What is “perfect” masturbation?
Perfect female masturbation:
-Stimulate only your clit to orgasm. (rubbing it with your fingers, with water, or by humping)
-No toys of any kind.
-No penetration of any kind in any hole. (not even with fingers)
-No squirting.
-Tease yourself.
-Edge yourself. (see below for description of perfect edging)
-Frequently stimulate your nipples.
-Do not suppress moans, whimpers, sounds etc.
-Keep your legs spread the entire time.
-Talk dirty to yourself. Say things like: “I almost made myself cum” occasionally after an edge, and “I’m gonna make myself cum” right before you finally orgasm.
-Do not stop stimulation during orgasm.
-Do not close your legs during orgasm.
-If filming yourself, pretend the camera is not even there.
-If someone is filming you, pretend the camera is not even there and have no interaction with the person filming in any way.
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Perfect edging:
Edging is where you repeatedly get yourself to the very edge of orgasm but you stop all stimulation in order to keep yourself from having one. If you do not stimulate yourself to the point that you must stop stimulating completely in order to keep yourself from having an orgasm, then you are not edging.
Masturbate by stimulating your clit as you normally do to achieve orgasm. Continue stimulating until you are at the very edge of orgasm. You must stimulate to the point that you have no other choice but to stop in order to keep yourself from having an orgasm.
When you get to the point that you are on the very edge of having an orgasm, immediately and abruptly stop 100% of all stimulation by pulling your hands and fingers completely away, thus not allowing the orgasm to happen.
Do not stop too early!
You must keep stimulating until your orgasm is only seconds away before stopping. The key to perfect edging is to bring yourself as close as you possibly can to orgasm without actually having one. The closer you can get, the better.
This cannot be stressed enough. If you stop too early, it will not be as effective. You must be right on the very edge of orgasm.
If you could have kept going without having an orgasm, then you did not bring yourself to the edge. You need to get yourself to the point that you have literally no other choice but to abruptly stop all stimulation in order to keep yourself from having an orgasm.
Let yourself calm down a bit and then begin stimulating again.
Repeat this entire process over and over and over and over.
Bringing yourself to the very edge of orgasm each time but always stopping and not allowing yourself to orgasm and always wait for a bit before starting stimulation again.
Sometimes bring yourself to the edge or orgasm slowly, sometimes rapidly. Sometimes only wait a few seconds before continuing stimulation again, sometimes wait a few minutes. Mix it up. Tease yourself.
Edge as many times as you can before finally making yourself orgasm. The more times you edge, the stronger your orgasm will be. Push yourself to edge longer if you can. You’ll know you are doing it correctly if you are trembling and quivering from the anticipation of wanting to orgasm.
It’s intense.
It takes practice.
It’s an art.
I edge. Im a man. Edging is awesome, gives power and control, its intense to experience the building of tension and energy, and the orgasms are exponentially stronger like 10XXX. Sometimes I dont cum at all. I just stop. I used to get frustrated by a cocktease, used to suffer the ache of swollen balls. Now I appreciate those experiences, they make me stronger, give me discipline, like diamonds, forged in fire and pressure. Complete already, there is nothing to want. They think I’m feigning for it, but they dont know
