Hey… assuming we have a Kwei x Reader or Kwei x Reader x Dek scenario…
Do you think Kwei has a mommy issues (?) combined with a lack of physical contact? I don’t know, but I’m all for the idea of Reader being a little more dominant in bed—using cuddles, compliments, caresses, massages, or constant kisses until Kwei melts in bed. I say this because this guy needs more human love in his life, now with Reader in a romantic way.
this is kind of the crux of it really, because since Kwei isn't my muse, i always sort of approach him from a skewed angle in all of my fics
this is a guy who could've had it all, and the only thing he had to do was kill his little brother to get it (assuming njohrr had a meter of honesty which i think he does insofar as his own place is secure, given how desperately he begged for his life instead of honorably accepting his loss) and he ultimately decides that dek saving him as a small and unwanted child was more than enough proof that what njohrr was offering him wasn't worth it, he would rather have a family/his brother's trust
so barring any reveals that kwei isn't the eldest, i like to invasion him as someone who's actually pretty isolated too, only on the opposite spectrum: whereas no one was fucking w dek and that made him touch starved, lacking any meaningful relationships/intimacy both physical and emotional, kwei, being the "heir" comes off as standoffish and lacks the intimacy of someone looking passed his rank and title - sort of why they lean on each other in the first place
the mommy issues works the same way: for dek, he just wants ONE of his parents to see him as worth the trouble, where for kwei, he just wants to feel like he's worth more than what his parents want for him. neither of them are ever gonna get that from njohrr, but in a world where their mom is in any way more open to that kind of thing i can see them holding their breath for their respective reasons
kwei's a sub in my fics 9/10 times lmaooo someone with THAT much expectation needs to be able to breathe and let someone else take the reigns (and again, this is why i see dek as more dominate, because he needs someone that trusts him to be able to take care of them, just entirely different set of needs yknow)
the yin-yang of it all is so dear to me, as you can see!
.....which is probablyyyyy why you'll never see a straight kwei/reader fic from me tbh. i like the idea of throuples and exploring the give-take of it all, i just dont feel anything in particular for a standalone kwei thing, in my head. that might make me a bit unpopular, but ehhh
it's hard for me to explain in a way that isnt like "i love dek so much that i like kwei as a result"
