I know this is fundamentally an LOA blog. But I.. I still would love some tips of knowing how to have self worth, self love and self respect additionally too please. I have zero confidence. I see my bullies, my peers, my family members all in top form and here l am rotting in my mums attic. It's not like I haven't done things to improve. I have. But after a string of continuous bad luck with health and wealth one can only be positive for so long until one just snaps. Now each day I stare at the ceiling hoping wishing my problems will go away. That if I can just reality shift into having an able healthy body and some cash I'd be able to flee. Build something. Be happy. Finally. Be free of the past, people and pain.
Hey, I hear you. What youโre feeling is the weight of everything youโve been through. Feeling trapped or unlucky doesnโt mean youโre less than anyone else. It just means you havenโt yet claimed your authority over your inner world.
Self-worth, self-love, and self-respect start inside, not with what you have or what others do. You donโt need a perfect body, money, or freedom to start respecting and valuing yourself. Itโs a practice.
Start small. Notice yourself when you survive a day, when you show up, even when itโs hard. Speak to yourself like you would a friend: firm, honest, protective, but compassionate. Protect your energy. Boundaries are not selfish; they are the foundation of self-respect.
This works best when paired with small, grounded actions. Even a tiny step toward your goal: moving your body, saving a little, writing down what you want, it tells your mind: I am capable. I am worthy. I am building.
Again, not necessary. But you could, if you want to.
You are not "rotting". (That's not possible, especially as long as you're alive.) You are learning to see your own power, even if it feels buried right now. Keep choosing yourself, little by little, until the belief in your own value outweighs the old narratives of โunluckyโ or โnot enough.โ
You are already the person you want to become. The question is, will you treat yourself like it?
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