A Fine Mess

Shannen here (with an 'e'). Just a ginger with my addiction to music, art, people and...basically everything. What's not to love in this life? Raising my first child & this is where I like to burst out in...well in many things. The easily offended be forewarned.

[wizardarchetypes]

like the way so many people talk about the ‘problems with poly relationships’ makes me feel bad for not only their monogamous partners but even their close friends and their damn kids, bc they’ll just be listing shit that comes down to emotional maturity and compassion everyone should be growing and exercising in EVERY relationship

[wizardarchetypes]

like ‘i could never be poly because i’m such a jealous person lol! if my partner even looks at someone on the street i get pissed off!’

cool, that sounds like a nightmare for your monogamous relationship also!

[wizardarchetypes]

’imagine having to prioritize multiple people at once 🙄’ and they have 2 kids

[littlebabybellaa-deactivated202]

naked cuddles and thunderstorms.

[gingerninjuh]

YES

[story-dj]

Just be fucking honest about how you feel about people while you’re alive.

John Mayer (via story-dj)

#alwaysreblog #iloveyou

[trasemc]

NASA has released new images of Jupiter, taken by the Juno Spacecraft.

[chaotic-best]

God I wish Vincent van Gogh was alive to see this

[pagesofpaigess]

That sentiment is so sweet and pure.

[relatablepoetryandquotes]

“How right that the body changed over time, becoming a gallery of scars, a canvas of experience, a testament to life and one’s capacity to endure it.” - Janet Fitch

via @quotemadness

[corpseautopsy-deactivated201912]

King of shoot the shit

[corpseautopsy-deactivated201912]

Tag urself

[gingerninjuh]

A frickin elephant!

[gingerninjuh]

Think of your body this way <3

[gingerninjuh]

"You don't have to be afraid, I am with you." #yourenotalone #wecandothis #inrepair #thesunisrising #heartsongs

[gingerninjuh]

Popecomb Penguinbatshh #dead #benedictcumberbatch

[gingerninjuh]

#snakehandsjimmy

[gingerninjuh]

Still true #reasonswhyimsingle #timehop #proudnerdstatus #nofomohere

[gingerninjuh]

Completely nothing.

[gingerninjuh]

You can unfriend, unfollow or hide my posts but this is now my platform to do whatever. If it's filled with too much anything for you, goodbye. My life, my kids, my grief, my positive messages, even my self-critical messages...they're mine. This is mine. My life is being uprooted in a deeply personal, still spinning way. Matt and I have separated, amicably. But my heart hurts. His heart hurts. Tears are fucking everywhere. If you have a nice post, send it this way now and then. I may not be visible on FB all the time but I'm around, processing in a million different ways. I know this will be okay eventually. I know a million people have been here but it still hurts. And I will need this to process everything. So bear with me as I bare my soul. Or don't. There's the door. #lost #brokenhearted #unapologeticallyme

[gingerninjuh]

I'm apparently channeling this woman today #seriously #needtorecharge #alonetimeisthebesttime

[gingerninjuh]

#infj #introvert

[sscreamss]

just because you don’t look like somebody who you think is attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive. flowers are pretty but so are christmas lights and they look nothing alike

[hershey]

I don’t think anyone could’ve said it in a better way

[palewansickly]

I reblog these things in the hope that someday I will grow to believe them.