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time 2 get sad
testosterone rambles
brain: hey texting that person when you're feeling terrible and telling them about it is manipulative you're a horrible person
me: but? they said its ok I think? they want to know when I'm not feeling good ?
brain: listen fucko no one gives a dang shit alright
tbh im a fucking angel
Big Bud Press look book by me and Vivian Fu
“I’m not ignoring you intentionally I just have no motivation to respond the way that I feel you deserve” - a novel by me.
Dear cis people,
Don’t do this.
-Ellen
aw i found this page in my sketchbook from when i was havin a hard time
I am only interested in softness.
healthy relationship meme
understanding each other’s busy schedules and working around it to communicate and be with each other instead of harboring negative emotions
The fucking truth. The. Fucking. Truth. Gentrification is such racist fuckery. You discriminated against Black people for centuries. Refused them mobility. Stuck them in areas where you did not invest in infrastructure, school, roads, business or anything else. Took their taxes and funneled it to richer neighborhoods to take care of their shit. Overpoliced them using brutal tactics. Even trafficked drugs into their neighborhoods. Nevertheless they rise above it, create something special, unique and lasting out of less than nothing and now that it looks pleasant to your eyes, white people want to come into said neighborhood, take it over, kick all the Black people out, tear it down, destroy everything Black people built and bleach the fuck out of the area. Fucking pigs.
Gentrification is colonialism literally
^^^^
okay all of it is always bullshit and for that this post is golden and with that being said can I just harp on ONE thing for a second? “candle and cupcake shops that will fail in 3 years” this is SO FUCKING TRUE. They push people and their LIVES out of the area and fill it with literal, actual bullshit that THEY don’t even want/need enough to support it long run. They are just so cocksure that every little fart of a business they can think up is better than what was there before that they will put any and every kind of stupid unsustainable niche business in there where a neighborhood used to be.
my borderline ass: i Hate Myself for being so sick
my borderline ass: i want to be Sicker and in More Ways
i am not the versions of myself that live inside of other people’s heads
Homemade camera rig takes stunning close-up pictures of snowflakes
I wanna be near you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
About Executive Dysfunction; for neurotypical people
Friends, family members and loved ones of learning disabled and mentally ill people need to have a working knowledge of what Executive Dysfunction is, and respect the fact that it is a prominent feature of that person’s psychology and life.
Executive Dysfunction is best known as a symptom of autism and ADHD, but it also features in depression, anxiety disorders schizophrenia, OCD (which by the way is also an anxiety disorder), personality disorders; etc, a whole myriad of mental illnesses and disabilities can result in executive dysfunction.
Years ago when I was like 14 and had recently learned of my autism diagnosis, I watched a youtube interview between autistic people, and an autistic woman said something along these lines:
“Sometimes, a lightbulb will burn out, but I cannot change it. I have the physical capability to change the lightbulb, and I want to change the lightbulb, and I know I need to do it, but because of my autism I just don’t do it. So the lightbulb remains unchanged for weeks. Sometimes people have to change the lightbulb for me.”
When she said that I related so much, because constantly throughout my whole life I have wanted and needed to do things with my wanting and needing being akin to my spurring an extremely stubborn horse who refuses to move. For the first time I learned that I wasn’t just “lazy”, I had a condition that prevented me from doing things as easily as other people can, but unfortunately it took me years since then to understand that.
Imagine that you are a horserider, but your horse is entirely unwilling to move even if you want to move. You dig in your heels, you raise the reins, but the horse refuses to respond. Your wants and needs are the rider, and your executive functions (the parts of your mind responsible for getting things done) are the horse.
I think it’s incredibly dangerous for neurotypical loved ones to not understand, or be aware of, or respect executive dysfunction. Neurotypical can assume that we are just being lazy, careless, selfish or difficult, when in reality we want to do the thing but our brains prevent us from consistently and reliably doing the thing. That misinterpretation can lead to toxic behavior and resentment on the part of the loved one, which will harm us emotionally and do us a lot of damage gradually over time. That damage can take the form of internal self-criticism, complicating executive dysfunction even further and making it worse.
edited for easier reading!
The other analogy I like for executive dysfunction is a car with a starter problem or dead battery. You need groceries, or you’re super excited to go to this party or whatever, but when you get in the car and turn the key it won’t start. And it’s not that you don’t care, or are lazy, but if your car won’t start you can’t go anywhere.
#text#nd tag#it would be nice to see some ways to counteract executive dysfunction#bc i dont see a lot of that in these discussions tbh… i wish i knew man
(btw im op)
realized today that i look like an au punk ron weasley and im kinda okay with that