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My name is Glenda, and I've been reading tarot for 5 years. I’m looking forward to giving more readings to others to practice my skills. I both use my intuition and the usual meanings of the cards. [previously eighth-house-tarot and clarissaliddytarot]

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Pick a card

( Why are you stuck? )

Before you choose a pile, take a moment to breathe deeply and connect with your intuition. This is a general pick-a-card reading, where the universe's infinite energies align with your path to bring you the guidance you need. Know that you can only choose one pile. The message you receive is not just for you to resonate with, but for you to realize in time as the truth unfolds in your journey. To truly receive your message, you must follow your heart’s instinct, not your expectations. Look beyond the surface and see what your soul is trying to reveal to you. How to Choose Your Card: Breathe in deeply. Breathe out slowly. Light a candle or incense, and clear your mind. Meditate on the beating of your heart, allowing your thoughts to flow naturally. Let go of doubts, and trust what your heart is guiding you towards. Close your eyes, visualize a light forming in your heart, and feel its pull.

When you open your eyes, choose the image that your heart calls to the most. A Final Message for You: Your heart is your guide, not your mind. Surrender to the wisdom that lies within you.

To those who are seeking answers about love, fate, and destiny, I send my prayers to the stars to bless you with clarity, strength, and the energy to embrace your path.

May you receive what you are meant to know.

Choose the pile :

Pile 1: Crow

Pile 2: Serpent

Pile 3: Bear

Pile 4: Deer

The reading starts. . .

Pile 1:

Words which were coming for you as I start the reading are as follows:

(Turbulence, Awakening, Overthinking, Independence, Validation, Direction, Clarity, Release, Movement, Transformation)

Vibes: Trusting your instinct

Nakshatra: Swati

Cards: (Five of wands, Judgement, the chariot, three of cups)

The cards reveal a journey filled with inner conflict, external pressures, and a deep need for self-discovery. There is an undeniable force pushing you toward transformation, yet resistance and overthinking seem to be keeping you in place.

you are caught in a web of conflict, competition, and tension. Whether this is an external battle with people around you or an internal one within yourself, there is a constant struggle preventing you from stepping forward. You may feel like you have to fight to be heard, prove yourself, or navigate chaotic circumstances. But at the same time You are being called to rise, to see the truth, and to step into a new phase of existence. However, you might be hesitating, afraid to let go of the past or unsure of what lies ahead. There is an inner knowing that you are meant for more, yet the weight of past decisions, karma, or expectations is holding you back.

I see you have potential, the drive to move forward and the ability to take charge of your life, but right now, you might feel pulled in multiple directions. There may be external influences, expectations, or doubts about the right path. Your spirit wants to move forward, but something keeps you feeling trapped in indecision. I also see that friendships, social circles, or external influences may be playing a bigger role than you realize. Perhaps you are trying to please others, fit into a specific group, or meet certain expectations that are no longer aligned with your truth. You might also be surrounded by people who distract you from your deeper purpose or contribute to cycles of stagnation.

Hmm.... Also as this pile got swati nakshatra. So your connection to Swati Nakshatra reveals an intense desire for freedom, independence, and personal growth. However, you may feel restricted, confused, or lacking clear direction. Swati's energy is about movement and self-discovery, but if you feel confined by societal expectations, family pressure, or limiting beliefs, it can create deep frustration. There is a yearning to explore, to break free, and to find your own path.

Why are you unhappy?

It probably stems from feeling mentally exhausted from overthinking and emotionally frustrated by stagnation. You are searching for clarity, direction, and purpose, but your own mind is creating barriers to forward movement.

Now as you also chose the Crow as your pile it something to say:

The Crow Caws with great intelligence, heightened perception, and deep wisdom. However, this also suggests a tendency to overanalyze, overthink, and see too many perspectives at once. You may be constantly questioning your choices, doubting your intuition, or trying to make sense of everything before taking action. This cycle of analysis drains your energy and keeps you mentally stuck, rather than allowing you to flow naturally.

So the message I have for you is Trust your inner voice You already sense the truth within, but doubt and fear are keeping you from embracing it. Stop waiting for perfect clarity—take action, and clarity will follow. Trust that you don’t need all the answers to move forward.

A song which came for you:

Pile 2:

Words which were coming for you as I start the reading are as follows:

(Temptation, illusion, control, obsession, discontent, attachment, healing, expression, release, frustration, transformation)

Vibes: Letting go of control and fear of loss

Nakshatra: Ashlesha

Cards: (The devil, Four of cups, Four of pentacles, two of cups)

The card reveals a powerful struggle with attachment, emotional stagnation, and a deep inner conflict surrounding relationships and self-worth. You may be caught in cycles of control, dissatisfaction, or unresolved emotional wounds that prevent you from moving forward. You are stuck because you are holding onto something that needs to be released, whether it’s emotional wounds, toxic connections, or limiting beliefs. You are unhappy because your heart and soul crave deep healing, expression, and emotional fulfillment, yet fear or stagnation is keeping you in place.

you are chained to something unhealthy whether it be toxic habits, relationships, fear, limiting beliefs. There may be temptations, unhealthy attachments, or cycles of self-sabotage that you feel unable to break free from. This could be an obsessive thought,person,pattern, an unhealthy emotional connection, or materialistic fears holding you back. I see you may feel emotionally unfulfilled, bored, or disconnected from life. Opportunities for change may be presenting themselves, but you struggle to recognize them or feel indifferent toward them.

There is this feeling where I feel that though nothing truly excites or motivates you anymore.... Tbh.

There is this fear of starting something new again and like um... Fear? Ye fear of letting go, losing control, or stepping into the unknown. You may be holding onto security, comfort zones, or old patterns that no longer serve you because the fear of change feels greater than the discomfort of staying stuck.

I sense that there is this relationship maybe romantic or maybe not but a significant relationship nonetheless which has a very strong grip on you and like this particular relationship plays this crucial role in this stagnation of yours. There may be an unresolved emotional connection, a fear of vulnerability, or a struggle with balance and reciprocity in partnerships. Whether it’s holding onto the past, fearing intimacy, or feeling disconnected from true emotional fulfillment, your heart is weighed down by emotional struggles that keep you from fully embracing love and harmony. I feel pain. There is also this feeling of abuse I feel like I don't know why.... I feel my heart beating fast and getting uncomfortable. I feel so much pain you have kept inside you.

Hm...... Also as this pile for Ashlesha nakshtra (the clingy one or the entwined) I'm not even surprise tbh.... This feeling of abuse and pain I was feeling no wonder. I feel you may have a controlling mother or an abusive father. I also for some see childhood abuse and sexual harrasment from someone close to you someone you trusted. *sigh* I feel this trauma you carry with you. You're introverted or maybe once you were an extrovert but then you became an introvert. I feel you sometimes get blinded from your sensitivity and at that time you try to isolate and escape and when you can't you become very defensive and toxic. I feel that even though you have love in your heart but you hurt the people you love. Your words can heal or put poison in any person or situation. Now coming back to this nakshatra it reveals a deep, intense, and transformative emotional nature. You have a powerful ability to see beyond illusions, but this gift can also bring emotional turmoil, possessiveness, or internal battles. There may be a fear of betrayal, trust issues, or emotional entanglements that leave you feeling trapped.

There is alot of violence I am feeling towards this pile.

Why are you unhappy?

Your unhappiness comes from an inability to fully release emotional baggage, fears surrounding intimacy and trust, and feeling disconnected from your own creative and emotional flow.

Now as you also chose the serpent as your pile it has something to say:

The serpent comes with great hidden treasure, wisdom, healing emotional wounds, expressing desires, and reclaiming personal power. However, when this energy is blocked.....emotions stagnate, creativity is suppressed, and relationships feel restrictive rather than liberating. You may feel that your emotions are not being fully expressed, or that there are wounds from the past that need deep healing.

So the message I have for you is Recognize what is keeping you chained whether it’s a toxic habit, relationship, or mindset. Break free from limiting attachments. Step into your power by setting boundaries, cutting ties where necessary, and embracing change. Also again Let go of control and fear of loss: You need to surrender.... Because Fear of change and holding onto the past is keeping you in a cycle of emotional, physical and spiritual stagnation.

(Also side note but I feel a call to tell you that for some of you... You need sacral chakra cleansing and healing.... Because I feel it has alot of trauma and may also be the reason why you're stuck. )

A song which came for you:

Pile 3:

Words which were coming for you as I start the reading are as follows:

(Isolation, reflection, tradition, heartache, detachment, longing, resistance, stagnation, awakening, renewal)

Vibes: Taking small steps at a time

Nakshatra: Rohini

Cards: (The hermit, The hierophant, three of swords, eight of cups)

The card reveals you're in a state of withdrawal and contemplation, trying to make sense of past experiences and emotional pain. Your soul is seeking clarity, but stagnation and fear of change may be keeping you trapped in a cycle of emotional heaviness. I feel for some this emotional heaviness can also lead to you gaining weight... Food disorder is also coming strongly. Maybe some of you have eating issues or in a way you have this broken view of looking at your body in a distorted way where you feel pain? Idk.... There is too much happening but for some maybe pain.

I see you were seeking answers some deep important questions but I see that questions may have led you on this journey of isolation or emotional withdrawal. You may feel that no one truly understands what you are going through, and as a result, you prefer to navigate this alone. I also see you may have been following a path that has been dictated by external influences whether it be family, culture, or societal norms rather than listening to your own inner voice.

I also see you are in pain and this pain that you feel deep inside stems from a past relationship, a betrayal, or an experience that left you feeling deeply hurt. Instead of moving forward, you may be holding onto this pain, replaying it in your mind, or struggling to fully heal from it. I also feel that deep inside you know the situation is over and you need to move forward but there is this fear, attachment, or unresolved emotions which might be preventing you from fully letting go. You know that you need to leave behind what is weighing you down, but something is keeping you from taking that final step.

Now coming to your nakshatra you got Rohini the nakshatra with the power of Rohan to grow for some reason this reminds me of Lord of the rings lol.... Maybe some of you are nerds or geeks it's kk^^ Rohini Nakshatra suggests that desire, attachment, and longing for emotional fulfillment and I think that plays a huge role in your unhappiness. Rohini is known for its deep sensuality, creativity, and emotional intensity, but when unfulfilled, it can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction, possessiveness, or longing for something that feels just out of reach. You may feel like you are seeking something greater whether it’s love, purpose, or self-expression but you haven’t yet found it.

Why are you unhappy?

Your unhappiness comes from feeling disconnected from your desires, struggling to heal from emotional wounds, and being stuck in a cycle of contemplation without action.

Now as you also chose the Bear as your pile it has something to say:

The bear usually comes with great awakening from a deep slumber and in your case it should represents awakening, transformation, and the journey toward enlightenment but for some reason this energy is not aligning even though you chose it. I feel that most of you choosing this are in the stagnant or hibernation energy of the bear not moving at all maybe physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually but I strongly feel that. There is alot of lethargy and deep sense of yawning and just sleeping lol. But in deep seriousness if you let this energy of hibernation and lethargy continue then soon you will feel the ill effects of the bear card which usually comes as : resistance to change, lack of movement, and emotional heaviness. You may feel drained, exhausted, or stuck in a period of deep emotional hibernation, unable to take action toward growth.

So the message I have for you is Re-emerge from Isolation because while introspection is valuable, it’s important to start engaging with the world again. Begin by seeking meaningful connections, engaging in activities that bring joy, and allowing yourself to feel alive again. Break free from external conditioning tbh... Like Challenge belief systems, traditions, or societal expectations that are keeping you stuck. Instead of following a path out of obligation, ask yourself what truly resonates with your soul. And last but not least take small steps towards movement and growth your energy is very very very much stagnant, and physical movement can help break this cycle. My advice engage in exercise, creative expression, or any activity that brings vitality back into your life. For some of you music and acting can be a great way of expression.

A song which came for you:

Pile 4:

Words which were coming for you as I start the reading are as follows:

(Incompletion, balance, logic, decision, detachment, restlessness, control, nurturing, courage, completion)

Vibes: Trusting the unknown

Nakshatra: Ashwini

Cards: (The world in reverse, two of pentacles, king of swords, the lovers)

The card reveals you feel like you are constantly juggling responsibilities, relationships, or personal struggles, but something remains unresolved. There is this deep sense of incompleteness, indecision and emotional detachment.

There is this sense for you that something is missing in your life. You might feel like you are on the verge of success or fulfillment but unable to grasp it. There could be fear of closure, reluctance to move on, or external circumstances keeping you from achieving completion. You may also feel overwhelmed, stretched thin, or constantly balancing between choices. This could be related to work-life balance, relationships, or an internal struggle between what you desire and what is expected of you.

I feel that you're someone with a great rational mindset, but perhaps at the cost of emotional connection. There could be difficulty expressing emotions or making decisions that involve vulnerability. You might be relying too much on intellect and not enough on intuition and feeling. Or maybe you try to rationalize what you feel or just put brain into things of heart alot.

I also can see you may be facing a difficult decision in love, struggling with commitment, or feeling disconnected from your emotions. There is this internal battle between the heart and the mind- About what you truly want Vs what seems practical or logical. Like I said Brain vs Heart.

Now coming to your nakshatra you got Ashwini ...this nakshatra is ruled by ketu and mars. So naturally it suggests you have a strong desire for action, movement, and independence. However, when this energy is blocked, it can lead to restlessness, impatience, and frustration. You may feel like you are ready for change, but something is holding you back from taking the leap. There could be a fear of commitment, a resistance to settling down, or a need for personal freedom that clashes with your current circumstances. You're so a natural healer just so yk^^

Why are you unhappy?

Your unhappiness stems from feeling stuck in an incomplete cycle, struggling with decisions, and feeling disconnected from your emotional self.

Now as you chose the Deer as your pile it has something to say:

The deer graces us with the power of intuition,gentleness, devotion, and the openness to emotional connection. But when blocked reinforces themes of emotional detachment, overprotectiveness, or a lack of nurturing energy. you may be feeling guarded, overly analytical, or struggling to trust in love and relationships. There could be a fear of vulnerability, causing you to withdraw rather than embrace emotional support. Call upon the deer for help when struggling with your heart as it will help with its gentle guidance. For your heart to open and heal connect with nature and children in general it may help.

Now for the message I have for you is Recognize that certain cycles need to be completed before you can move forward. Stop delaying necessary endings or avoiding difficult decisions. Also Instead of juggling too many responsibilities, focus on what truly matters to you. And like try to rebalance your energy by setting boundaries and making time for personal healing. reconnect with your emotional side rather than relying solely on logic. And most importantly Logic alone will not solve emotional matters. Allow yourself to feel and express emotions. If you are avoiding a choice in love or relationships, face it honestly.

A song which came for you

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🤔 I’m thinking of how to transfer this blog to my new primary blog for Glenda’s Guidance

strategy so far:

🍄 copy over my most important posts (pinned, masterposts, free readings, how to pick a card, etc)

🍄 reblog everything in my “reblogged readings” tag

🍄 reblog my own readings (remaking them and deleting the originals sounds like hell, plus people will lose access to them)

🍄 dm all of my followers to let them know of the new primary blog and the either inactive status or deactivation of this side blog

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Pick a Pile — Preparing for Spring

Howdy!! The intention for this reading is what you need to know to prepare for spring. This is a general reading so take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and stay spooky!!

Pile One Pile Two Pile Three

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6♣︎ 4♥︎ 6♦︎

In your preparation for spring you should be mindful of your relationships. You’ve been in a bit of a flow state, things come easily but it may feel a little mundane. A change in seasons may show you some new patterns in your life, pay attention to the people you are closest with.

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Pile Two ♧

A♣︎ 10♠︎ K♥︎

Spring comes with completion for you. Maybe a graduation or something more somber. But this ending, whatever it may be, will make room for new beginnings. I’m seeing this as a new hobby or a job that fits your interests. You may be very emotional this spring, but this is also an opportunity!! Feeling deeply is a gift, it may make room for realizations about yourself.

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Pile Three ♣︎

10♣︎ 3♦︎ 10♠︎

I had to wrangle with this reading because the cards seem so abrupt. There will be sudden change this spring. A job or a task that has been dragging on may be suddenly coming to an end, much earlier than you expected. It seems to be a relief that this thing is ending. Be mindful to keep communication open as this door closes. You can grieve things you won’t miss.

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Finance Reading ✨💸💶

Pile 1

Okay Pile 1 so the messages I am receiving regarding your finances for right now are that spirit wants you to leave certain financial habits in the past. Specifically with overspending because with this 5 of Pentacles and 3 of Wands, you may have a bad habit of overindulging in things and it causes you to be at a loss. You could be in some sort of financial debt that you are trying to get out of, but what I am hearing is that you won’t be able to get out of debt if you keep unnecessarily digging a deeper hole for yourself. However with this Death card and the 3 of Wands Spirit wants you to make new moves and decisions in order to have a fresh start with your finances. For example, whenever you do get any new money, that’s an opportunity to put it towards any overdue bills instead of recklessly spending it on frivolous things. Another thing is to stop giving out money to people and things when you know you don’t have it or knowing that money could go towards something you’re dealing with at the moment or even just your savings. Learn to spend your money more wisely, because what I am hearing is that Spirit is not going to keep saving you or giving you more chances with your finances if you’re just going to keep wasting the opportunities. Especially when you choose to spend money on things that do not benefit you long term as there is just a sense of temporary happiness. In order to be more stable financially you need to start thinking about the long term effects of your actions. Some things can wait, learn to decipher your wants and your needs. There will always be another or better opportunity for that “want”. You may even end up not caring for the things that you could have impulsively bought, meaning you could have pocketed the money you spent on something impulsively. Spend money on things that are a genuine investment, put more focus on the “later” rather than the “now”. Also when making purchases get things that will last, I’m specifically getting the example of get a hairstyle that will last. You could spend $200-$300 on a hairstyle that can last you a few weeks rather than a hairstyle that will only last you a few days. Spirit also knows that you are able to make your money stretch. Even when it comes to self maintenance with hair, nails, makeup etc. There are cheaper alternatives that you can look to that will maintain the same look. Invest your time into learning how to make things work for you. Even when you do want to treat yourself pick one day out the week instead of splurging on multiple days throughout the week. I am also picking up on the fact that you need to check your transactions, you don’t realize how much things really add up. Try to Budget things out, and something that can also be helpful is every-time you spend money, put some money into your savings as well. The same money that you spend, you could spend half of that amount and put the other half in your savings. You could look into ways that your money could work for you by doing your research on different types of accounts, to where your money grows overtime just by letting it sit there. You spend a lot of time online, so you could be online looking into different resources that could help you grow financially. An emphasis on investments.

Sending your energies back with love and light 💌 .

Pile 2

okay pile 2, So, what I'm getting is that you probably have some past conflict with your finances. Whether that would be with somebody or with yourself, maybe you have some type of issues with your bank is what I'm getting or I'm also hearing something with like schooling or some type of company, because I'm not necessarily getting it has to be with the one specific person, but maybe like an establishment, but you know, like in the business world they classify you as the person or the party etc. Moving on, I think you're kind of accepting that you're gonna take your loss, because you have put up a fight, but I also feel like you're gonna be moving on from it, because I don't think the loss is a major loss. It's more so just like, I keep hearing like a lesson learnt on what to do next time.

But with this eight of wands and this nine of wands, I do feel like you're gonna be making progress towards making better money moves and just doing moves to where money can start flowing in more frequently for you. But I think you are going to be more cautious of how you do things, basically not being too lackadaisical with your money, especially when it's money that kind of has to do with something about your record with how you keep up with things Because with this ace of wands, I think you do want to take movements towards something but you also know that you have to make newer moves to get newer things and leave other things in the past. don't be so careless about things because you might have just felt comfortable with knowing how you were with your money or just comfortable in the fact that you don't feel like you would ever have to deal with issues of like, maybe that specific party or entity that you did have to deal with. But I think moving forward, you all are just gonna be cautious, not scared, but very much more alert and aware of what you’re doing and looking at your money. I do see like some of y'all may be starting some type of business. So I would definitely say look more into that because money could be flowing in from that quickly as long as you're consistent because with the five of wands, it doesn't have to mean conflict, but it could just mean putting up a fight and putting in the efforts to maintain something because I also feel like the five of wands is about putting your guard down, standing on business. I do feel like you could just be at conflict with yourself as far as making sure that you're on things instead of being so comfortable, relaxed and lackadaisical with people and with past decisions regarding your finances. I see around like spring time or summer your money's definitely gonna be coming in quickly or you're gonna be seeing the growth and the progress of whatever you decide to do financially, especially if some of you are starting a new business specifically. What I'm also hearing is be patient with yourself and don’t feel like you’re in a rush. When you slow down and think things through, that's when you get the best out of everything. don't be so impulsive about everything. things will come as they need to. You just have to trust in the divine, trust in the universe , trust in God, or whoever you believe in. I think you all would be straight wish your money just don't be lackadaisical, be on things and don't let people walk all over you either. heavy on if you need to put up a fight with certain things, do that, because I'm also hearing, maybe even Bill collectors and stuff for like a tenant, something like that, if you know that you're only supposed to pay a certain amount, don't let people try to cheat you out and make you pay more just because you have it, it doesn't mean that you have to spend it. If you're smart enough, if you're really business savvy, you can do a lot of negotiating is what I'm hearing as well. You don't always have to jump for the first option. Just sit and negotiate. I'm also hearing if any of you all with a business, when you come to contracts concerning legal documents and agreements, start reviewing those instead of just being like, I accept or I agree, because you might look over something that you could possibly negotiate to go into your favor, in the future.

Sending your energies back with love and light 💌 .

Pile 3

Okay Pile 3, I see that you all have taken a major loss financially. Maybe a few of you have lost your jobs which could have caused you all to start dipping into your savings. This has caused some of you to be constantly digging a deeper hole. For others you all are just not where you want to be financially. Some of your moods could have been affected because you all feel a little broke right now. Since you all lost so much money it’s a feeling of being uncomfortable that you all are facing, that feeling of instability. However, some of you do like to gamble, especially if you place bets on sports often. I’m hearing more so over the holiday time. This is a habit that needs to stop if you want to grow financially.

Moving forward I do see you all being able to make a major comeback with the King of Wands and King of Cups. You all will be making wiser decisions when it comes to your finances, I think you all have had a lot of time to reflect on your actions and the consequences so it serves as motivation to make better decisions in the future. Some of you had to go through this major loss in order to change your habits since you were so used to having luck whenever you did indulge in things like gambling. Now for those of you who have lost your jobs or didn’t get the position that you wanted, I do see with this Magician here that you all can make ends meet for the time being. I also see that you all will be making big business moves in the future. There are bigger and better opportunities for you.

Once you all get emotionally in tuned with yourselves and stop making irrational decisions with your money things will begin to look better. You all will be moving very carefully and calculated with your finances, where you put your money towards and more particular about who you do business with. Stop doing business with friends, it’s not in your favor if you haven’t fully grasped that idea yet. Some of you have a lot of skills. I’m picking up more of a masculine energy from this collective. Some of you all can still be women though it doesn’t matter.

You all could probably have a skill set that you all either neglected or just haven't put as much effort into, but if you all use your skills, you can literally get right back on track. I'm not going to say it's going to be easy, but if you put the work in, you’ll get there, you all will definitely be having a lot coming in because with the magician you manifest things, a magician is a jack of all traits. you can have multiple side hustles, everything but, you need to stop having multiple people in your business and start having multiple businesses is what I'm hearing. multiple skills, multiple businesses, multiple streams of income, so stop being so dependent on one thing or outsiders, literally. When you start being a bit more independent with your approach to money, things will start looking better for you. Some of you could work with your hands a lot whether that be at a warehouse or just manual labor in general like construction work. If not that I see that some of you could be nail techs, do hair, lashes, makeup, bake, cook, or even being a masseuse. Some of you are definitely entrepreneurs. Honing in on these skills that you have can help you recover from this financial loss that you have faced.

Sending your energies back with love and light 💌 .

Pile 4

Okay Pile 4, So some of you all may have been caught up with bills and managing your money however you all did get it together! The crown may tilt, but it never falls. With the Six of Swords and Two of Pentacles reversed you all were juggling a lot of responsibilities. You did get on your zoom and now you’re establishing how to handle your different financial obligations. I do see some new opportunities coming in for you like a raise or bonus at work, some networking opportunities etc. Just be careful for whenever you do receive this new opportunity, do not get tempted to irrationally spend money just because you got it. It’s always better to save for a rainy day.

Sending your energies back with love and light 💌 .

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Are You In Alignment With Your Dreams?

We all have dreams, goals, and aspirations in life, things which propell us forward and get us up in the mornings. But, sometimes life can happen or other people or circumstances can get in the way of what you want. I intend to let my collective know if they are in alignment with what they desire, or have they fallen off their paths?

Drink some water, pick a pile, and feel free to discard what does not resonate with you.

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Group One ~ The Cat

There are things you are avoiding, that you need to address soon, seeker. There may be doubt about your ability, or a lack of healing from past wounds. You have been scarred in the past, more than likely about your dreams and your destiny. Don't fear what other people are saying, or might say about you seeker. Trust in your ability, your path, and your guides. Heal, and know that you are divinely protected.

Group Two ~ The Wine

Your dreams are coming true, but you need to learn how to manage your time and energy. You may have been putting a lot of effort into places or people that either do not need it or you worry about too much. Reclaim your energy, delegate tasks, and follow your own boundaries. Let someone else handle the smaller details, and release burdens where it is needed. You are on the right path, there is no need to control everything.

Group Three ~ The Hands

You need to reach out more to your community, seeker. You may have been judged for your dreams in the past by another community, and it made you hoard your talents and gifts, hiding them from people who should have nurtured you. But, now you are older and wiser, and have more independence and a whole community waiting for you. Speak your mind, share your interests, and don't be scared to reach out for mentorship. There are people who want to help your dreams come true, you just need to put yourself out there, seeker.

Group Four ~ The Rose

You need to work on your dreams in secret, seeker. There may be some energies in your life which do not have your best intentions in mind. When you move, do so quietly. Maybe now is the time to avoid posting on social media. Take ritual baths to wash away the negative energy, and care for yourself. Rest and relax in the moments of solitude you may have been avoiding for productivity or keeping up an image. It's time to move in silence, work hard, and claim your blessings away from the public eye.

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Thank you so much for trusting me with your energy and your question, I pray this reading brought you clarity and comfort.

I am accepting free reading requests from now until February 3, and I will be dropping a Kofi shop after this event for a variety of services! Keep your eyes peeled for my announcement, if this is something that calls to you.

May you be blessed, stay safe seeker!

[glendasguidance]

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started the (probably long, hopefully short) process of turning this side blog into a primary blog!

which seems to be by making a new primary blog and then copying my work onto there. it seems tedious, but I’d rather get it done before I’ve made even more readings on this blog. I have goals for Glenda’s Guidance I didn’t expect to have when I first made this side blog!

it’s @glendasguidancexx for now, feel free to give her a follow 💞

[androgynealienfemme]

Food for thought

[esoanem]

Yeah, this sort of stuff serves several purposes, including:

Confuse the masses as to what the actual law is

Get people to obey in advance

Demoralise the opposition

Signal intention to supporters

[alex51324]

^^ I was thinking, like, "surely we all remember this from last time," but then I thought about it again, and realized that there are people who voted this year, who wouldn't even have been in their teens during the previous Trump rodeo.

So yeah, if you weren't following it last time, there will be a lot of Executive Orders that get walked back, struck down, or, once subjected to even mildly rigorous legal interpretation, turn out to have little or no effect.

When you see that Trump has signed an EO about something that seems drastic and scary, take a breath and wait a few hours, then see what the experts are saying about it.

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What do you bring to relationships?

Today, I had a dream of a person crying and asking "Why did you leave me?" Oftentimes, when we lose friends, partners, and the relationships we have with them, it can be hard to build the confidence again. My intention with this reading is to show my collective what people truly love and appreciate about them, and why others would be attracted to you.

Drink some water, pick a pile, and feel free to discard what does not resonate with you.

𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧

𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧

Group One ~ The Painting

You are confident and always bounce back. This doesn't mean that you don't have your off days or that you don't have insecurities. You have a sense of stability, confidence in yourself, and lots of hope and faith. You bring a lightness to any relationship, and you are a dependable person. I am seeing a school of fish swimming behind another fish, in the open sea. I am also seeing a sea turtle, not fighting against the waves, but gracefully moving with them. You are a leader, someone they believe in, and they admire your strength and your ability to go with the flow. Keep moving forward, you will have people in your life who admire you.

Group Two ~ The Jellyfish

You bring thoughtfulness to your relationships, seeker. You are aware of everything going on around you, and you aren't quick to anger or to fight. Your patience is a breath of fresh air. I am seeing the wind blowing through a field of flowers and refreshing a woman standing in the center of them. Your consideration, patience, and guidance make you a great partner and friend. Many do not have the skills and personality you possess, and it's refreshing to have you in their lives. Keep being yourself, and don't let people think that your kindness is weakness.

Group Three ~ The Lips

You fight for them, seekers. Many may have told you how they don't like your "aggression", when in reality you are loyal, know your worth, and know the worth of the people around you. You stand up for them, protect them, care for them with your fierceness. You do not tolerate for disrespect. I see a bull, pawing at the ground, about to charge at someone, while a young calf cowers behind him. The only reason others don't like your strength, is because they deserved it being turned on them. People love the way you fight for them and protect them, but be sure to rest afterwards. You have riteous anger for them, but make sure your fire doesn't burn yourself.

Group Four ~ The Bubbles

You call your friends and partners out. Everyone has vices, and you accept the darker parts of them. I see two people embracing in a seedy alleyway, a vision of kindness and warmth even in the darkest moments. But, you also don't let them hurt themselves or others. You care for them, and don't let them slip into illusions that they are always good or justified. You accept them, and keep them moving on the right path. You are precious to them because they know you accept all of them, and don't let their demons win.

𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧₊˚𓇼𓏲*ੈ✩‧

Thank you for your energy and time, seekers. I know it's difficult sometimes to understand how people see you, and I pray this found you at the right time, and comforted you.

If you would like a clarification reading, or a reading on another issue you have, I am currently offering free readings from now until February 3. You can send through dms or through an ask, and I will answer it!

Thank you, I am grateful for you!

[moonlitrogue]

The Signs as Resistance ࣪𖤐.ᐟ

because to despair is human, and so is our ability to resist states of unfreedom. my take on what each sign adds to the resistance. ᯓ★ you can read for your sun/mars/1H/8H/11H

⋆˚✿˖° Aries - you're the trailblazers, the leader of the pack. your ability to identify and dive into risks that pay off can teach us how to act on justice and safety; giving resistance its direction and movement. whether it's confronting authority and actively protesting, or self-defense workshops, or peer motivation, or implementing emergency response plans, you can spot aries taking charge in their natural element. with each and every person they meet, they practice authenticity. they're the life source, the fire, and the direction of change as inspiring leaders, activists and revolutionaries.

⋆˚✿˖° Taurus - associated with both the earth and the bull, you inspire lasting foundations, fostering an affinity for physical resources and sustainability. you bring the zen garden to the heart of the concrete jungle through your ethos of slow and mindful living. without you, taurus, who else can guide us through burnout recovery, resting and nourishing our bodies. who better to challenge the late-stage, capitalist vices of fast fashion, food wastage, land injustices and energy insecurities.

⋆˚✿˖° Gemini - your natural instinct to reach out in between the spaces of varying networks of interests can help you devise strategies, identify and debunk propaganda, and build tools of communication that are both light-hearted and easy to digest. think zines, podcasts, newsletters and teach ins. social media the world is your oyster, gemini. we appreciate the freshness of your perspective, your immense potential to create frameworks of ideas through which we can lay the foundations of change.

⋆˚✿˖° Cancer - you're the home, the refuge and safety of resistance, cancer. your uncanny ability to feel for others creates ripples in the fabric of the universe. like a mother's love that can move mountains for her offspring, your radical love moves the resistance through it's stagnant and often, unkind phases. You understand how safety is scarce, so you create safe spaces for the vulnerable. you start community kitchens, shelters and raise funds to provide for basic needs. many of you are caught fighting/healing intergenerational cycles and, redefining how you relate to the family, as well as, its role in perpetuating oppression.

⋆˚✿˖° Leo - you're the inner child at play, your imagination moulding the cosmos one creative flex at a time. theatre plays, art, dance and storytelling has bolstered the spirit that the oppressive side has failed to crush. the theatrics of exploring our collective creative side, uninhabited, donning our spirits with a bright enthusiasm for what nourishes the soul, has been at the heart of the resistance, and at the heart of leo's existence. your creative spirit grounding us against the depleting and alienating forces of capitalism.

⋆˚✿˖° Virgo - similar to gemini, you cut through the bullshit by providing fact checks. you draw the plans and pull up the blueprints. breaking big problems into actionable steps. advocating for special causes, developing toolkits, planning logistics and inventory, managing local support networks. your sweet souls guide you to create functional spaces where voices are amplified and the truth is at the center of all resistance work. virgo is also found at the forefront of improving health and safety standards, while caring for the environmental preservation. you may also work with taurus on fixing or repairing used objects or clothing items and upcycling a lot of stuff. virgos sometimes froth with impatience, and that the ideals of service are discarded for indifference and self-gain mortifies them. you rue over all the neglect, thoughtlessness, carelessness and a lack of intention as a dominant living style in late-stage capitalist society.

⋆˚✿˖° Libra - you may get the short end of the stick, being called ‘indecisive’ or ‘diplomatic’; but, you just want to ensure no one's left behind. you build consensus, with a sharp eye for balancing the scales, ensuring that everyone gets a seat at the table of justice. you ensure that people don't get carried away with annihilation, gently offering to recalibrate, and crafting spaces to preen and bloom in the aftermath of change. whether it's about the need for larger accessibility, or conflict mediation or de-escalation work, you try your best to create harmony in a graceless world. there are certain risks associated with such a giving nature and assuming good will towards all. when you act from a place that aligns with your sense of justice, libra, you're slowly creating a world that's just as gracious and trusting as you.

⋆˚✿˖° Scorpio - the back bone of the resistance. you recognise hurt as a space to be filled with understanding and compassion. you bring integrity to the resistance. your awareness, on both the earthly and spiritual plane is testimony to the intergenerational healing of the earth and the power of transformation. but it's unpleasant, oh so unpleasant. you address the inner policing software we all have in us, craving punishment as justice. you invite the shadow self to bring about authenticity. as the late stage capitalism offers us powerful entities poking at the wounds of society to let it fester into a money pot for the growth of the prison-military complex. you discern the hypocrisy, the injustice. you disempower these violent systems, at a more psychological level.

⋆˚✿˖° Sagittarius - you’re the truth seekers, and while that sometimes can feel like chasing horizons as they say, you know it pays off to investigate and explore. your curiosity pushes you to pioneer faith and stitch it into every action of resistance. very much similar to archery, you know if the arrow will hit the target or not, as you aim and release, you already foresee the future. now, this philosophy at an earthly level translates to championing grassroots movements, building coalitions, or working on educational reforms, or questioning outdated ideologies; sagittarius offers a focused momentum that sees results. the optimism of sagittarius is not hollow, it only asks of us to be hopeful because it’s a driving philosophy in a world banking on hopelessness.

⋆˚✿˖° Capricorn - while the frameworks of their world are crumbling, you’re burning the midnight oil to setup the foundations of a new one. the internal conflict between serving the community and being in a position of power to influence a better future has often resulted in sticky situations for capricorn. you diligence and mercy has been taken for granted but everything you do is for the longevity. the legacy. sometimes the elders of our family can perceive themselves as responsible, but not in the way they think; responsible for many things, yes, both good and bad. it’s not an easy legacy, for the elder are wise only because they glean from the mistakes they’ve made and witnessed. the sweetest and wisest of elders lead the family into progress and prosperity. these are your local businesses, communities, planned funding, planned infrastructure, long term housing solutions, supply chains which are built in a just manner, where personal ambition alchemizes into collective prosperity.

⋆˚✿˖° Aquarius - as above, so below. the shift in thought and imagination is already taking place and it’s possible you were there to feel it at least 7 years ago. you shake off the shackles of oppressive imagination and fantasies. like a hangover, the stupor not wearing off, but an awareness that something’s amiss. you’re the visionaries living in the future, through your lifestyle, art, writing, theoretical paradigms, films, social endeavors and activism. you envisioned a dystopia at first and worked your way backwards to reach a consensus on what needs to be done. whether it’s surveillance or inequality, alternative education resources, eco-sensitive awareness, and adding different dimensions to religion and spirituality. the acceptance that solidarity also extends beyond the goals of resistance, how we act in our inter-personal relationships, for instance - how we treat the autonomy of another, how we navigate the politics of the personal while aiming to transform the politics of the collective, how we navigate discomfort in conversations, how we attempt to control a discourse or dialogue amongst a group, even if it’s a sibling or a friend, the end game of cancel culture and its fascist optics of purity politics. it is all fairly overwhelming, because you realize everything is interconnected, as above, so below; you guys tend to be called ‘futuristic’, while most of your journey has seen you stand up on your own. the Aquarian age will gain you a community who’s finally aligned with your philosophy.

⋆˚✿˖° Pisces - the soul of the movement. where change takes longer but the benefits last longer. praying, setting intentions, community rituals, esoteric practices, healing circles, safe houses, art, murals, songs, poetry, deciphering dream logic and prophecies, wisdom keeping become central to the upliftment of humanity. a return to our purpose, our calling. how we can add to the community, care and mutual aid- by going back to our gifts, simple ways of living with evolved thinking. seeing beyond competition, algorithms and rigid definitions of success. no longer being subservient to the lower faculties of the mind. you’re healing the frequency of the world, by tackling what’s at the root. leaning into the whispers of the heart, your own inner Universe, you are reimagining newer modalities, trusting your intuition, replacing obsessions with mindfulness, and discovering a love that’s more holistic.

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Which spirit animal is working with you right now?

Choose one image and get your message.

Pick an Image

1- Snake

Kundalini Ascension

Make space for your creative passion and desires; transformation is at your door.

The snake represents rising energy within you and also rebirth. The snake transformer respawns as often as needed by shedding layers of skin. What is the snake calling you to let go of in order to go through the cycle of rebirth? Ask your heart what you need to let go of.

Rebirth can be emotionally, spiritually and physically challenging, putting pressure on all layers, but the healing energy of the snake will support you in this process of change. The snake's influence is like a very powerful magic, the snake energy starts at the base of your spine and moves upwards, activating the divine masculine and divine feminine within you. This energy passes through your heart, connects to your third eye and awakens cosmic memory. When you get this animal, you may have past life memories from Egypt that you need to remember. It may also indicate a kundalini awakening or rising that you need to express. The only thing that is certain is that the appearance of the snake means work, action and change.

2- Giraffe

Big Picture

Take a step back to understand and align your thoughts and feelings.

The giraffe comes to you to help you gather your thoughts and gain a new perspective. With his tall stature, he sees the world from a different perspective. He is close to the heavens and the divine, and he reminds you to commune with your guides.

The giraffe brings foresight and helps you connect with your third eye. It can awaken dormant clairvoyant abilities and show you how it wishes you to use these hidden talents. The giraffe will teach you not to place too much emphasis on visions of the future or the past and will encourage you to live in the moment. Allow the giraffe to touch and strengthen your third eye. Trust that it can enhance your connection with the divine.

The healing message of the giraffe, whose roots are in the earth and whose head is in the sky, is balance. Work equally on your root and upper chakras to create the inner balance needed for deeper insights.

3 - Bear

You are light

It is safe to step into your light.

When the bear appeared to me, it transported me to a beautiful sunset. In that glorious yellow glow, I felt a warmth around me and within me. The bear's message is simple: You can step into the light with confidence, and I empower you to do so. It is safe to be seen.

The bear stands strong and powerful in his own convictions and walks with you. He protects your spiritual body. Just as spirits act as gatekeepers, guarding and protecting our passage to the astral planes and other dimensions, so do animals. The bear's role is to make your passage safe, as does the wolf; I often see the two together. The bear helps you get to where you need to be and directs you only to the higher vibrational planes that are compatible with your energy. Call upon your bear before meditation and sleep hours, and it will gladly serve you. In these moments you may need extra strength, a helper to carry you into the light and to see what is hidden within you.

[majikkulu]

✮ ˖° ⸜ masterlist ꕤ ･

╭₊˚๑ in  this  pick-a-card  reading,  we'll  explore  the  qualities  that  make  you  irresistible,  magnetic,  and  charming.

choose  the  picture  or  pile  that  calls  to  you,  and  let  the  magic  unfold! xoxo

if  you  have  any  ideas  for  future  tarot  pacs,  feel  free  to  drop them  in  my  ask  box,  and  i’ll  bring  them  to  life! ☁️₊˚੭

﹒ ﹢ ♡. PILE ONE ﹑ ﹒ you  have  this  nurturing  energy  about  you.  something  soft,  warm,  and  grounding.  it’s  the  kind  of  presence  that  makes  people  feel  safe,  like  they  can  exhale  when  they’re  around  you.  there’s  a  quiet  strength  in  the  way  you  move,  slow  and  intentional,  like  you’re  never  in  a  rush  because  you  don’t  need  to  be.  you  take  your  time,  savoring  each  moment,  moving  with  a  grace  that  feels  natural.  there’s  an  effortless  sensuality  in  you,  something  magnetic  without  trying  to  be.  people  find  comfort  in  you,  a  sense  of  stability,  like  they  can  lean  on  you  without  fear  of  being  judged.  your  presence  is  captivating,  not  because  you  demand  attention,  but  because  you  have  a  way  of  making  people  feel  truly  seen.  you  listen.  not  just  to  respond,  but  to  understand.  that’s  unique,  and  it’s  why  people  trust  you.  you  have  this  emotional  intelligence  that  makes  others  feel  deeply  connected  to  you,  even  if  they  can’t  quite  put  their  finger  on  why.  there’s  a  depth  to  you,  an  unspoken  wisdom,  and  people  sense  it.  they’re  drawn  to  you  because  you  make  them  feel  understood  in  a  way  that’s  rare  and  genuine.  but  you’re  not  just  someone  who  holds  space  for  others—you  also  know  how  to  hold  space  for  yourself.  you  know  your  worth,  and  it  shows.  there’s  a  quiet  confidence  in  you,  the  kind  that  doesn’t  need  validation  because  you  already  know  what  you  bring  to  the  table.  you’re  independent,  self-assured,  and  while  you  may  have  your  moments  of  doubt  (as  everyone  does),  you  never  let  them  define  you.  your  strength  isn’t  just  in  your  resilience,  but  in  your  ability  to  remain  soft  despite  everything.  you  have  strong  boundaries,  but  that  doesn’t  make  you  closed  off.  it  makes  you  real.  you  don’t  pretend  to  be  anything  you’re  not,  and  that’s  what  makes  people  feel  comfortable  around  you.  they  don’t  have  to  hide  the  messy,  unfiltered  parts  of  themselves  because  they  know  you  won’t  judge  them.  they  can  just  be.  and  that’s  because  you  do  the  same.  you  embrace  all  parts  of  yourself,  even  the  ones  that  aren’t  perfect.  your  energy  is  calm,  steady,  unwavering.  you  don’t  force  yourself  into  spaces  where  you  don’t  belong,  and  you  don’t  chase  things  that  aren’t  meant  for  you.  you  move  through  life  with  grace,  knowing  that  what’s  meant  for  you  will  always  find  its  way.  and  that?  that’s  powerful.

﹒ ﹢ ♡. PILE TWO ﹑ ﹒ there’s  something  mesmerizing  about  you,  a  quiet  magnetism  that  leaves  people  in  awe.  they  sense  that  you  have  many  layers,  and  that  mystery  only  draws  them  in  further.  you  have  an  almost  dreamlike  presence,  like  a  reflection  of  their  deepest  desires,  fantasies,  and  unspoken  thoughts.  people  project  onto  you  without  even  realizing  it,  caught  up  in  the  enigma  that  is  you.  they  can’t  quite  figure  you  out,  and  that  only  makes  you  more  captivating.  you  know  how  to  heal,  to  move  forward,  to  let  go  of  what  no  longer  serves  you.  attachment  doesn’t  come  easily  for  you.  not  to  people,  not  to  things.  it’s  not  that  you  don’t  care,  but  rather  that  you  understand  the  ebb  and  flow  of  life.  there’s  a  wisdom  in  you,  something  timeless,  something  that  people  naturally  seek  out.  even  without  trying,  you  bring  comfort  to  others.  your  words,  your  presence.  it  all  carries  a  kind  of  healing  energy.  people  feel  safe  around  you,  like  they  can  breathe  a  little  easier  in  your  presence.  your  energy  is  calm,  yet  commanding.  you  give,  but  never  to  the  point  of  depletion.  you  know  how  to  receive,  how  to  hold  space  for  yourself  just  as  much  as  you  do  for  others.  because  of  this,  your  attention  feels  rare,  valuable.  you  don’t  overextend,  and  that  makes  people  cherish  the  moments  they  get  to  share  with  you.  your  generosity  isn’t  about  material  things.  it’s  about  time,  care,  emotional  depth.  you  show  up  when  it  matters,  and  that  means  more  than  anything  superficial  ever  could.  there’s  something  powerful  about  the  way  you  carry  yourself.  poised,  calm,  composed.  you  move  with  intention.  you  don’t  share  too  much,  don’t  reveal  all  your  cards,  and  that  makes  people  even  more  curious.  they  want  to  know  you,  to  understand  you,  but  you’re  not  easily  swayed  by  outside  forces.  there’s  a  strength  in  your  presence,  a  quiet  intensity  that  lingers  in  your  eyes.  people  can  feel  that  you’ve  been  through  things,  that  you’ve  faced  hardships  and  emerged  even  more  compelling  because  of  them. 

﹒ ﹢ ♡. PILE THREE ﹑ ﹒ some  of  you  might  be  foreigners  or  speak  multiple  languages,  and  that  in  itself  makes  you  irresistible.  you  know  those  people  who  are  drawn  to  the  allure  of  someone  different,  someone  with  a  unique  background?  you  give  off  that  energy  effortlessly.  i’m  getting  *confident*  by  justin  bieber.  you  oooze  with  this  self-assurance  that  people  can’t  help  but  admire.  they  notice  everything  about  you,  from  the  way  you  carry  yourself  to  the  smallest  details  of  your  presence.  you  radiate  completion,  like  you’ve  already  won  at  life,  and  that  confidence  is  magnetic.  you  don’t  need  anyone,  yet  you  have  this  rare  ability  to  complement  and  elevate  those  around  you.  people  look  up  to  you,  even  if  they  never  say  it  out  loud,  and  even  if  you  don’t  feel  like  someone  who  should  be  idolized.  there’s  something  so  whole  about  you,  as  if  you’ve  mastered  the  art  of  being  yourself.  maybe  it’s  the  way  you  move.  graceful,  grounded,  sensual  or  the  way  you  speak  with  intention.  for  some,  your  financial  status  or  stability  might  add  to  your  appeal.  you  give  off  the  energy  of  security,  of  being  a  safe  place  to  land,  while  still  keeping  an  air  of  excitement  and  unpredictability.  you’re  fresh  and  intriguing,  yet  down-to-earth  and  relatable.  there’s  a  warmth  to  you,  a  sense  of  calm  that  reassures  people.  maybe  you  have  naturally  glowing  skin  or  a  way  of  taking  care  of  yourself  that  makes  heads  turn.  there’s  something  effortlessly  beautiful  about  you.  not  just  in  appearance,  but  in  the  way  you  are.  you  have  this  dreamy,  youthful  charm  that  makes  people  want  to  experience  you.  they’re  curious  about  you,  obsessively  so.  and  then,  there’s  your  unpredictability.  people  can  never  quite  figure  you  out.  you  might  be  a  little  flirtatious  without  realizing  it,  giving  off  just  enough  intrigue  before  slipping  out  of  reach  again.  you  don’t  attach  easily,  and  you  know  exactly  when  to  leave,  when  to  let  go.  you  cannot  be  owned  or  controlled,  and  that  makes  you  even  more  desirable.  but  beyond  the  mystery,  you  are  wise.  people  learn  from  you,  drawn  to  the  depth  of  your  thoughts.  when  you  speak,  others  listen.  you  don’t  waste  words  or  energy  on  meaningless  interactions.  you  are  selective  about  who  you  let  in,  and  that  exclusivity  makes  people  crave  your  attention  even  more.  you  might  even  attract  people  who  want  to  invest  in  you  financially,  emotionally,  spiritually.

﹒ ﹢ ♡. PILE FOUR ﹑ ﹒ this  pile  radiates  strong masculine  energy.  now,  mind  you,  that  doesn’t  mean  you  have  to  be  a  man.  it  means  you  possess  logic,  ambition,  and  a  commanding  presence.  you’re  assertive,  confident,  and  not  ruled  by  emotions.  there’s  something calm  yet  penetrating  about  you  like  you  don’t  have  to  say  much  to  be  noticed,  but  when  you  do,  people listen.  you  naturally  attract  attention  just  by being. you’re  seen  as  someone  who  has  it all  together.  you  carry  yourself  with  refinement,  always  presenting  yourself  as  polished  and  composed.  people  want  to  impress  you,  but  honestly?  you’re really  hard  to  impress.  you  have  that  commanding,  dominant  energy.  people  don’t  just  look  up  to  you,  they fear  you  a  little.  you  stand  out  effortlessly,  not  because  you  try  to,  but  because  your  energy  is  just that  powerful.  you  are  not  easily  swayed  by  emotions;  instead,  you  move  with  purpose,  with  control.  you  have standards,  boundaries,  and  self-respect.  people  naturally  submit  to  your  presence  not  because  you  demand  it,  but  because  they want  to.  you  might  have  piercing  eyes,  a  voice  that  commands  attention,  or  an  aura  that  feels  strict  but  magnetic.  you never  come  across  as  weak  or  overly  available.  you  act  fast.  you  take  opportunities,  move  forward  effortlessly,  and  don’t  dwell  on  the  past.  you’re  likely  fit,  attractive,  and  exude  vitality.  people  never  feel  stagnant  around  you  there’s  a “catch  me  if  you  can”  energy  that  keeps  them  on  their  toes.  they  never  know  what  to  expect  because  you’re always  in  motion. you  don’t  cling.  you  know  when  to  detach  and  move  on.  people  sense  that  if  they  don’t  keep  up,  they’ll lose  you.  you  tend  to  outgrow  others,  leaving  them  stuck  thinking  about  you  long  after  you’re  gone.  you’re not  easy  to  pin  down,  and  that’s  exactly  why  you’re  so  wanted.  you  walk  into  a  room  and  own  it  without  even trying.  you  know  your  worth.  you’re  bold,  playful,  and  unapologetically yourself.  people  don’t  just see  you,  they feel  you.

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new tarot card "fuck your entire life" and its a guy being attacked by devils and flaming skulls and wild animals and screaming and fire everywhere

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The Tarot Card reader turned over the Future path card of my reading

I smiled nervously, this was my first reading but I'm pretty sure I'd never heard of this card.

"Is the 'Fuck Your Entire Life' card bad?" I asked

Now it was the fortune teller's turn to smile, wrinkles etched into their face ensuring that the smile reached their eyes.

"No, but a lot of people think that for some reason. Oddly enough it normally means you're thinking of getting a pet"

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Collective Tarot Messages

You will soon receive news from or meet with a distant loved one.

Your purpose in this life is to transform your life into a successful one and you will succeed in transforming it. If you have a feeling inside you that screams that you have come to do something important, follow it, if you are poor you will become rich, if you are lonely you will start a family, if you are sick you will regain your health.

If there is someone who has a farm here, she will visit soon or if you have such a dream, it will come true. For some, the seeds are starting to appear and need watering.

You are in a period when you need to protect yourself. Especially from someone from a war or from yourself.

Some secrets are being kept and they will be revealed. Political or personal.

If you have fears about dying or losing someone, realize that they are not real.

Being alone too much hurts you. Go out.

A very passionate love is coming to you. This person may be a dancer, or this message may be to a dancer in particular.

Someone you love will be released.

If someone has a trump card against you, do not be afraid and defend yourself.

If you are confused about religious matters, trust your gut feeling. Especially if this feeling takes you back to the past and to a moment when you were at peace.

Some of you may experience an earthquake soon. Be careful. If you live in an earthquake zone, be especially careful.

Your dream is attainable.

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A tarot reading for those feeling stuck in life. In this reading, I shuffle the cards and look for the Death card, and read what comes before and after it.

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Pile 1 💀

Is the transformation you need going to be from your external life or internal life?:

Death - The transformation that will get you out of feeling stuck in life will be from your outer life. The astrological houses that represent our inner lives are 7.) committed partnerships (marriage, business) 8.) other people's resources, estates, mental health, death 9.) education, religion, travel, spirituality, publishing, philosophy 10.) career, public roles 11.) community and friends 12.) loss, sorrows, enemies (especially hidden enemies). Transformation is uncomfortable of course, but it brings great relief and blessings. Surrender to the process.

What do you need to leave behind and let die?:

Ace of Pentacles reversed - You've been penny pinching everything and not giving yourself things you want because you believe you cannot have them, or that you have to be of a certain income bracket to access them. And yes, times are tough, but look at your finances. Do you actually not have enough, or do you simply tell yourself you don't? There are plenty of way to get things for free or extremely cheap - it's not an excuse to live miserly. You're so focused on lacking that you aren't seeing or looking for more obvious solutions.

What do you need to focus on in your "after" life?:

9 of Pentacles - You've found out the way to enjoy life without breaking the bank. You're relaxing, enjoying what you've made and have, you feel so grateful and are enjoying this independence. You've found resources like Buy Nothing groups, organizations that give rewards like cheap concert tickets, discounted club nights, and other things I haven't heard of. There are more ways to enjoy going out and having fun than how we see people into flex culture do. You don't need to be iced out to have a good time, or access the good stuff. You're learning that abundance isn't only about money, it's about all the ways we can access what we want.

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Pile 2 💀

Is the transformation you need going to be from your outer life or inner life?:

Death reversed - The transformation that will get you out of feeling stuck in life will be from your inner life. The astrological houses that represent our inner lives are 1.) the self 2.) personal finance, values, self worth 3.) communication, daily rituals, siblings, extended family 4.) home, caregivers, parents 5.) children, creativity, romance, pleasure 6.) health, pets, chores. Transformation is uncomfortable of course, but it brings great relief and blessings. Surrender to the process.

What do you need to leave behind and let die?:

10 of wands - You are putting wayyyyy too much energy into something you're not even getting help with! This is a burden that only you are carrying. Whether this obligation was put on your shoulders by someone else or you, you need to put it down now. It's not serving or helping you. It's like you're using this as an excuse to run away from what you need to do / what would be good for you / what you're feeling called to do from your heart. This has given you great skills and honed your talents, take your time and energy elsewhere.

What do you need to focus on in your "after" life?:

Aces of Pentacles - It seems like you're going to be putting your time and energy into budgeting and improving the health of your personal finances. You're looking at your vision board, reflecting on your dreams, and doing the math on how much you need to save in order to do what you want to do! You're looking at your 3-6 months average expenses and planning how to reach your emergency fund goal! Fuck yes to all of this!! If you're just getting started, here is someone who is a great resource to learn from (you don't have to do her method, but she's a fantastic teacher). For others, I also see you starting to garden to grow your own food (these grocery store prices are a crime), stocking up on canned goods, learning how to coupon, and setting up go-bags for natural disasters and other emergencies.

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Pile 3 💀

Is the transformation you need going to be from your external life or internal life?:

Death - The transformation that will get you out of feeling stuck in life will be from your outer life. The astrological houses that represent our inner lives are 7.) committed partnerships (marriage, business) 8.) other people's resources, estates, mental health, death 9.) education, religion, travel, spirituality, publishing, philosophy 10.) career, public roles 11.) community and friends 12.) loss, sorrows, enemies (especially hidden enemies). Transformation is uncomfortable of course, but it brings great relief and blessings. Surrender to the process.

What do you need to leave behind and let die?:

King of Swords - You're ending a relationship with someone who is pretty much emotionless, dry, highly intelligent, clever but isn't very humorous (rarely laughs, if you've ever heard it), logical, blunt, doesn't mince words (they aren't cruel, they just aren't nice or friendly). I think this person has been and still is focused on their own goals and their own life more than their relationship with you. Basically what could you do for them? Not necessarily selfish and entitled to your time, but they only care or think about what you two work on together in this goal, they don't think about you / wonder about your personal life. They will also understand and think it's fair for you to end the relationship (working relationship, academic group, platonic, maybe? romantic), provided you give clear communication as to why and are fair towards them too. I don't believe they'll hold ill will towards you, they just won't keep in touch because they have to focus on their goals and projects.

What do you need to focus on in your "after" life?:

6 of Swords reversed - I sense that whatever you're going to focus on is stressful, and the term "troubled waters" heavily applies here. But I have Bridge Over Troubled Water stuck in my head. I think you're going to be helping people in crisis. Maybe this is in the middle of conflict or disaster, but I feel like most of you will being working on / building systems to rebuild safety and stability. I think this has been a dream of yours for a while - you aren't "too old". To quote Simon and Garfunkel: Sail on, silver girl, sail on by. Your time has come to shine, all your dreams are on their way. I think this work will be with refugees from your homeland, helping the safe passage of refugees, returning to your home / homeland, and you will be covering this as a journalist or social media creator.

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deck used: tarot of the divine

Pile 1 🐄:

reversed 7 pentacles, the chariot, queen of wands 🃏

In the artwork of the rev. 7 of pentacles card, the fire is upside down. I see this as you feeling very frustrated, and your passion inside you having difficultly being expressed or shared. This frustration can be (imo the most likely reason) because you’re working so hard with no or little reward or feedback, working so hard you aren’t allowing yourself to appreciate your efforts, something else is taking your time, or you’re frustrated with yourself for procrastinating. Listen, you’ve got something pure and good inside you - you’re learning how to bring it into life in the most constructive and wholesome way. The process can be frustrating and that’s okay. Exhale. And if you feel sad because you’re so tired and jaded it feels like that fire in you is going out - it’s not, your light is always there.

The art of the Chariot card reminds me of the Lao Tzu quote (note: new translations have come out, and I’m not sure if this is still the wording)

Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.

I also think of how all raindrops lead to the ocean. Every little effort you’re doing now naturally leads to the Big Thing you’re working towards or for. Also, I see the salmon as your inner passion’s fire. It “swims” with ease through your new method of effort, and is extremely powerful when you need to call upon it (it can swim and jump upstream after all! to continue the metaphor).

Of course, be aware of “bears” along this river fattening up for winter - share your passion with the necessary people who will earnestly help you / your partners in this action, others only after they’ve shown their actions to be trustworthy, and the public once you’ve made good progress already and your passion has grown so much that there’s a lot of “salmon” in your river! That way, haters, copycats, grifters, and saboteurs can’t effectively touch you or stop you. Protect your idea and energy.

The third card is the Hawaiian goddess Pele or Pelehonuamea representing the Queen of Wands. First off, Blessed Be. 🙏❤️‍🔥🌋

Seeing the goddess of lava and creation of new land, I think of your passion’s fire and the waters of your efforts becoming lava. “Fluid”, molten, “fire” rock! Not only have your efforts and passion become a truly unstoppable force, they are constructive and are creating something real. Something as real and solid and enduring as new land! That’s awesome and amazing! Go you!!

This could be your Big Thing, a new method you’ve created, or a new system. Whatever it is, like land, new growth with come from this. New things and goals will come from This Thing. I think more than you can imagine right now. But please don’t get overwhelmed by that thought, I believe it’s everything you’ve ever wanted. I mean, look how much beauty has come from Pele’s lava. I don’t know if she expected the amazing lush life would grow through her! I believe she followed her natural drive, and the blessings naturally came with it. It also makes me think you should welcome the (legitimately good / effective / constructive) contributions of others.

As you are reaching this point of this card’s meaning, and when you are in it, I believe you should also carry with you the concept of the “orgasmic Yes” from Audre Lorde’s essay “The Uses of the Erotic ~ The Erotic as Power” (to read in full, click this link) - please read or listen to this essay is full. Basically though, what it is that makes you say “Yes!”, fully embodied, completely? No holds barred, totally of You, your desires and true values (not the values forced on you / what you “should” believe)? When you say “Yes!”, does your body feel settled, relaxed, at ease? Always, always follow that.

Last things of note, be mindful not to burn yourself out again, and be mindful of your temper. Let your righteous protective anger destroy or stop what must be destroyed or stopped, but don’t go so far as to hurt what shouldn’t have been hurt. Trust me, people - at this stage - know you can’t be fucked with and that no one can fuck with you. While lava builds, it destroys too. And no one can stop lava - only water can (but fresh lava is still dangerous even in water). Certainly, people can’t stop it, they are at its mercy. Use the waters that brought you here to help cool or redirect your temper when you need to. Also, whatever people are destroying of your “island”, you can stop and build back up.

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Pile 2 👁

reversed 10 of swords, reversed Hanged Man, reversed Fool🃏

The first card is the Inuit goddess Sedna, represented in the reversed 10 of swords. Blessed Be. 🙏🦭🧊

I see that you have experienced a deep horrible betrayal, one so cruel you couldn’t have ever thought this was something someone would ever do to another. In case it needs to be said, it’s okay to have never imagined or thought this cruelty was possible. The fault is solely with the one who harmed you. I believe this person was above you - like a boss, mentor, or a more experienced peer. For many reading this, they saw what you are capable of and their ego felt threatened by the thought of losing their position in the power dynamic. They were never doing their work with sincere humility in the first place. If they weren’t someone above you, they were a peer who saw what you would achieve, and felt threatened that they wouldn’t get it first and be able to hold above others. Even if you weren’t acting fairly, or were immature, what happened to you was entirely out of proportion to a reasonable response. Don’t waste your time attempting to rationalize their actions.

In the artwork of the reversed 10 of swords, the imagery tells a gruesome, cruel story. The stories of the goddess Sedna have many different situations that lead to the choice her father makes of complete brutality and betrayal. In some stories, Sedna frustrates others in ways that could be reasonable to be frustrated with - in many, she frustrates others when she is being her authentic self. No matter the reason her father could give for his actions, she was a victim. It doesn’t matter if she was a perfectly “good” person either. Nothing can justify her father reacting to her asking for help, and clinging to the kayak for dear life, slicing her fingers off. Because this card is reversed, I take this as the aftermath. To generalize the aftermath of Sedna’s story, after sinking to the depths of the sea, she doesn’t die. She becomes the Goddess of the Sea. Her fingers become seals, walruses, whales, and fish. Her love, her goodwill, her spirit never left her — for she releases the animals for the hunters who show her love, respect, and kindness in return (when hunters do not give her this, she doesn’t allow the animals to be found). Even though when she is in pain, she is known to be fearsome — she is known for her benevolence most of all. I share this story of the goddess Sedna because you have been treated so cruelly. She and her story show you your pain is real, what happened was not okay, your kind heart is always with you, loving relationships will come again, and that you have ever right to demand respect and enforce your boundaries. It’s is good to be your powerful self, to say no, to refuse to help people who do things for their own gain alone.

In your aftermath (and how I see the reversed Hanged Man), you’ve taken yourself out of this work or group or field. You do feel good that you are giving yourself time to heal. Take as much time as you need to give yourself peace. This could be months, a year, or years. No matter what, go at your own pace. During this time, seek professional help or a support group. Create your own safe space. There will come a day when your passion, your gusto, will return. As per this deck’s artwork of the Hanged Man, Sleeping Beauty, you may feel like you’ve “woken up”.

In the artwork of the reversed Fool, we see the Little Mermaid. I believe this card and it’s message is connected is connected to Sedna, as her Goddess form resembles a mermaid. Now that you have a network of support, and some healing, you are ready to get back out there, go after what you want. You may still feel raw, tender, and upset at times, and Sedna teaches us that that’s okay. To need the help of others is okay (for example, sometimes Shaman’s go to get to help comb her hair when it gets tangled and comfort her when she needs support). The world is wide and there are good people in it. They have the same love you have, the same passion for the cause you care about. Seek them out as you grow in this area. Sincerity seeks sincerity.

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pile 3 ✨

reversed 9 of swords (Oedipus), 4 of cups (the Nightingale by Hans Christian Anderson) (<- link), and 7 of wands (John Henry, American folk hero) 🃏

You are almost constantly doing 1 of 2 things: doom scrolling, or absorbing yourself into hyper stimulating media (ex: video / mobile games, ASMR videos, constantly listening to something as you watch something as you do something). I get the feeling you are afraid of, or deeply bothered or frustrated, by silence, stillness, and boredom. 

Do you feel like it’s your responsibility to constantly see and learn of all of the horrors happening, but then get so overwhelmed by them and your emotions that you dive deep into your comfort areas of the internet, and stay there until you fall asleep? And then doom scroll again because you feel guilty for over indulging in unimportant things - and also you just can’t look away? If yes, relatable tbh lol.

The thing about fear though, is when we let it consume us, it often times becomes true - and if they do become true, even worse, we spent so much time being scared that we never prepared ourselves to be able to handle it!

Do you have a habit of sometimes thinking “it’s just the way it is”, “it’s just the way things are”, “things have always been this way”? Or do others day this to you? 

First of all, that’s not true. The only constant is change itself! Secondly, people only say this in defeat of harmful actions. No one, including you, should ever accept abusive actions and circumstances. Thirdly, this way of thinking is taught. 

(/g) Does this line of thinking feel true to your heart?

You crave real connection and the real natural world (this might offend you or be too much of a read - but you basically have an unconscious longing to touch grass). You may be ignoring this craving due to the belief you can't have it, because these connections and opportunities either literally are, or simply feel, unavailable to you. But I feel that you have some level of addiction to the over stimulation of any media, being constantly plugged in. If you’re chronically online to not just distract yourself, but because it’s also your job (like you're a twitch streamer making good money), or how you are organizing community, you still feel like there's something missing in your life. 

Whatever it means to you, that Real Thing that's been missing, that you long for, will find you. Don't dismiss it as “nothing” when you realize it’s there. It is, or will be, in plain sight - right in front of your nose. You just need to look up, and see the forest for the trees (how does that saying go? lol). You’ll know what it is. 

This will be a pivotal moment for you. No matter how this situation applies to you, know that this moment will be so simple or normal, and it's ordinariness will arrest you. It will shock you, in a good way. You'll be eternally grateful for this thing that is so simple, yet existentially amazing. 

You will receive that a-ha moment. You will feel so connected to life and existence (even if for a brief moment).

You will also see how this Thing has been commodified by powerful people, instead of freely existing and sharing its gifts among everyone (as it was meant to be). You may have a small desire to commodify this Thing yourself - don’t do that <3

(this is part of my connection I’m making this reading to the Nightingale fairytale)

You’ll bring something into the tech industry that’s missing. With kindness and humility, you'll bring in and encourage people who have the same caring goals as you. You want to show how humanity can come and work together in a dignified and fair and joyous way, and you absolutely can. 

I got a strong feeling from the cards that this was about you working on artificial intelligence. Like keeping its use in check, creating laws to keep people who create and program AI - and the people who use it - accountable to their actions. You could be creating and coding AI to be able to do more wholesome / not harmful things. You could be working to emphasis the "human touch”, and making it clear when something is made by humans vs AI (with a higher value ascribed to what was made by humans). Your work will not demonize this new tool / tech itself, but you’ll focus on fighting against what ill-willed people intend to use it with. And you’ll do your best to make sure these ill-willed plans and intentions are known through out the general public. Your focuses will be on solidarity, humanity as a whole community, and our quality of life. 

ADVICE

It’s important to stay informed and open to learning, your heart is in the right place. Learning is a constantly moving cycle of receiving information, processing it, resting, reflecting and analyzing, and then asking new questions. Exhale, and know that giving yourself a pause from this subject is actually helping you understand it. Our brains are so amazing!

I think what would help you is giving yourself patience as you transition through each stage of learning. Instead of jumping from info-binging (is that a phrase?) to another activity, you could stop all media for 3-10 seconds, inhale and exhale, and then decide what to do next (and do that each time you do something new). Baby steps will still help you <3

Meet what you fear with love. Love makes us brave, gives us courage, and supports us as we do great things. 

And on the subject of great things, I’m going to give advice that I frankly need to hear too. Don’t get caught up in achieving greatness, because that tends to stop you (it’s often rooted in perfectionism). Focus on the actions that serve people who need great help. Focus on developing great relationships with people who need help, or who want to help. The results of your actions and relationships will be what will bring this great, needed change.

When our egos want to be known for achieving greatness, it’s because we need to be seen, validated, remembered, and loved. Know that you exist because you belong, you are loved, you are seen, you are remembered, and there are so many people you haven’t met yet who love you.

And as a final piece of advice, we are strongest when we work together. When you seek to help others, you need to also allow others to help you. A victory is a team effort.

🦢 ♥︎ much love - Clarissa Liddy ♥︎ 🦢

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