♡Fictionkin, I'd lie and say this won't be very relevant but my main f/o is someone from a kin canon of mine as well as other f/os connected to other kins. Dunno why I keep wanting to go "Oh it's a minor thing" because no it's not. I may also make posts referring to my kins as me (because they are), so I'm not just pretending I'm in a characters place, it is still selfshipping.
♡HERE'S THE RENTRY IT HAS MOST OF WHAT YOU WANT TO KNOW ON IT
♡main blog is @grimzeyblogs, all follows and likes will come from there
♡I don't follow people who post a lot of horny stuff. Bad for the brain, yknow? No need to block or avoid me over it though, I know my limits and you can interact freely I just won't reciprocate much if at all.
Tags!
♡ #the hermit speaks = me talking, self explanatory. Only posts I make will have this tag. Why "hermit"? Idk it's just something my dad's taken to calling me sometimes, see it as me reclaiming it as a good thing because he's a weirdo and a dick.
♡ #[name] my beloved = romantic f/o
♡ #[name] my dearest = familial f/o
♡ #other ppls beloveds = also self explanatory, other ppls ships
♡ #other ppl = self explanatory as well, it's other people's self inserts. Will I make one for mine? No.
♡ #sixdean coded = Me and Dean's tag, apparently (it kept getting used and now it's a thing)
♡ #[name] my bestie = yay frand :)
♡ #same media? same media! = Will be used for all types of selfshipping, so long as we share a media the post is about. Only used on reblogs unless I like. make art for someone. This also fits as media as a whole (ie. fallout selfships even if they aren't New Vegas, this does not apply to Disney, for example, because that isn't a series it's a corporation)
♡ #moots beware! = if I know you are nonsharing and I see someone with an f/o of yours, I'll tag it here. It's a catch all so it may not be super helpful but good to block if seeing doubles upsets you alot, you can always view the post anyway if you're feeling daring
♡ #boosts and blogs = Other ppls... stuff. 🙂👍 yaye (I frequently forget to use this)
also when i reblog ask games i don't usually get sent asks so if you see me reblog one you should send me something
imagine drawing/painting your f/o! suddenly, they’re leaning over your shoulder to see what you’re working on! “let me see, love!” despite your protests, they playfully snatch the paper from you. even if you’re not the best artist, it’s clear to see how much you love them and the beauty you see in them.
❥ half asleep rambling to your f/o about your interests. they ask you questions as you ramble, fiddling with your hair as you talk. if you’ve told them everything about your interests already, they’ll listen again. they love to hear your voice. you don’t know it, they’re willing to wait and listen to you until you fall asleep, even if it takes all night. 。ᴗ ᴗ )
Having multiple F/O's is funny cause sometimes my brain will alternate between which ones to think about randomly throughout the day and it kinda feels like they're all fighting to try and get my attention or something
I'm going to be honest, I'm not the biggest fan of "nonsharing selfshippers know their F/Os aren't real!" as a defense against those who hate nonsharers.
Sure, most nonsharers know the difference between fiction and reality. What about the ones that don't? Are you going to help defend the nonsharers with psychosis? The ones with delusions? Those whose alters/headmates/etc are their F/Os? The ones who soulbond?
The only defense you really need is "who the hell cares, those characters still exist for you to enjoy; stop treating nonsharers as though they impact your life personally." You don't have to exclude people to make your point.
I'm sorry Neltharion comes around and just consumes my fucking soul sometimes :) This was meant to be the modern AU but I could not be fucked to draw all of their tats so just pretend they're more alt than they are. Yes, even Dia.
This user loves their fem f/o's userboxes! [part one]
[id: dark pink userboxes with a heart on the right side with different pride flags in each one and white text that reads “ this user loves their fem f/o's! .” /end id]