I Carry Your Bones in My Heart

K, they/them, 23 white nonbinary lesbian. Main blog w/ mostly horror/nature/art at the moment. :^)

[gigantomachylesbian]

Howdy :^)

I’m K! I’m a white, TME nonbinary lesbian. This is my main blog, so in addition to any silly post that catches my fancy, there’s lots of animals, cool art, and occasionally a bit of spooky stuff. Peace and love on planet earth <3

Most major warnings are tagged with #_____ tw (ex: #death tw) or as #____ mention. Please reach out if you’d like me to tag anything specific! 

I am ridiculously passionate about books, so if you’re interested in what I’m reading, I have a Storygraph account!

Some fandom stuff that makes its way here occasionally, mostly anime (jjk, dungeon meshi, and a lot of yuri manga mostly!) and lots of little miscellaneous stuff for movies/books/music I enjoy. I have a couple of sideblogs for specific fandoms, but I am not super active on any of them at the moment.

If you’d like to know more about me, I have a more detailed About Me page, as well as a BYF with the usual stuff and a few more specific things. I always welcome asks and stuff like that! 

[wacuoms]

fem stsg commission

[seltzerwaterlime]

annoying white tumblr user criteria:

1) several ugly ass badges next to username

2) gimmick blog

3) main source of literature is ao3

4) "rap is overstimulating" *listens to hyperpop*

5) "as a white person-" "im literally white as snow-" "fellow whites we need to Do Better"

6) demanding/expecting racialized people argue with them about racism

7) "we're all faggots in the eyes of the state!!"

8) callout posts are evil and reactionary

9) using aave wrong

10) eurocracker edition: "yankee hitlerites of colour will be gunned down like the beasts they are in my Marxist Revolution.." *1 hour later* "OH MY GOD yanks cant even take a joke lmaooo im being Canceled"

[catgirlcowboy]

u forgot commenting on serious posts irt racial discussion to derail or tag it w a ship/fandom/fictional character OR to comment 'omg i thought this said -insert a ridiculous sentence-'

[seltzerwaterlime]

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[seltzerwaterlime]

12) *sees a post talking about racist behavior* "omg thats so me wait no i feel so called out 😂😂😂"

[nihon-no-ningyou]

A set of chirimen rabbit dolls dressed in kimonos.

[sapphling]

other tme lesbians we do not need another skit about how wacky it is that a doctor would ever ask if there's a possibility you could be pregnant when you're "Literally a Lesbian 😂😂🤣" we've actually reached full saturation on these and nobody ever ever has to make another one again

[lakemojave]

People will see an underwritten woman or black character and act like it's the character's fault

[thomasmomwell]

can't get over having "is one of the most popular Men’s Hockey RPF writers on Archive of Our Own, with over two million words and twice the page views of the next most popular writer" as your author bio on Penguin Random House dot com. girl at any point as you sat there collating other writers' page views did you doubt yourself or

[ot3]

X

[psilocervidae]

Green + yellow + orange is a highly underrated colour combo

[psilocervidae]

Look at her don't you love her

[tartaeya]

i think there is a difference between a knowingly flawed character and a thematically uncomfortable character and knowing the difference is half the battle

[tartaeya]

knowingly flawed character: this character has traits that the author deliberately put in to show they have nuance and aren't perfect as a person. this will put them at odds with some readers and endear them to others, depending on them as people, and that's good!

thematically uncomfortable character: oh boy the author has some Beliefs

[antigonickpdf]

our longing for inconvenience by hanif abdurraqib (id in alt)

[kosmogrl]

no matter what you have tomorrow

[lizardsfromspace]

I can't believe you would call him a misogynist just because of his overt contempt for women. And what else? Constantly calling women bitches? But he literally has a few cool girls he approves of. For now.

[womanaction]

one of the best sentences I've read on Wikipedia

[notdayle]

Me and my girlfriend did a lil photo shoot in our regalia back in December

[notdayle]

Oh we’re engaged now btw 💍

[nepenthean-sleep]

straight white people making a romance movie: haha what if it was illegal to have sex? wait what's lawrence v texas. wait what's mclaughlin v florida. wait what's loving v virginia

[ninewheels]

As preposterous and stupid as this fucking movie's premise sounded (for a light-hearted rom-com, and not The Handmaid's Tale) I didn't want to think about it too much until the movie actually came out, and then I could see if it was somehow more intelligent and subversive than the trailer let on, but guess what, it's even worse!

One Night Only review: Pull out from this sex-negative rom-com

If this is what it takes to get a rom-com greenlit these days, maybe we should just let them die.

Sex workers are thrown under the bus, shown only as thieves who fleece men in the woods at night, while queer sexuality is relegated to a few scenes with Allie’s roommate (a woefully underused Quintessa Swindell) and a handful of pans past blurry same-sex extras making out in the background. “This night is for the straights,” Swindell’s character says to Allie, before saying that queer people have worked around straight laws for centuries.  This is supposed to be a nod to queer resilience, but largely comes off as straightwashing the history of anti-LGBTQ legislation in this country that led towards raids of queer clubs and incarceration of queer people in the not-too-distant past (let alone the current barrage of anti-Trans and LGBTQ legislation currently in the works and on the books). It’s also ignorant of the long and fraught fight for the normalization of age-of-consent laws, which, by the way, did not happen in all states in this very country until 2003. Yes, that’s not even thirty years ago.  By the end, our intrepid protagonists have not had sex with anyone, because this is a film about Romance with a Capital R (and I guess sex is not part of romance!) and for that very same reason they ultimately embrace the fascist state of things. They aren’t the only ones who refuse to fight back. No one in this cursed film is protesting this mandate beyond “repeal” signs in various windows and some creative graffiti (...) (...) If we are supposed to believe that the film is making some subversive statement about the state of sex and bodily autonomy in this country, it cannot end with its leads embracing their chains. That’s just warmed-over conservatism running around in sheep’s clothing.

[nepenthean-sleep]

yeah i wrote this post having only seen the trailer, but jesus christ. was this movie a psyop LMAO??

also, for the unaware: mclaughlin v. florida was a 1964 supreme court case that struck down a florida anti-miscegenation law that criminalized cohabitation (and thus, as implied, sex) between white people and people of color of opposite genders. anti-miscegenation laws made marriage and sexual relationships between white people and people of color, most often specifically black people, a FELONY in several states in the united states up until the 1950s and 1960s. though it was already struck down by the supreme court, the state of alabama didn't repeal their law until 2000! there were THREE ATTEMPTS at codifying anti-miscegenation into the us constitution!

like yes, the issue here is partially straight white people's ignorance on the united states's history of homophobic policy, but it's also really important to recognize that arguably the majority of the issue here is straight white people's ignorance of the united states's history of codifying eugenics and antiblack racism.

the premise could have been interesting as a serious dystopian story, especially taking that history into account, but it wasn't written that way at all. this movie should never have been a fucking romcom making light of the violence the united states (and many other countries) has enacted on any kinds of sexual relationships it deems undesirable.

[nepenthean-sleep]

can y’all maybe reblog this version i feel like people are forgetting about the racism and just focusing on the homophobia

[arctic-hands]

[Plain Text: "can y’all maybe reblog this version i feel like people are forgetting about the racism and just focusing on the homophobia" End PT]

[tanyushenka]

Sunset in the Mediterranean, Palestine, 1933

[ishimarukiyotaka]

literally the worst way of ending a series is “all the survivors are happily straight married with tons and tons of babies!” 

[ishimarukiyotaka]

people still getting mad at this post i made in 2014 so I will add here. in 2026. that the point of this post isn’t “happy endings bad” its when the story’s only way to imagine a happy ending is a heterosexual nuclear family for everyone.