just gnc

A small lesbian trying to get into rad feminism after identifying as nonbinary - I'm still trying to accept my gender nonconformity and my orientation (I'm still new to feminism in general, so sorry if I mess up with something). Call me May, I'm 17 and from Spain ♪

[gnclady]

I don’t know if anyone still follows me here but I figured I should make a post — I’m back on Tumblr on my new blog: @ladygnc. Please follow me over there <3

[gnclady]

>MOVED<

Remade into >>>>> @ladygnc <<<<< so be sure to follow me on there!!!!

I also made a huge post explaining myself there because I’m not able to keep things brief, lol. I’m not sure if I’ll deactivate this blog or not but I won’t use it anymore.

love u all <3

[areyouahumanorahuman]

Positivity post for lesbians!

Y'all are gorgeous and incredible! Being a lesbian is not dirty or sinful, it’s the most beautiful thing in the world!

Have a great pride month!

[ghostrally]

pride month is tomorrow so i wanna wish a happy pride to everyone in the closet—i love you, i know it’s hard, and believe me: you will get there someday

[amnesty-lodge-official]

All these terfs reblogging that “No terfs at pride” post and being pissed off like they don’t owe trans people for the entire existence of pride and the lgbt movement as we know it today.

[gnclady]

I completely understand their rage tho, here you have some of this things adressed: https://fatchocho.tumblr.com/post/185269776513/drop-the-t-sorry-babe-we-founded-this-bitch-we

I can't deny there are trans activists out there fighting for the whole LGBT community, but saying they are responsible for the "entire existence of pride" is just ridiculous.

(And it's really homophobic to tell us that we didn't fight for our own rights btw)

If any radfems want to add to this please do <3

[femaille]

Telling children, teens, young adults that they’ll always be dysphoric unless they fully transition is beyond the pale. That they’ll die before 30 if they don’t transition? Lies! Do not listen to them. You can be dysphoric and choose not to identify as trans or transition. There is space for you here. There is a full life for you here.

[femsolid]

The images beg the questions: why does little girls’ clothing “need” to be tighter, shorter and more constricting than boys’? Is it easier to move in such clothes? Play in them? Run in them? What is it grooming girls to wear later? How is it grooming them to perceive themselves? -  Peggy Orenstein

[gnclady]

I've seen this post before and it makes me angry every time, by the time these kids are adults they will think this is normal, that this is the norm. Finding comfortable clothes shouldn't be as difficult as it is, and even more in the case of children.

[furiosamedea]

every time i see pics of older lesbian couples, happily married, just living their lives together i feel so… at peace

for a moment, even just a single minute, i don’t feel hopeless anymore, i can have faith in my future, i’m allowed to think “it’ll get better”, i too will be able to spend my days with the love of my life, it’s not an impossible dream, it can be real

[gnclady]

I am used to hearing that lesbian couples could never be happy as they're unnatural, but seeing older lesbians helps me, because I know it's possible.

My family has tried their best to make me think that a lesbian relationship can't lead to happiness, but how can I not believe in love while these couples exist?? I don't see anything unnatural, just two people that love each other.

I can love and be loved. I'm not broken. I'm not wrong. I don't have to change. I can be happy.

[forgotten-mogai]

Are there any flags for Heterosexual Gays? Someone who identifies as gay but has no attraction to the same sex.

Two alts I got from combining the two flags! :3

-mod Supernova 💫

[cynapologism]

Wh-

What?

[gnclady]

Would love to see the reverse lol "no mom I like girls but I'm just a homosexual Straight I'm not gay" it would solve me some problems xD

[blackswanenthusiast]

Saying homosexuality is a “lifestyle” is just another tool used by homophobes to justify “disagreeing” with it. No you don’t get to debate whether people get the same rights as everyone else just because they aren’t straight. Being gay isn’t a choice. Being homophobic is.

[gnclady]

The problem is they think being homosexual is a choice (that's why they think we can somehow change).

[gnclady]

My parents have said (literally) that in 99% of cases homosexuals are "deeply traumatized" and didn't have a paternal figure, and I really wanted to tell my dad "you then were an horrible paternal figure I guess" but I can do that as I got nowhere to go.

(And it sucks because I thougth I could move out next year for college but due to my depression I must stay at least at home for another year as I'm not completely ok yet)

[danielle-gets-fit-deactivated20]

I have stretch marks.

Reblog if you do too. Just to prove that it is more normal than what people actually think.

[legintheheadlights]

When i was younger i didn’t know what stretch marks were, so i was really confused by all the ‘random scars’ i had, no one told me they were a thing besides for pregnant women.

[gnclady]

I had to search "stretch marks" as I wasn't sure of the exact translation, and all the results where a variation of "how to get rid of stretch marks".

Stretch marks are natural and don't need to be "fixed".

[formidable-female]

The way ‘terfs ’ get put in the same box as Nazis and pedos though, by the trans cult.

Very dramatic, over the top, attempt to scaremonger doubters and followers and keep them from the terrible crime of ‘wrong think’ , I.e critical thinking and acknowledging reality.

[gnclady]

I support trans people. I believe they should get help and support for their dysphoria (as well as those who don't identify as trans). I just think sex is a thing, you know?

I would never insult anyone for being trans, and people say "evil terfs" want to beat trans people to death, but you know, nazis are the ones that would punch me (if not worse) for being gay.

It's just another strategy to make sure no one reads radfem stuff so they won't think for themselves.

[gnclady]

I'm amazed by the notes of my first post. So many awesome and nice people, many of them with similar experiences to mine, this is a lovely community ♥

Thank you all!! (I might not post a lot these days as I have to study for college entrance exams for next week, but I will be very active afterwards :3)

[gnclady]

Hey! I was in the same boat as you, id-ing as Nonbinary & Ace, I’m happy that your finding yourself & I’m wishing the best for you!

Awww thank you!! It's been pretty hard for me, as I was hiding behind lots of labels to deny my attraction to girls. It's awesome to find people here that have experienced similar things <3

[gnclady]

Your username: gnc lady Me, an idiot: gn clady,,,,,,

Legit this is what I thought when I made the account, my idiot brain couldn't think of a better username xD

[positivitysstuff]

Your natural body existing will never be disgusting

Your body hair isn’t disgusting

Your cellulite isn’t disgusting

Your stretch marks aren’t disgusting

Your dimples aren’t disgusting

Your scars aren’t disgusting

Your wrinkles aren’t disgusting

Your fat isn’t disgusting

Your age spots aren’t disgusting

The female body is a naturally wonderful and beautiful thing, don’t let the media taint your view of how wonderful you are