The Old Mayhem is confronted by an Anon suffering from CVA sequelae who tells her to be careful about pointing out the bad grammar of her own Anons. T.O.M denies having done in name of her son with special needs,admits not to remember, engages in victim blaming (insuining that the real issue is they do not telling her their problems instead of she being a horrible person to everybody), concludes that she doesn't care about hurting people/being mean and admits to having mocked someone autistic and the final of this,is she saying to be stressed by an advice ( being confronted about her strange contradiction) blame a disabled anon for causing her stress and delete her own response.
NOTE:Post were translate on spanish by a follower.I am leaving a tranlsation.You can do it by placing the image on google.
ANON:Hello, how are you? I hope you're well. Greetings from South America.
I'm going to tell you a short story about myself. I'm a person who suffered a stroke in June of this year due to a horrible stress attack I had been dealing with. It left me with terrible consequences for speaking or even moving my fingers, limbs, etc., like writing. I'm trying to heal myself.
Why am I telling you this? Well, I want to open my heart to you, as I think you can understand this little point. I know you have a child with speech difficulties, and it's very hard to be singled out for it, to have people talk behind your back about it. I want to give you some advice, from the bottom of my heart and with my hand on my heart as well:Try not to point out people's poor reading comprehension, writing, or anything related to that. The internet has many foolish people, but we can't know why someone might mistake our actions for bad actions or not understand us, or our words, or perhaps we aren't communicating our intentions or messages well. I know it's annoying for you to respond to everyone, but be careful, it can be potentially doubly serious if you react in a way that makes you seem like the villain, even when you never intend to. My advice is to try to ignore anything that might upset you! I'm deeply sorry for the difficulties in your life and all the chaos you've experienced, including your mental state, but I felt that perhaps you should disconnect from the internet a bit to avoid any stress or anger issues. Maybe try not to leave the question box open 24/7, perhaps respond weekly, since people tend to ask the same questions. That's all! May good things be with you!
A person ( I am censoring their name) leave this comment below of the post,trying to defend T.O.M.Anyway,The Old Mayhem replied it (giving the reason to Anon and exposing herself)
T.O.M:I was once rude to an anonymous person because they hadn't understood the joke several times, I think. They contacted me via messages and told me they were autistic and sometimes didn't understand that kind of thing, and I apologized. But I couldn't have known that while they were on anonymous.
The Old Mayhem after that post:
Today,you can only see this last post
