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"we aren't that different. you and i."
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the people headcanoning smitten is stupid and is secretly a hater are so weird. like, did we play the same game atp or are u just projecting
The Deltora Quest anime is really good actually. The dub's decent enough for children's anime fare, and it's willing to show not tell.
Lief can just enter a ruined building, find a broken and discarded wooden toy, and see the Shadowlord's brand, without the need for him to narrate anything.
We've already been told what the Shadowlord's brand is, shown how the Grey Guards take property and deem it the Shadowlord's, how they spitefully destroy rickety slum-dwellings while chasing Leif down.
So they can just show a ruined house, branded, and it lets the implication speak for itself. Yay smartly written children's shows!
It's a Japanese anime, but it gets to have surprisingly well written English background text because it's adapted from an Australian children's fantasy book.
Whenever they show insert shots of The Belt of Deltora, an in-universe book, they can just use Emily Rodda's text for the book.
Scarlet Hollow Vivian Appreciation, Best mom hands down
Scarlet Hollow spoilers
for a while now i’ve been learning that some people kind of choose to hate themselves like you can give them tools and resources and advice and they’ll even follow some of it and go “i still hate myself” and i feel strongly at that point they’re kind of choosing to stay in that mindset because it’s comfortable and familiar or something but some people are truly [gotye voice] addicted to a certain kind of sadness and hooked on feeling low
you really do have to trick and teach your brain to stop catastrophizing and seeking out negative bias and like trust me i know how it sounds but if you wake up in the morning and say “it’s so shitty out i don’t wanna get up or do anything” your brain will Believe that and make it so. for months i had to force myself to follow up self-defeating thoughts with reasons why it’s still going to be a good day and what’s going good for me so i could teach my brain to work in the opposite direction and it works. takes a while and feels fake the whole time but you wake up one day and realize you actually really love yourself and there’s so much going for you and you can do everything you always wanted
My therapist told me if you've experienced many bad things in life your brain is pretty much wired to seek out negative experiences because they are familiar, comforting and the brain is used to do so. This can show up in different ways, such as doom scrolling, watching a youtube video you actually kinda hate, hanging out with people you don't like or aren't good for you and so on.
We established this phrase that this specific part of my brain is the highway (easily accessible, broad and paved road) while what I personally would like to seek out is the less travelled gravel road through the countryside.
This mental image helped a ton because now I can catch myself driving on the highway when I don't want to (takes practice, like you said, Lucie!) and start changing to drive on the country road aka figure out what makes me feel good and pursue that instead.
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What video game will you defend forever?
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I don't care what anyone says Neopets: The Darkest Faerie for the PS2 is an incredible open world RPG with my favorite soundtrack Ever and I WILL play it a billion times forever and over
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What is the scariest game you've ever played?
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Honestly, probably Fausts Alptraum. It's an RPG Maker title, I'm fairly sure, and it's a lot of fun, but it jumpscared me so bad one time that I never went back to it because I was too nervous about getting jumpscared again LOL
very funny that my answer isn't Phasmophobia. i freaking LOVE Phasmo it's so silly.
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Couch co-op or online?
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Depends on the game! I have Bad Vision so split screen co-op is annoying as Heck and I do not like it, on a game with split screen I'd prefer online co-op. Ditto a game with proximity voice chat, because that doesn't work the same if you're just sitting next to each other lol
But I like couch co-op for games that are made for that sort of thing! Like Overcooked 😌
i have an important question for the Scarlet Hollow fans of tumblr
this question includes spoilers for episodes 4 and 5, and specifically the Reese Plotline, so proceed with caution!!
Thank you all, i needed further explanation - And i do find it might help me!
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What is it like to be ██████ Scarlet?
okay so, got my friend to play scarlet hollow joyous days. However we got to chapter 4 and spent 5 minutes examining how utterly bizarre Dr. Kelly's kitchen is, and one thing led to another and than-
Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
if anyone draws me anything ever
im going to stare at it
im going to grin like an idiot
i dont care if you think its bad or not
i love it
i love you
🌌 Sure, I'm bored, why don't I post some drawings from our backlog? These are from December of last year.
And for the record, no, I'm not a shipper myself. But Everest is. And I will weaponize their ship(s) against them. But uh. Enjoy, I guess.