Lady Commander of the Queer

I'm Val and I'm gayer than Ellen Degeneres riding a rainbow unicorn in flannel. Born in Barcelona in 1994 and sorted into Slytherin. I'm obsessed with many things, like Game of Thrones, Harry Potter, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Doctor Who, Pixar movies, Disney villains and anything that's queer. I don't want to be the companion, I want to be a badass time lady. I'm Arifurby's young Tumblr padawan.

[kabaks]

YOU WROTE THE RULES. READ THEM. 

[hauntedmushroom]

[its-so-traumatizing]

Something people don’t understand about child abuse

One of the things that I really hate is that people don’t understand that survivors act differently and respond to their traumas in different ways.

I’m a survivor of csa and so is my friend. Her trauma made her extremely hypersexual while I could literally cry if someone even touched me.

My bf is a survivor of csa, I can talk for hours about my trauma if I felt safe enough while he NEVER brings it up.

A friend of mine is a survivor of emotional abuse and so am I. Her trauma made her angry while mine made me soft and defenseless.

My bf remembers every little detail about his trauma, while I repressed most of my childhood and traumas.

There’s no special “criteria” that you should fill in order to be a “valid” survivor, and there’s no specific way you should act if you were abused.

People respond to their traumas differently and it’s okay, your abuse is STILL valid no matter how you respond to it.

[its-so-traumatizing]

Something people don’t understand about child abuse

One of the things that I really hate is that people don’t understand that survivors act differently and respond to their traumas in different ways.

I’m a survivor of csa and so is my friend. Her trauma made her extremely hypersexual while I could literally cry if someone even touched me.

My bf is a survivor of csa, I can talk for hours about my trauma if I felt safe enough while he NEVER brings it up.

A friend of mine is a survivor of emotional abuse and so am I. Her trauma made her angry while mine made me soft and defenseless.

My bf remembers every little detail about his trauma, while I repressed most of my childhood and traumas.

There’s no special “criteria” that you should fill in order to be a “valid” survivor, and there’s no specific way you should act if you were abused.

People respond to their traumas differently and it’s okay, your abuse is STILL valid no matter how you respond to it.

[scorntrooper-deactivated2024041]

Hands up if you’re still mad that Christianity took over most of the world, displacing the ancient local religions and destroying records of them so we’ll never know the details about them

[gaelofthegrove]

I’m not mad about that as much as I am that Christianity took lessons about unconditional love, forgiveness and kindness and turned it into a worldwide conglomerate of guilt, shame, judgement and hate that is literally crippling innocent children for life- all over the planet for generations upon generations.

[willowofthehearth]

[queenoftherebels-deactivated202]

“Love scenes with women are much easier. Kissing a man just feels awful. Kissing a woman is much more fun.” - Olivia Colman, with her Golden Globe for The Favourite (January 6, 2019)

[totalariana]

When I do something that reminds me of my mother

[gerriceo]

Thank you, Carrie Fisher.

[darkisnotevil]

Carrie: specifically asks women

Man: talks

Carrie: Shut the fuck up I wasn’t talking to you

[depresseddisneyprincess]

me in 2012: i’m straight!

me now:

[depresseddisneyprincess]

All I’m saying is whoever runs the Netflix Canada twitter account is definitely gay.

[ahollowplay]

i cannot emphasize enough how tremendously proud hannah gadsby should be of what she has created and released into this world. 

[happygocity-blog]

Lesbians ruined flannels for me.

[queering101]

Homophobes ruined society for me.

[armandyke]

Reasons straight girls need to stop calling their female friends “girlfriends”:

- The word “friend” already exists and is gender neutral you don’t need another word for friends of the same gender

- I’m gay and confused

- That’s it

[lizzieunfortunatelynotbennet]

“I m gay and confused” is probably my new life motto

[reallytinylaura]

Once a co-worker of mine confused the crap out of me by asking how my girlfriend was and I’m like “….fine?” and then she’s like “oh so is she home from the hospital?” I realized she was taking about my friend who was in a car accident a week earlier.

Stop confusing the gays. We’re sad enough already.

[devenka]

Language policing at its finest

[armandyke]

28,000+ gay women: This is annoying and confusing

Y’all: 

[kim-kartrashcan]

I mean…I’d be concerned too

[lesbianplebeian-blog]

ah yes, the four main food groups: chinese takeaway, coffee, carbohydrates, and pussy

[suncoloredzen]

[xiaolapcheong-deactivated201806]

how come humans don’t lick to show affection

[chloeniccole]

lesbians do! 

[gay-and-happy-that-way]

I spat out my drink

[zimriya]

I feel like most of my life choices can be summed up with this gif:

[the-absolute-best-gifs]