Putting it Back Together.

The best solution we've got. (Mod Bugloss, he/they; Mod Dandelion, she/her)

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some ppl? make fun of ppl who haven't done anything to them personally? some ppl laugh at (usually) teenagers on the internet? to cope? you don't understand, mocking and deriding ppl who don't deserve it is Good, Actually. it's my coping mechanism. i hurt others bc it's good for my mental health. lmao okay then

I think you’re mixing up mockery and poking fun, my friend. It’s only mockery if you take it personally—which is honestly kinda concerning, since it means you might be er. How do I put this right? You see your gender identity/sexuality as integral to who you are as a person. I’m reeeal bad at explaining folks. But mockery stems from hatred, and there’s no hatred here.

~Mod Bugloss

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you do know that mogai-watch literally profits off of making fun of mogai ppl, right? it's exploitative and gross. especially coming from someone who's cis.

I've covered this on another account of mine, but I can say it here, too.I know personally, mogai people and tucutes are really worrying and it can be stressful to me to see their content. So like anything stressful, I poke fun at it to make light of it and it makes me feel a bit better. I know it can be hard to understand that from an outside perspective, but it's not with any ill intent. It's just... easier that way from a mental health viewpoint.~ Mod Bugloss

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Drafts of our mods/sonas for this blog: dandelion and bugloss.

{Mod dandi}

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Baby boy!!! (I actually went shopping for some clothes and I got a handful of godawful shirts—I need to send you some pictures)

~Mod Bugloss

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love how you're pretending to be nice and acting like you give a shit, but you're accepting asks from ppl who say they only follow/reblog mogai stuff to laugh at and also reblog mogai watch. yep i fully believe you wanna help mogai ppl find a "better," less complicated label. condescending, infantilizing cringe culture ass. you suck at lying. you don't want to help anyone, you just want entertainment.

like the way you talk abt mogai ppl isn’t AS PPL. you talk abt them like they’re animals in a zoo, your own personal freakshow. the least you could do is admit that that’s what you’re doing, instead of this whole “i’m here to save them from themselves” shtick. (2/2)—————————————Uhhhh interesting you say that seeing as I’ve stated multiple times that I genuinely care about mogai and see them as people?? I’ve also stated that I’m not going to force anyone into this nor do I expect all of them to like me. Poking fun at mogai is fine—I don’t believe anyone I’ve talked to actively harasses mogai. The only time I responded to people like that was when this was originally just a normal mogai blog. Well, not- er, you know what I mean.I mean I do get why people are upset with my methods, and I’m not going to tell them they shouldn’t be because they have the right to have their own opinions and speak them, as you are doing now and as I am doing in return. I never wanted to uhh… geez lost my train of thought. Mogai identities themselves, of course, I don’t really believe in. But the people themselves, the people within the community, I respect completely. I believe I can speak for everyone when I say that we don’t mean to mock /people/ when we talk about mogai identities. And if you feel that way, then that indicates that you might be too attached to it. Of course if someone says something homophobic a gay person will be offended and shit like that, but it’s more something about…. ok I’m not good at explaining thing and I don’t think I ever will be. So let’s drop that train of thought. Um…. god this is a mess.I don’t generally get pissy with people that send hate to me or people I disagree with unless it’s on something /really/ important and triggering to me, or they’ve hurt one of my friends. So it’s not apathy or anything, I’m just trying to stay civil. And part of me being civil sometimes means dissociating and sounding very… robotic? That also happens when I’m tired or just trying to sound official—like in the original post. The draft of that was written at two am and I added a little to it later before I posted it.If I only wanted entertainment, I would still have this blog as a troll blog to make up fake identities. I consciously made this change because I wanted to /make/ a change. Like I’ve said before, it’s mostly that I didn’t think things through very well. That’s kind of a habit of mine. I’m a very spontaneous person and it gets me into trouble sometimes. Y’all are probably going to call this all an excuse but it’s literally just me rambling and I don’t remember half of what I just typed. I’m going to assume I said everything I wanted to say and leave it here? But if I didn’t there’s another post somewhere that’s like… uh. What did it even— ehhhhhh you’ll figure it out if you actually care about my side of things, which, judging by this ask you really probably don’t. Props if you read all of this though.

Agh- forgot again. This is Bugloss.

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ok fine shut up korekiyo

Is- Is that a signoff, or are you telling someone to shut up that I’ve never interacted with?

~ Mod Begonia

[clairebeartruscum]

Context(?) http://danganronpa.wikia.com/wiki/Korekiyo_Shinguji

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Oh no we got wee🅱ed {Mod dandi}

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Drafts of our mods/sonas for this blog: dandelion and bugloss. {Mod dandi}

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Just so we're all clear here: Mod belladonna and begonia are essentially the plant equivalent of furries. They're leafies. You can't convince me otherwise. {Mod dandelion}

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im so glad this blog is a troll lmao, even tho its less funny now that its not serious. im one of those people that only reblog mogai stuff to laugh at it lol. im always looking at beyond-mogai and uncommongenders and others to see what kind of stupid shit they post

Oogh yeah, I feel you. I look at beyond-mogai and the like a lot, but I never rb their posts so they don’t block any of my accounts. Besides, I like talking to Arco in particular—they’re my go-to when I don’t understand something and want to ask questions—so it would be sad if they blocked my personal :(

~ Mod Bugloss

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Hi, I was the person who sent you that stupid anon about being “bathgender and valid” or whatever the fuck, I’d like to apologise for that, I took your blog way too seriously (as I normally do unfortunately) and decided to troll you with my ridiculous comments and accusations. It was a shitty thing to do and I realise that now, so yeah, I apologise for that and if I made you feel uncomfortable.

Naw naw don’t worry about it. I take it as a compliment that we were convincing enough XD besides, I did expect some anon hate and snide messages. But I would try to be a bit nicer to mogai blogs in the future. They’re trying their best, even if they’re misguided.

~ Mod Bugloss

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Also, didn’t some legit mogai blogs reblog those? Amazing :/

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Yeah, I'm pretty sure uncommon was the main blog that rbed our stuff.

~ Mod Bugloss

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im cloudgender and im valid! gender is a feeling! you don't need dysphoria to be trans

I’m going to assume this isn’t a troll.

Gender: “the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones).”Directly taken off the google definition. My point is, gender refers to whether you’re male, female, or neither. It’s directly connected to your pronouns, because pronouns are gendered. He/him is male, she/her is female, they/them is nonbinary.You need gender dysphoria to be trans because gender dysphoria is defined by a disconnect between your birth sex and your gender identity. If you don’t feel that disconnect, then you can’t be trans because you’re comfortable being your birth sex. If you’re female and you’re fine with being female, you can’t be a trans man. If you’re male and you’re fine with being male, you can’t be a trans woman. I think a lot of disagreements between truscum and tucutes/mogai come from us having skewed definitions of dysphoria.

~ Mod Bugloss

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(It probably was a troll anyway but it made me want to ramble)

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im cloudgender and im valid! gender is a feeling! you don't need dysphoria to be trans

I'm going to assume this isn't a troll.Gender: "the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones)."Directly taken off the google definition. My point is, gender refers to whether you're male, female, or neither. It's directly connected to your pronouns, because pronouns are gendered. He/him is male, she/her is female, they/them is nonbinary.You need gender dysphoria to be trans because gender dysphoria is defined by a disconnect between your birth sex and your gender identity. If you don't feel that disconnect, then you can't be trans because you're comfortable being your birth sex. If you're female and you're fine with being female, you can't be a trans man. If you're male and you're fine with being male, you can't be a trans woman. I think a lot of disagreements between truscum and tucutes/mogai come from us having skewed definitions of dysphoria. ~ Mod Bugloss

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ok fine shut up korekiyo

Is- Is that a signoff, or are you telling someone to shut up that I've never interacted with?~ Mod Begonia

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this blog was real funny from day 1, og i followed just to see what kind of wild shit youd post next but now im actually beginning to like all this spicy content sxscsxscsxcsx either way congrats on not getting sucked in, dandelion and bugloss

Glad you're liking it! Discourse gets tiring after a while so I'll only be answering hate and the like if it's something new cause yanno. Eck. But hopefully we'll be able to do some good with the expanded demographic. ~ Mod Bugloss

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Mmmm.

Well, things are falling apart just as gloriously as I expected. Which honestly probably should have affected my plans but I'm not particularly genius when it comes to thinking ahead. So as the ringmaster of this circus I think I'm going to do some rebranding. Clearly our mogai audience is displeased with my methods—and I will remind you, don't try bashing anyone else on this blog because that was entirely my perspective—so I'm going to work with a broader audience. Honestly this is what I should have done to begin with, but what with spending so much time in the mogaisphere I have a bit of tunnel vision.

So, I'm just gonna open this up to questioning lgbt people in general. I'll just be giving the best advice I can. Honestly? Just lgbt related advice in general is fine. I'm a bit tired of trying to save the Titanic that is my reputation in the mogai community so I'm probably gonna stop answering any reblogs/asks having to do with that 'cause maaan, I've got more important things to do. They aren't very important things, but they're more important than that, I can assure you.

Anyway. Lgbt advice. Send asks if you need it. Screaming into the void is also fine, if that gives you satisfaction.

~ Mod Bugloss

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god job your an advanced attention seeker. now you must seek therapy help or just go outside and get a life, have some friends

Dhhcjd dude I stayed up until 5 am I will never have a lifeI do need to start going to therapy again though. Kinda stopped doing that. Thanks for the reminder nonny!

~ Mod Bugloss

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Oh wait was this talking about the ask to beyond-mogai that I only just noticed

Cause m'dude that was literally just to clear up the misconceptions people kept having that pissed me off

~ Mod Bugloss

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Which mod has the biggest big dick energy

...god we can't decide~ Mod Bugloss

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god job your an advanced attention seeker. now you must seek therapy help or just go outside and get a life, have some friends

Dhhcjd dude I stayed up until 5 am I will never have a lifeI do need to start going to therapy again though. Kinda stopped doing that. Thanks for the reminder nonny!~ Mod Bugloss