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౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ 23 | est. 2003 | she / her

[h3yd4ns]

daisy, she / her, 23. ౨ৎ [the mirrorball] .✦

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౨ৎ “we accept the love we think we deserve”

xxiii. blue skies ahead, always. part-time fangirl, avid dreamer. bookworm. music + film enthusiast. wondering among the stars. still waiting for a blue telephone box to appear someday… .✦

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note: all the dividers I used belong to @diviniyae

anons: ☁️💌🦢🫧

[t03soup]

More smiley Hayden🙂‍↕️

[h3yd4ns]

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౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ daisy chains: a positivity chain !

while scrolling through the #haydenchristensen and #rachelbilson tags, I’ve noticed a slight increase in negativity, creating an environment that often feels suffocating, isolating, or even hostile.

no one ever deserves to feel as though they do not belong or feel safe within a community, whether that may be in real life or in person.

please know that you’re never alone! we are (virtually) surrounded by a community that values kindness, patience, and understanding.

so I thought: what better way to boost the mood by creating a positivity chain?

cheesy, I know - but it feels like a warm hug 🥺

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below, share your positives and highlights! it can be anything from our extremely rare Maple sightings, to your positive experiences meeting Hayden or friends within the community, to finally finishing a cosplay outfit you’re super proud of.

make sure you tag your moots to continue the daisy chain! find new friends below too 🤍

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🌼’s moots tag: @t03soup @cblivius @amber-wavess @katyyushkaaa @letterstoanakin

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[h3yd4ns]

౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ sharing my favourite photos of Maple !

while i don’t have a bernadoodle at home, catching rare sightings of Maple is honestly the next best thing! here are my favourite Maple sightings:

౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ what are your positives and highlights? can’t wait to see more positivity here.

note: full credit to @baldsokaa on Twitter as the source of these rare Maple sightings!

[h3yd4ns]

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౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ daisy chains: a positivity chain !

while scrolling through the #haydenchristensen and #rachelbilson tags, I’ve noticed a slight increase in negativity, creating an environment that often feels suffocating, isolating, or even hostile.

no one ever deserves to feel as though they do not belong or feel safe within a community, whether that may be in real life or in person.

please know that you’re never alone! we are (virtually) surrounded by a community that values kindness, patience, and understanding.

so I thought: what better way to boost the mood by creating a positivity chain?

cheesy, I know - but it feels like a warm hug 🥺

—

below, share your positives and highlights! it can be anything from our extremely rare Maple sightings, to your positive experiences meeting Hayden or friends within the community, to finally finishing a cosplay outfit you’re super proud of.

make sure you tag your moots to continue the daisy chain! find new friends below too 🤍

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🌼’s moots tag: @t03soup @cblivius @amber-wavess @katyyushkaaa @letterstoanakin @haydensbubble

🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼

[t03soup]

Calling all Hayden fan moots who don't have a secret animosity for other fans/aren't overly parasocial/and don't have some kind of secret hateful past🗣️

We must make this fandom a fun, calm, kind, and inclusive place once more. Show love and community🫡

[amber-wavess]

Hi hayden community can we all just please be kind and love each other and in order to stay true to that agenda maybe obliterate like half of the fanbase (that includes ninety nine percent of twitter fans)

anyways <3 let’s start a nice, hate-free conversation!! have any of you met hayden and if so what was your experience? Or are you planning on meeting him sometime in the future?? I met him last month in san antonio and oh my lord that man is SO beautiful up close

[h3yd4ns]

౨ৎ⋆ ˚｡ continuing to spread the love over here !

I’ve never met Hayden before (but I would appreciate the opportunity to meet him in the future!). He hasn’t visited my country to attend a convention, but I always love seeing all of your photos and reading about your experiences meeting him! Hayden seems to be a super lovely and kind person. I wish I could meet him some day 🥺

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[h3yd4ns]

🐝 we are the content we consume

adding onto the conversation occurring within this community, it is also important to remember: we all have a collective responsibility to consider what we share and how our actions affect others, whether it may be directly or indirectly.

everything from what we choose to reblog to the content we choose to consume matters. because we have a choice in selecting what we consume. briar doesn’t have that choice.

from the moment briar was born, so was her digital footprint. everything from articles announcing her birth, to vile online threats on her mother’s safety and welfare, has her name attached to it.

briar doesn’t have a choice. her digital footprint was created the moment she was born, while ours were created the moment we chose to create a social media account.

if briar doesn’t have a choice, then she doesn’t have a voice either. she is eleven years old and has barely experienced the world while strangers online are tearing her family apart.

briar is also coming of age. she is growing into herself, finding her passions, exploring new interests, and is at the stage of her life where she is most likely beginning to explore social media too.

while her friends at school might barely have a digital footprint (except for what could be their parents’ embarrassing Facebook photo collection), briar currently has three hundred and eighty-nine thousand search results in her name.

that’s just for her name alone.

this includes the countless discussions occurring across social media, with the baseless claims of false paternity, the multiple photos of her that have been dissected and compared next to other children, and the ongoing threats to her mother.

this also includes our reblogs, the hashtags we use, the posts we choose to like, the people we choose to follow (with their beliefs, values and perspectives), the words we write on our blogs or on our other social media pages, and the content we choose to share and consume daily.

of course, this is in no way intended to point fingers at anyone — that would never be my intention.

however, as cheesy as it sounds, it’s up to us to make a difference. not individually, collectively.

in our own time, if we ever come across content that harms ourselves or others, we take our own steps to report, delete and block (if preferred/when it’s absolutely necessary).

the same should also apply within fandoms and communities too: report, delete, block.

if it’s a direct threat against someone’s safety and welfare (or to their life directly), screenshot and report it immediately, whether that may be to the social media platform or to the local authorities.

a threat is a threat.

briar is now coming of age and may be beginning to explore the internet, her digital footprint, and social media either by herself or with her friends. she may not always have her parents by her side, or watching over her shoulder while she scrolls.

the next time you consider reblogging, liking a post, or following someone’s account, consider:

is this [insert content here] or [insert account here] actively contributing to and/or harming myself or others, including briar, hayden, rachel, and/or their extended family or friends in any shape or form?

if the answer is yes, then it’s not worth it. the online activity we see and interact with will be the same online activity that an eleven year old exploring the internet and discovering her place in the world will also see, either by herself or with her friends.

stop. think. decide.

it’s up to me, it’s up to you, it’s up to us.