21 yr old girl who still acts 16

[erynlou-deactivated20201121]

[creationandcosmos]

cutting ties

it was about damn time.

Know what my favorite part of this is? That one only has ties on a small part of their body whereas the other is tied all along one side up to the face, meaning one person is not quite as invested in the relationship as the other. Even better thought, the one with most ties is the one with the scissors. Im so glad they’ve built up the courage to leave even if it means cutting out a larger part out of their life than the other.

Wow needed to see this at this moment.

[2productive]

[girlanything]

❤

[girlanything]

Alcohol is the only drug that people will question you for not using

I'm 7 days into a month- two month break and I have urges every now and then but my body feels incredible, my thinking is sharp, I'm finally in control of my emotions??? No way I'm going to cave because I want to be addicted to the discipline involved and not addicted to the 2 hour high that drinking can give.

Also my relationships are flourishing!!

I encourage everyone to take this step and we can keep each other accountable! let me know if you want to talk!

[girlanything]

3/8/2022

Was productive and at my desk from 10-5 today and after that have done absolutely nothing. I have finals next week and I really need to get started on some study guides but I just don't want to. Am nervous I wont do well and I'll fail a class but I keep reminding myself that I need to think positive and work as hard as I can!! Looking at study inspo posts on here helps me an incredible amount.

Am currently sitting on the couch with all of my mood lights on. Tea kettle is on, I'm going to drink chamomile tea that will hopefully help my stomach cramps... Wearing big baggy shorts and no shirt (fucking love having no shirt days!!), and Seinfeld is on the tv. My husby is in the bedroom playing PC games with his brothers ♥️ and soon he'll join me to watch a movie that we started earlier.

I need to find ways to help my menstrual cramps because I sweAR they feel worse every month I'm getting older. Lets hope I feel better and ready to study tomorrow ‼️

[yenshu-deactivated20240911]

manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect.

[melisica]

[girlanything]

Will always be my favorite album

Washed out - within and without

[girlanything]

Read this if you care about your friends <3

I turned 21 last Friday and I find it so interesting how our society completely praises the 21 year birthday. I have never gotten so many texts wishing me a happy birthday. Everyone was offering me drinks/ shots and I didn't pay a DIME (except when I wanted to buy pull tabs lmao). Drinking is highly encouraged and I think it's frightening that nobody seems to notice any bad habits involved??

We need to be aware of our buddies who are too drunk. PUKING SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED FUNNY... EVER... that's literally alcohol poisoning and so so bad for your body. the amount of times I've yelled at people for laughing at someone puking.. I most likely seem like a bitch to everyone but I don't fucking care. Puking shows poor self control and in my opinion shows a problem that should be addressed. If you're puking on a night out you very obviously either don't know how to read your body/ don't know your limit or you're self medicating!!!

We need to be aware of our buddies who drink TOO OFTEN. Even if you did just turn 21 you should not be buying bottles every week. Should not be drinking alone. This leads to alcoholism and causes your brain to literally SHRINK in size. We all have our drinking phases (if you don't that's great), but we need to be aware of how long these phases are or if there are any long breaks.

stay healthy friends !!

[girlanything]

Summer when storm clouds were rolling in and the trees were swaying. I miss this day so much and being barefoot/ wearing high waisted shorts

[girlanything]

Is it just me or is finding a gentlemen super hard to find? Maybe I was just raised with nice guys in my life and my expectations are too high... But I never hear about any guy going out of his way for a girl he likes/ loves.. And I mean ESPECIALLY after they've been dating or married a while. It's rare and I want it.

[girlanything]

Seriously though

We need to normalize people with adhd that don't experience hyperactivity.

Adhd can also be people who experience having a busy mind but seem slow on the outside.

I only ever hear of the stereotype adhd as being energetic and fast paced but that is not always the case.. it's 100% dependent on the person.

The amount of times I've seen BS posts on social media on "how you know someone has adhd and how to be there for them". no thats not always how it is.. Adhd is a wide range of symptoms from either being very nonproductive, quiet, and what most people think as lazy --to being spontaneous, talkative, and aggressive.

Know the different types before you give information. This is why people are so commonly misdiagnosed in todays day of age is because of how social media portrays various mental health issues.

[girlanything]

22322

Today I woke up at 6:30 AM for clinical. I felt sleep all morning and feel like I just finally woke up. I went to the gym, cleaned the kitchen, showered, talked to my mom about home-birthing, and finished some homework.

I got my test results back from yesterday and I got an 88%!! It's not super great, I honestly thought I would do better. But I guess a lot of other people in my class did a lot poorly. I have been feeling really accomplished with school.

Nursing school is so complex and strict, so much harder than people realize.

this week I learned about ABG's (arterial blood gasses) and what it means when your body is in acidosis vs alkalosis. Respiratory acidosis for example occurs when you're breathing very slowly/ shallow and you aren't getting enough co2 out. It occurs when you take downers (such as opioids) but it even occurs when you're drinking!

I feel like every situation I'm in now I think about what its doing to our bodies on a cellular level. I wish I could talk to people more about medications and our body processes.

[thehopefulquotes]

I can do nothing for you but work on myself. You can do nothing for me but work on yourself.

Ram Dass (via thehopefulquotes)