Wait best friends, are you both still even best friends? I had heard from Hal that you two had a falling out and weren't on the best of terms...
It seems like you already know the answer to the question you're asking me. Hal and I did have a falling out, I was under a lot of stress and my mental and emotional health were not in the best place (something that Hal had tried to tell me, but I was too blind and proud to listen or implement the changes I needed to make). We're trying to patch things up though, it's hard since we don't live near each other and I don't drive - and trust is never easy to repair. But I take responsibility for the damage to our friendship, and I want to do what I can to repair it. I've been much happier and healthier in the last few months and that has already been reflected in my other friendships - so I think with some work that could be applied to my friendship with Hal. I hope so anyway, his friendship was terribly important to me, and I miss him quite a lot.
