Na Na Na Na Na Na

Washington / Greener / Bro

[gendervine]

[gendervine]

“Only hindsight is 20/20”

And you fucked up. There’s probably no coming back from this one. And you can’t even blame her.

[phx5pwr-deactivated20240513]

This actually made me fucking cry.

[grayscalewinter]

I find this really fucking relevant today of all days.

[gendervine]

I’m pretty stoked RuPaul waited for football season to be over (besides the super bowl) in order to start allstars 3. That’s some good looking out.

[wonderswoman]

Gal Gadot kisses Kate Mckinnon on SNL

[gendervine]

I mean....

[thebeautifullychaoticpoet]

One of those days.

It’s just been one of those days. Where I lay still and stare at the ceiling. Days where the minutes go by far too slowly and I find no warmth in the sunlight.

It’s just been the kind of day, where everything collapses, on top of each other and nothing feels quite right.

The kind of day, Where all I want to do, Is to forget everything and start over.

It’s just been the kind of day, where I feel lost, sad and lonely. Where I feel like apart of me is missing, and I ache for this feeling to go, so I can finally be happy, again.

-Nadeen S.

[exposenature]

The Lonely Tree (Kelowna, British Columbia) [3491x2661] [OC]

[gendervine]

You go buddy. I feel that.

[gendervine]

I should be fishing right now. I know you have absolutely no sympathy for me working overnights but it isn't always fun for me either. Especially when our roommate decides to sleep in the living room for no reason other than that he can. So on my night off no room is free. Instead I get to spend all night sitting quietly in the dark on my computer completely bored, restless, and going out of my mind. Fishing was the perfect solution. It's cheap, outside, and makes me happy while everyone is fucking sleeping. Instead I'll be sitting in the dark listening to our roommate snore and trying to convince myself even though I feel like shit about everything, killing yourself myself the answer.

 or I could have been fishing.

[leletletlet]

[gendervine]

DEBS YES

[broucekninja]

[gendervine]

Artist: Dangerdust

This is how I always felt. This is why I spend every hour I can in the T*-REX office, planning T*-REX events, trying with every ounce of my being to create positive change for the trans community.

And then to have a fellow trans person throwing a workshop tell me my current decision not to pronoun is a privilege, end of story, is insulting and hurtful. My internal gender struggle to find a pronoun that even remotely suits me feels nothing like priviledge. Having my name be the only verbal identification used with me that I identify with seems the opposite. Practicing a language that does not allow for a pronoun that suits me as a human being is constant daily struggle. And to have someone respond with “that’s a privilege to do that” creates an unsafe space for some fellow trans people.

Even if I did have pronouns that suit me, outing myself to an entire group of strangers isn’t what I wanted to attend for. I wanted to learn and your response has kept me from doing so. So thank you and fuck you.

I’m wasting my time with a community who doesn’t clearly want me in it.

[fuckyeahlavernecox]

Must see: Janet Mock turns the script around and asks a cisgender woman the private / invasive questions trans people are asked regularly. (x)

[kendall593]

[gendervine]

Pretty much A snapshot from my life

[gender-dragon]

[gendervine]

SO PLEASE STOP TELLING ME IT ISNT. K THANKS

[genderqueermke]

[genderisnotsex]

Please Stop Calling People You Don't Know “Ladies”

[gendervine]

Please. It makes me want to cry.

[transgendersquare]

“It is an awful thing to be betrayed by your body. And it’s lonely, because you feel you can’t talk about it. You feel it’s something between you and the body. You feel it’s a battle you will never win … and yet you fight it day after day, and it wears you down. Even if you try to ignore it, the energy it takes to ignore it will exhaust you.”

David Levithan- Every Day (via transgendersquare)

[gendervine]

Today's Cowardice:

"So do you ever get shit for not being trans*?" - my brother's boyfriends response to learning I run a support group for trans people.

What I wanted to say: "Actually, since trans* doesn't mean just transitioning from male to female and vice versa, I am trans*. See, I'm genderqueer as fuck and every time I get "she/her" or "hello ladies" or there isn't a gender neutral bathroom available, my heart races and I am reminded almost nothing in our current day in age is constructed for me to use. And frankly, I get really tired of it. Especially the constant assumptions put upon me I'm not interested in. So no, I don't get shit because I'm actually trans* and just not super out at the moment."

What I said: "nah, I do most of the brunt work so they know things would be at a stand still without me."