I speak as Greek from Greece here and seeing Americans online or American authors and it's clear they haven't touched a Greek mythology/history book in their lives.
No, Achilles and Alexander the great weren't gay or even queer ( they weren't part of the LGTB community, they were straight ) I am not trying to be homophobic here or take anything from you, not at all really but we are talking history and mythology here. And based on actual facts, I am just saying they weren't.
Achilles had a wife named Deidamia and they bore a son together named Neoptolemus ( who actually fights during the seige of the city and survives ) They got married when Achilles was disguised as a girl to avoid the Trojan war. Deidamia was a princess of Scyros.
In fact Achilles most human moment in the Odyssey was when Odysseus visited him in the Underworld. Despite being sorrowful over his own fate, Achilles is overjoyed when learns that his son survived the Trojan War. WHICH NOLAN CUT GODDAMN.
Yes Achilles and Patroclus shared a close bond, but they are described as being brothers. I dunno if you English speakers noticed, but the Greek language overall is a very expressive language, so some words might sound intimate for you. But in Greek? they really aren't. We are are very soulfull. That's why it might deep but really? it's just how we Greeks are normally. Like i said we are very expressive with our family, our brothers, sisters, friends. That doesn't mean we have romantic feelings for them. They are platonic.
Back to Achilles and Patroclus though, Homer portrays them as intensely close companions and tentmates who grew up together, but he never explicitly describes them as sexual lovers.
And lol I think the marriage between Alexander and the Persian princess Roxanne and her rivarly between Parysatis and Stateira would put Game of Thrones to shame. I need someone who actually knows history to do this story right because wtf.
Hephestion and Alexander shared a similar bond to Achilles and Patroclus. They were childhood friends and companions. And Hephestion later became his general. Their relationship for you weebs would be similar to Kirito and Eugeo i suppose. They weren't actually interested in fucking each other because they weren't interested in men anyway either. ( the same with Achilles and Patroclus ) I would assume those two were very popular with the ladies too back then.
Back to the point though because we are talking about REAL Historian and Mythological figures. Some of you Americans need to lay off porn addiction because these are someones culture. And i can't believe some comments on facebook saying Gilgamesh and Enkidu were gay. I can't help but facepalm at this!. READ a BOOK a real HISTORY and Mythology book i beg you. Because what are you guys even saying??? Do you even know HISTORY???.
A fellow Greek salutes you 😀
You're not being homophobic, anon. Similar to the "black Athena" & "the ancient Greeks were gay" theories, the "canonisation" of Alexander the Great and Achillees as "gay men" has no basis on fact yet is being treated as such by Americans/British/pop culture & modern academia on non-historical grounds other than the false assumption that this sells more. The Song of Achilees wouldn't have been this tremendous success if it had portrayed Achilees the way the ancient Greeks did.
Here's an example - the opening of the Iliad shows Achilees and Agamemnon over a dispute about Chrysseis and Brisseis (BTW the name Cressida comes from Chrysseis - the Greek accusative form is Chrysseida).
I mentioned above the "ancient Greek men were gay" theory which is a mix of the pederastry theory and the depiction of ancient Greek athletes being naked in the Olympic Games. The latter was both because they venetrated the healthy body and second, a Chiton would've been impractical for the Games.
I suppose, as you said, that this is a mix of a general anti-Greek sentiment penetrating the West and cultural differences. Yes Greek people are being very expressive and often times very physical. Two Greek men will greet each other by hugging for instance WHEN THEY ARE CLOSE FRIENDS, even in front of their wives (hugs are reserved only for the people we're very close with). Doesn't mean they sleep together.
As for the story of Alexander and Roxanne - I wholeheartedly agree. This is a Greek/Iranian cinema collaboration I beg to happen! (Provided the script is written and directed by people who don't hesitate to show the real history).