I think I have a million conflicts Iâm avoiding but canât decide on something to use for a thought record. I just need to sit in the pain, in the uncomfortable for a bit to get there and remind myself what it is I need to be facing at the moment. Oof. Ugh.
But I mean, I handled worms for fishing so I can probably open another can of worms, right?
(Warning: video of me hooking an earthworm)
June 19
Score: 20/25
Todayâs reflection go back to a silent comment made by someone in processing group while we were working on my thoughts. She said one word, âgiftedâ. I honed in on it at the time - asked her to repeat, the very word made my thoughts race, wait what - how did she know, what did I say that made her think that, etc.
I donât like the label gifted. Once upon a time I was considered a gifted child and indeed was privileged with wonderful experiences and education - but now that Iâm grown up, I wanna be a giving adult. It sounds noble, and I used to like the thought but at this very moment I feel sadness from the realization that⊠Is this mentality also contributing to my selflessness?
I have needs just as everyone else, and maybe Iâve been more than ready to give them up and adjust because some people have been envious of me growing up. Iâll manage because âIâm giftedâ? Thatâs messed up. To others who thought that and for past Galatea who strongly believed it, stop that.
I canât stand worms..! The things I do to catch fish
June 17
Iâm out of the house already so Iâll have to put an alarm to do my homework and score myself for today but I imagine theyâre both pretty much the same. Nothing has changed on that front aside from the fact that Iâm very excited to have a whole day to fish and be around nature today.
It is the new moon, and because it was dark all night, the bass are gonna be feeding all day!
Iâve been so hopeful every time I go out to fish that Iâm expecting the same pattern in terms of results but bestie was right, just being out in nature has been good for me regardless. I imagine my scores would be higher if not. Subconscious Galatea knew what perfect hobby to hone in on, too. Nature because proven antidepressant and through fishing, I have that mental capacity to be mindful about the motions of fishing and still have room to my thoughts without obsessing or spiraling. I quite like this special time to myself. I donât feel lonely at all, but sure would be nice to get advice on what Iâm doing wrong so I can freakinâ catch this SOB. (That isnât catfish!)
Althouuuuuggghhhhh, I did get stuck in the water grass (reeds?) the other day when I rented a boat. I was lost in my thoughts and didnât realize I got myself in an area filled with vegetation, motorâs rudders (?) got tangled up and I got banked before I knew it. The motor couldnât go in reverse for some reason, tried the other battery and did other troubleshooting but when none of those worked I called the concession stand to ask for a rescue. Rescue came and changed my motor, pulled the boat out of the vegetation and shallows and I was saved!
One of the therapists at IOP made a point that it was a nice metaphor for my situation - got stuck, asked for help and got rescued and my mind was blown away.
I think I was lost in thought for most of processing group coz I hardly remember anything except for my thought record stuff and that damn good metaphor.
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Played MTG yesterday, shout out to my lovely Jordan. Prerelease weekend and because I havenât been playing, I totally didnât expect to win. Saw that my choices didnât have good white or blue cards, so I actually chose black-red orcs theme which is unlike me. Itâs usually a rather aggressive play style so I donât go for it, Iâm more of a defensive control player⊠but what the heck I went 2-1 against my ex boyfriendâs best friend HAHAHA it felt good, I could see him getting frustrated which I understand - Jacob is one of his and I was the villain. Heâs a really good player, an actual scientist, and the person who introduced Jacob to magic so I felt pretty proud of myself. Iâll take this win and run very far with it.
Yesterdayâs IOP lecture was on grief and loss. Itâs a heavy topic and itâs not that I didnât look forward to it, I was probably avoiding admitting I still needed it. I think it ties a lot into my current bigger issue that is work.
Why do I try so hard at being a nurse, why do I always put others first, why do I take it so sensitively when I or my work are criticized, why why why
I think maybe past Galatea felt so very helpless at the time of my sisterâs death that present Galatea is trying to work away that helplessness. I didnât understand what had been going on so I wanted to know on a medical level, and even now I still donât know.
Because I never will.
I wasnât part of that team involved with my sisterâs case and I need to understand that. That was then, Tea. No amount of work will undo it, but you can work hard so others wonât feel what youâve gone through and even then you have to understand you canât save everyone from illness and death.
Maybe I have a savior complex.
A part of me really loves people, who they are, how they think, what makes them who they are. Itâs why I went for psychology at first, I wanted to understand them. There should be no question that my intentions are to help and support others, but Iâll never be able to do so fully unless I have come to terms with that helplessness past Galatea felt.
What now tho? Do I still want to be a nurse?
Someone from processing group praised my empathy towards others, and it felt wonderful. A part of me, a paranoid me, wondered if I was being evaluated by âthe networkâ for being a psycho/sociopath that I started to believe it. Because if it were truly the case, then I wouldnât be able to live with myself and none of this work would be worth itâŠ
When Haejin was in therapy, she always used to say her goal was to become the best version of herself. I want to adopt that but what would that mean? What is the best version of me? I need to define that for me and work towards it.
Todayâs score is 26/26
Todayâs score is 24/28
I did 2 thought records last night. I tried to write a DEESC script for my mom coz we had an argument about my Big Bear Lake trip with bro⊠I also tried to write an empathy letter but I ended up feeling angry instead and I had to distract myself from it. Donât think Iâm ready for that at the moment.
I got triggered by 2 of my friends simultaneously after venting to them. The very day I spoke about disliking textbook sounding responses in processing group, they did the same out of the blue. It made them feel distant and made me feel lonely, and I lashed out at them for it.
I was at the lake yesterday afternoon for a prescription of nature but didnât work out very well coz my thoughts festered like a wound I chose to keep ignoring. Bestie helped ground me to reality and calm me down⊠and when I did, suddenly, I could appreciate the lake. Hard to see in this picture but the lake was a shiny shimmery bright golden, reflecting the light of the sun. Itâs been overcast these past few days, seeing it made me feel sunny days were here. A metaphor for hope, I hope.
Movie night with bestie worked wonders âșïž watched Inside Out and was fascinated by the hidden messages here and there. To have happy memories, you must have sad ones, too! This event in my life is a core memory that is filled with colors.
Doing lots of self care recently!
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Galatea is four things I know: the name of neptune's moon, the name of a Nereid (daughter of the sea) in greek mythology, the name of my favorite character in the anime Claymore and now it is also my chosen pseudonym.
First post
uhh so im gonna post whatever i want/need to here. my goal is to create a log of my mental health/physical health journey under the pseudonym Galatea Maddox, to be shared with chosen members of my support system.