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[Playboy’s idea of the century: in order to truly accept trans women as women, we will objectify and exploit them in the same disgusting way we do with all our models! Sexism and bigotry is over!]

gender-is-dead

I have mixed feelings on this one

voodooxel

I also have mixed feelings. People choose to model, if they want to do that for play boy and they’re accepting of trans women what’s wrong with that?

gethynxed

Lmao y’all act like Hugh rose from the dead and put a gun to every trans womans head and is forcing them to do playboy. Much like most things in this realm, it’s all about consent! If they want to do it then they can do it. Maybe it’s something they feel is empowering or just something they enjoy. Just because you wouldn’t do it (@ OP not the reposters) doesn’t mean they can’t make that decision.

mediumsizedboy

nintendumb

tbh i am personally gonna manifest in the home of everyone who reblogged this and dish out some beatings

dinocaps-deactivated20180711

Beatings won’t hurt nearly as much as it hurts to be away from the boys

tenitchyfingers

issa joke dude

gethynxed

But what isn’t a joke, is being away from the boys

yourownknife

A N G U I S H

Billy No Mates // Knocked Loose

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Knocked Loose // Counting Worms

gender-is-dead

♡ NOT ALL ENBIES ARE VALID ♡

✔ Valid non-binary people: - people who don’t want to be fully perceived as either one of the two “binary” genders as this gives them dysphoria, who are non-binary as the result of that

- also people who are uncomfortable in their binary body and have a desire to transition in order to ease the said dysphoria (whether it’s physical or social or both)

-basically all the people who feel disconnected from their assigned gender but don’t fully identify with the opposite gender either

✖ Not valid non-binary people: - MOGAI, as well as people who believe that ‘there is a whole galaxy of genders uwu”

-people who call themselves non-binary only because they don’t conform to the gender expectations or who just don’t approve of the societal norms assigned to their gender -people who confuse gender with gender expression, such as guys who say they are non-binary just because they put on a dress or a bit of makeup?? honestly clothes have no genders, how does that make you an NB

-people who think their gender is shifting because one day they present more feminine and the other day they look more masculine aka most genderfluid people (i say “MOST” because not ALL of them are like this) -AFAB girls who call themselves “trans feminine” even though they were born female. you can’t transition from female to female, what are you doing -AFAB girls who call themselves “demigirl” even though they were born as a girl

- pissy crybabies who get offended when you accidentally misgender them even though they use neo-pronouns (that most people never heard of) -non-dysphoric enbies who complain at cis people even though they themselves are cis because they don’t have dysphoria Sincerely, your fellow non-binary person ♡

voodooxel

I don’t choose the size shoe I want to wear, but it’s my choice to say I need a new size that fits me better than the one I was first given.

Gender isn’t a choice. I chose to come out and say the pronouns I were given don’t fit me, I need something that suits me better. I could’ve kept the shoes and stayed uncomfortable, but I did what was right for me.

Some people wear the wrong size shoe and keep them and think they can handle it when they’re ready or not at all and thats okay. Its worth it for them. As long as they don’t stress themselves out too much.

thelovelybones124-deactivated20

Ima just leave this here. No one should get offended by any of this because this is literally saying “treat your son like a human being so he can understand himself as he goes through life”

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spookyloop

i like your blog but you post to many black goths. imho they just dont look right.

They look just as beautiful as any white goths and they have the right to express themselves and exist in this space as much as anyone else.

I’ve said this before but I’ll repeat since it needs to be said:

There is no right skin colour to be goth. Period. Goth is a composite of multiple things and appearance is just one fraction of all that. Skin colour, hair colour, make-up style, gender, and whatnot do not define whether you can be goth or not, and no way is the “right” way to have them.

The pale red-lipped and black-haired girl dressed in all black might be the stereotype of a goth but that is a very shallow and one-sided representation of the people in the community. How many of us actually fit into that stereotype? How many of us strive to look like that because if we don’t, we will get told we don’t look right? Goth has since its beginning featured many ethnicities, and there is nothing weird about non-white goths in the subculture. Research information and photos of the English goth scene in the 80s. There are loads of non-white goths absolutely rocking the original look (not to mention creating other forms of gothy art like alternative music). The main reason it “doesn’t look right” to you is because the stereotype is so strong and over-represented in gothic imagery. But we all know stereotypes can be terribly, terribly wrong, which leads to this kind of racism (yes, that’s what this is).

There are many gothic styles I personally don’t like, but it is not my place to tell those people that I don’t think they look good. I wouldn’t want them telling me that, so why would I do that to others? And I’m talking about styles that someone chooses to wear, so can you even imagine hearing it about something you cannot choose like skin colour? I understand that it is your personal preference and your opinion but is it necessary to bring it up when all it will do is discourage people from being a part of a community they feel they belong to? There’s a ton of people outside the subculture whose ignorance can make being a goth difficult, we shouldn’t be doing that to each other within the subculture too.

Some goths are black, some goths are Asian, some goths wear hijabs, some goths keep their natural hair, the list goes on. And they all look gorgeous and have as much right to express themselves in the subculture as white goths. In reality the subculture is extremely diverse but there is so much gate-keeping from goths who think that you need to look like X and listen to Y that we end up only seeing a glimpse of it all. That shouldn’t be, and as corny as it sounds, we should try to create a comfortable, safe community instead of one that shuns people out because they do not fit a stereotype.

The non-white goths aren’t going anywhere from my blog, they belong there as much as any white goth, classic horror heroine or Addams Family member.

voodooxel

Don’t let people define your sexuality/gender for you!

If you identify as a lesbian and only care about their gender identity, its okay.

If you identify as a lesbian and need a biofemale form, that’s okay. Its not transphobic if that’s what you NEED in a relationship. You shouldn’t be forced to date someone you don’t feel that youd want to be with in the long run, dont waste your life for someone else regardless if you still like them as a person.

You identify as bi? That’s okay.

You identify as pan instead of bi because it suits you better? That’s okay. It’s not transphobic if you care about gender and are attracted to nonbinary people and respect their genitals. As long as you know trans men/ trans women are men and women and don’t put them in a different category.

You’re binary trans? That’s okay.

You’re non binary trans? Thats okay. Don’t let anyone tell you you dont exist because there is nothing more painful than being told youre wrong after spending your entire life figuring out whats “wrong” with you. Trans people don’t KNOW who you are. Cis people dont KNOW who you are. YOU KNOW who YOU are. Even if youre still figuring yourself out you’ll find it. If thats non binary so be it.

Be yourself. Find who you are. Take your identity and protect it because at the end of the day, that’s what you have. When your 99 on your deathbed, who you are is all that you have.

Even if someone says you don’t exist or youre offending them because your identity is hurting them? Tell them you were born that way because you were. You can’t help being that way.

You werent born that way and you’re faking your identity only to be a part of the lgbt community by being something that youre not? Youre going to regret it when youre older. Because you wasted your life living a lie.

You’re cis and heterosexual? Thats perfectly fine, but you dont belong in the lgbt community.

You are intersex and you WANT to be in the community? LGBTQIA+! Youre welcome.

You’re intersex and you DONT WANT to be in the community and dont believe I should be a letter in the acronym? That’s fine. You dont have to be involved. Live your life.

Your

Self.

Don’t waste your life for a trend.

You only have one shot at living your life the way you want it. One shot at being your true self. Dont waste it being a part of a community you don’t belong in because you want to seem special.

Dont deny someone of their happiness because you disagree with what they’re doing. Respect their decisions because they made them for themselves. Not you.