had a really normal childhood. mum and dad never argued, definitely didn’t have any money but my parents protected us from everything that went with that. find out later on dad is a narcissist and definitely gaslighted mum a lot. also spent money faster than he made it, kept mum at home with us and she had to figure out how to juggle the money to make it work. then we moved away from all our family, friends and support networks for dads job.














