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The nonsexual vore community is not safe for ace people or minors, be warned.

[glowinside]

[Pinned as of March 23, 2025.]

This blog will no longer be active due to the following reasons, but will be left up as information/traceback.

- Vore is not sfw, never will be. It's a kink that can sometimes be used as a plot device, a comfort, something intimate, or a strange scenario, but will always be nsfw. It CAN be *nonsexual*, but it's still nsfw. In these online spaces, it's been proven time and again you can enjoy nonsexual vore and different scenarios, but people can and will harass you for any reason over it, be ready for backlash and a lot of judgement. Please be careful.

- The community is not safe for anyone who is interested in vore for any reason other than sexual. Ace people, minors (enjoy it in your own space, don't be around adults anyway for this), and others are repeatedly harassed, threatened, and more, simply for enjoying vore or variations of in their own way.

- I used to run an all ages server in misguidance of wanting to have a place to discuss nonsexual vore. I'm autistic and did not realize my mistake in trying to run an inclusive server. It started as a g/t server and was extended to vore. It was a terrible idea and I was young and stupid for thinking it was a safe thing to do. The server no longer exists, and any servers run by me are 18+ to keep both myself, other adults, and minors safe.

- Please tag things appropriately. If you post vore, tag it as such. Don't post vore in public spaces untagged where minors or people who don't want to see it can find it. I've advocated for tagging practices for ages; tag appropriately, don't put tags on things that don't apply, and so on. Tags are there to filter and protect people from things they don't like or don't want to see. Misusing tags make them useless.

- There are grooming allegations against me on this blog. You can't "inherently be a groomer" for making mistakes or being misguided. People fuck up. I did several things that got people hurt and people WERE groomed, by others in the community who have since been called out, left, etc. This is why this community is not a safe space for anyone not an adult or those who are into this subject nonsexually. Be careful out there.

- Please be appropriate. I've said my piece. There's a lot of things I've changed my stance on, and a lot of things I haven't. You can see that on this blog plenty.

- If people need to talk to me, I'll be keeping DMs open if needed, as well as anons unless people misbehave. People have been hurt, harassed, threatened, doxxed, and none of that is okay. I'm sure that the people doing these things mean well, and want to protect victims. We all want to do that, but please be careful and thoughtful of what is going on. Things are not black/white and good/bad. Respect, etc etc.

- Good luck out there, I sincerely hope things get better for all.

So hey, last mention, by all these accounts, shouldn't we be going after the writers of Magic School Bus? And Kid Icarus Uprising? The Last Guardian? And so many other main stream rated E for everyone media because it has vore in it? Thus it's fetish material? And abusing children? Because all of these media involve children in the vore? Because it's marketed to children?

Because that's where I learned about vore and g/t and where I got my interests in it when I was young.

[glowinside]

Setting up, but we will see how things go.

@glowinsides

[glowinside]

I'm fighting the urge to just purge this blog, remake it, and keep posting things and not interact with anyone despite the trolls. I miss g/t. I miss vore as a comfort. Like man everyone gotta ruin everything.

[glowinside]

oh man I'm sorry about all this. I missed your g/t stuff and came to look and see if you did g/t any more to this hot mess

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[ink-the-artist]

just got a concerning anon im not going to post here bc theyre very young but if youre a minor PLEASE for the love of god do not engage with the vore community even the nonsexual side of it. its not a safe environment for you and people get groomed this way, sometimes by someone using the nonsexual aspect of it as a means to groom them. theres also not that clear of a distinction between the sexual and nonsexual parts, plenty of people (like me) like both, and lots of ppl like my nonsexual vore art for sexual reasons.

im rly happy if my art can help people going through the sort of things I went through as a kid/teenager but its really not safe for you to talk to strangers on the internet about vore or to interact w vore content

[glowinside]

I'm checking all this drama cuz you were a blog I used to follow and man. Why are people so hard on this? Are people like this about the gt community and the separation there cuz technically gt is a type of kink. There's so much mess and contradictions

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[glowinside]

Sorry that is happening to you. I was around on some of the discord spaces back then as a minor and we DMed a fair bit for a time, and I never felt unsafe or uncomfortable around you. Sorry you're getting dragged into this stuff. Wish you the best in your future.

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[glowinside]

You know, it makes me incredibly sad and upset that I can no longer look at vore anymore.

[sun-gut]

Been following for a while and seen all this stuff going on, but can we see the proof? Like screenshots and stuff you said you have of these people doing the stuff you say? I wanna believe but genuinely wanna see proof too

I'm going through my old Discord and compiling stuff from there, on my new Discord too, and pulling things from Tumblr to put all into one document. I do have these that I can first show, and when I compile more I'll try to post them in bursts before releasing the full document.

FOR CONTEXT: I freshly turned 18 years old at the time of these screenshots(2019), and the "bio" person that ran the server was also either 18 or 17, and did not know what ub (unbirthing) meant. I believe Glowinside was in their 20s at this time, and they were a moderator of this person's server.

[glowinside]

Redla knew what unbirth was in 2019 and is lying to you if she said she didn't know what it was. The reason I had replied with ":U" was because I was told what was being discussed was fine by the server owner herself despite not being comfortable with it. We had discussed on her server about the issues presented here and I left because she didn't want to take action for things happening on her server/for issues like this. I felt uncomfortable because she did not have separate spaces for this exact reason and people were allowed to talk about any type of vore anywhere and nothing was done about it.

Proof she knew what it was in 2018, and lied about not knowing what it was in 2019, because this was a response to people, including myself, talking about different kinds of nsfw and our comfortability in discussing or roleplaying them in my old server:

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[glowinside]

putting a soft fuzzy blanket on your shoulders and giving u a cup of hot chocolate. You need it.

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Offering this back to you and everyone around

[glowinside]

This is why I haven't joined a vore only server or DMed anyone that isn't my age. Sorry that this has happened to you. Everyone seems to have valid reasons for feeling the way they do. That doesn't mean you can attack people.

And it is valid! I completely agree.

The craziness that is in this community is a reason I left/stick to 18+ spaces now, to try and keep myself and underage people safe. My server originally didn't even start as a vore server, it was a g/t server that slowly morphed into a g/t and vore server (by request).

I sincerely am sorry people were made uncomfortable or hurt by people in the community, either way. That's the only thing I can do is apologize for what I did wrong (hosting that server and making a bad situation) and trying to do better (not hosting a server like that, doing better, and making appropriate spaces to try and keep people safe).

[glowinside]

Hey, I have anonymous and DMs open to people on this blog if needed for any reason regarding this situation. The moment anyone misbehaves, it's getting closed again.

[sun-gut]

genuinely, go take a breather and take care of yourself for a moment, your behaviour rn is concerning

glowinside hasnt been active in the community for a long time, and their reply has acknowledged they made mistakes, theyve done things to do better, theyve apologized, and have a right to defend themselves or clarify things for ppl

they werent taking offense, they were responding maturely and trying to explain their side, about as calmly as a person can in a situation like this, even more so with you seeming to read their replies and attempts at fixing this in bad faith. you’ve misinterpreted the reply they made, and youre coming across as very unnecessarily and concerningly unkind

go take care of yourself, take a break, do something that makes you feel better, im worried for you

Hi anon, I'm not engaging in respectability politics when it comes to somebody being angry at the fact that people are upset when they try to downplay the harm they have directly caused to children, including myself when I was a minor. Especially when they have directly attacked another victim and claimed that they could have never groomed her because they didn't know her age, as if that was.. an acceptable excuse. Then going to say that they're still in contact with minors.

This community has such deep-rooted problems that it's deemed acceptable to try and make victims out as being unreasonable if they come across as disrespectful in any manner to their aggressor. I'm not going to hide my feelings about the blatant acceptance of grooming in the vore community, or that it's so easily forgivable for adults to seek children to talk about their fetishes with.

I've talked multiple times about how I was victimized and sexually exploited as a child by the "minor accepting" fetishists in this community, and somebody going out to say "my bad... I never actually exploited any kids though when I talked to them about my fetish!" is horrifying to me. I hope you understand.

Destigmatizing kink doesn't mean you can destigmatize grooming.

[glowinside]

Discussing vore with Redla is not grooming. I didn't "attack" her in that post, I defended myself because she's insisting I groomed her. Seeing messages you don't like or something in a server that makes you uncomfortable isn't grooming.

I also never said you weren't groomed. You said you were groomed by other people in the community, and I believe that! I believe you when you say that. Me saying that nonsexual vore is a thing and anyone can enjoy it is not grooming. Vore and the nonsexual version of it being something that's enjoyed in a non kink way has been up for debate since I joined the community and way before.

And by the way, I'm not cutting off my family members and the children in my family just because someone on the internet says I'm a groomer. That's absurd.

I left the community 4 years ago because of people being just ACCUSED with messages saying weird stuff to minors (and said minors weren't even in my server, they were in a different one) I banned them. Blocked them. And called them out in server. I have the messages to back it up.

You were victimized, and that was wrong. Whoever did it, they deserve to be called out and shunned. They shouldn't have done that and lied to you or taken advantage of you. *That was wrong and disgusting*. And I never said I didn't groom her because I didn't know her age. I said I didn't groom her because I didn't groom her. Grooming entails forming a relationship with someone of a younger age or power imbalance to take advantage of them sexually/assault them, set them up to commit a crime, or to indoctrinate them into a cult. That did not happen between me and Redla because I didn't take advantage of her in any manner like that, make her commit crimes, or make her join a cult. I advocated harshly for children in the community to be careful of who they talk to, who they interact with, and what they are doing. Block and report if someone harasses or makes weird advancements towards you. I even defended Redla and other people against people in the community who WERE weird about shit. I have the screenshots and the blog posts. I also told people to tag accordingly and keep vore out of the main tags of fandoms, keep it out of public eye and to your blogs because not everyone is cool with vore, or g/t, or whatever other interest I had at the time. I always tagged properly and didn't even use the "extreme cuddling" tags or any of the "sfw" tags people made. I always used the tag "vore.exe" on my blog for ages. At no point did I ever label myself as a "safe adult" anywhere either. That phrasing always got me squicked out.

And the right now? I don't interact with minors in kink communities. Haven't for 4 years when I made the rules in my server to be 18+ and that people underage shouldn't be invited. I even had the server closed from the public and it was by invite only because I wanted to try and mitigate minors going to the server. The server got shut down last year because only 3 or 4 people even glanced in there any more. So I shut it down. I run other servers that often discuss kinks, and they're all 18+, because I want to keep minors safe and MYSELF safe. I also pulled myself away from the vore community because of the disgusting amount of nonsense that went on and because several members of the community made me want nothing to do with it. The only reason I even am posting on this blog is because someone sent me a message on my art blog accusing me of being a "vore groomer" to which I then found posts you and Redla made. And now all this. I've made changes to try and do better, but god forbid I defend myself when people are lying about things I did or said. Or that if it happened 10 years ago it somehow means I'm still that same person now/haven't grown and changed and learned.

It does make me feel weird to the fact that there was nothing going on until Redla got called out for posting vore in a public forum, untagged, where minors could easily access it. And she blames me for her mistakes when I advocated with tagging and spoilers and keeping it AWAY from public forums like that. Hell, I had it where people couldn't search for my blog unless they really looked for it BECAUSE I didn't want people who didn't want to see it to find it.

And as I said in my other post, I never said Redla wasn't groomed. She probably was, considering. Chatting about a topic and cute scenarios and stuff is not grooming. Her asking me for advice because adults were going after her for being a minor is not grooming, because she was being sexually harassed near constantly on her bioluminescent-bat blog by full grown adults trying to make weird and nasty advances. Discussing discourse topics between two adults (we were both adults at this point in time) is not grooming. I'm not sure if she's getting me mixed up with someone else, because she already did that before. She accused Tastylittletiny, another person who was 17 turning 18 when I started chatting with her because she asked about help with college and school a lot, of grooming her.

This is not an attack on you or Redla or trying to defend my actions with the server or whatever. I'm defending myself from the parts of these accusations that are FALSE. I have grown and changed my ways but that isn't enough for whatever reason.

And right now? I'm unblocking you to respond because people have been trying to doxx and threaten me. I have people stalking my blogs to try and send me threats. They are going after my friends to try and tell people I am something I am not. I also know you, or someone who follows you, messaged someone's family member with lies and slander about this entire situation. That's going too far and yall need to STOP.

[sun-gut]

Yeah no pythonpie is right, even if it could've been said better. What you’re doing ruins people’s lives, what you're accusing are not accusations to throw around lightly. The person you're doing this to has been correcting their mistakes for the past 9 years. There are better ways of fighting the issues in this community and grooming as a whole than accusing people, this isn't how to do it.

Talking to children about your fetishes as an adult is inherently grooming. That needs to be called out and discussed and the stories of victims needs to be platformed.

The stories of victims don't expire. Even if they come out about it years later.

Also what about the lives that these people have harmed? Why are we focused on the aggressor's feelings only?

[glowinside]

You do realize right now that people are doxxing people, posting public info, stalking, harassing, sending death threats, and false information to people's families because of what you're doing, right? Either you or someone you follows you is doing it, and it's not funny. This has gone into possible legal action because of false claims that you've yet to back up besides hearsay.

I have repeatedly apologized for my server and it's been SHUT DOWN. It was empty for going on 3 or 4 years now because most people moved on or left. I haven't even been in the community for ages because I left BECAUSE people were going after children and being disgusting. I have PROOF I banned and blocked people who were even MENTIONED to be WEIRD around kids. I even did that in the community ON MY BLOG. There is PROOF I called out adults who went after children, who took their works and wanted to put it on sexual blogs, who went and talked to children in sexual manners. Several times. INCLUDING DEFENDING REDLA.

[glowinside]

By the way, when I say I still have contact with minors, I mean that I help my cousins child fix her switch game or help my neighbor with her math homework. Not in kink communities. Stop intentionally misinterpreting my words/putting words in my mouth that I've never said, thank you.

[glowinside]

And after that, unless there is something expressly needing tending to, this blog is done. I will no longer be keeping up with it.

Edit: There's been several messages sent to me in support/about the community they were in with me but I don't want to post them due to people mentioning their usernames in fear of harassment. Just know, I appreciate it and send positive vibes your way.

[sun-gut]

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[glowinside]

The only time unbirth was talked about by someone we didn't know the age of, which means they had no access to 75% of the server, and it stated in the rules they shouldn't have been talking about it here anyway (and they were messaged via DM). This was the only place I ever saw anything like this chatted about, and I didn't even respond in the chat. I responded to them via DM.

Also, no. It doesn't matter if it was 95% or not. I can interact with minors but do not do so in any kink setting anymore. Because of stuff like this. Haven't done that for years, because it's not proper.

I said my piece. Believe me or not, I've made myself better and attempted to rectify mistakes and things that happened. People change themselves over *9 years*. I was young and stupid. I'm sorry I made you uncomfortable, I'm sorry I ran that server, but that's all I did wrong.