Happy Reality Relationships

A blog by Mariya, dedicated to posts about love and relationships.

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Here is a sample love letter for anyone who wishes to feel more loved. Read it and imagine your ideal partner writing that to you :)

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P.S. I will no longer be posting on this blog! Much love!

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Your ideal partner would understand you and appreciate you fully, not just parts of you, but all of you.

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When someone is compatible with you, you don’t have to try hard nor do you feel like something is off, things just flow.

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Phases of the Moon and Relationships

Connections are like phases of the moon. Sometimes there’s no connection at all (new moon), sometimes there’s a little bit of a connection (crescent moon), sometimes there’s an okay connection (quarter moon), and sometimes there’s a great connection but something is still missing (gibbous moon). Then there’s the full moon—the full connection. Here, nothing is missing. Wait for that full connection, and never settle for less.

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Someone once told me that I should make a book with my poetry, so here it is! Available on Amazon in paperback and kindle! 💗💗💗

Link: https://amzn.to/2ktInNh

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“Everything about you is perfect, you don’t have to change a thing,” he said, “but if you do, I’ll love you anyway.”

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Fun Idea & Theory

What would happen if you spent the whole day in silence with your date? If it would be awkward or boring, that means they’re not the one. If it would be fun and comfortable, well then they might be the one!!!

I bring this up because people, especially guys, say so many sweet things so we could end up liking them, and then they disappear! So how do you know if it’s a lasting thing or just praise coming from what I like to call “a short term sweet talker”? The idea above may help you figure that out.

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Everything that someone else didn’t love about you, your ideal partner will LOVE.

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Feeling your love for me through my heart

has taught me how to love myself

before I even met you,

thank you.

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'Never question love's power, for it created the perfection that you are,  the perfection that I cherish with all my heart, forever." ~ Divine Masculine 

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Someone’s inability to see that you’re enough doesn’t make you less than enough.

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You shouldn’t settle for anyone who is less than perfect for you because if you do, you’ll be letting down the person who is.

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The Process of Letting Go

If you want to let go of someone, try this process: (Best if all questions are answered in written form.)

1. List the things that you liked about this person.

2. List the things that you didn’t like about this person (including how they treated you).

Did things seem off? What did your intuition say?

3. List all the things that you would want in your ideal partner.

4. Thank your old partner for what they’ve taught you and the possibilities that they have opened up for you, as if you are talking to them now. (Thank you for....)

5. Remember that you deserve to be treated amazingly! This person might have been more compatible with you than others from the past but that doesn’t mean that they’re more compatible than someone you’ll meet in the future! Remember this anytime you think of them! And for now, enjoy being single! Make the most of it!

(This process can be used to let go of friends as well.)

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Been called too sensitive or emotional? There are people who’d love your gentle and caring nature. Been called too talkative? There are people who’d love to listen. Been called too wild or adventurous? There are people waiting to meet someone just like you.

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Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t want the same exact lifestyle as you, who doesn’t treat you well, and who doesn’t appreciate what you have to offer because there is someone who will and they’re looking for you too.

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The issue was that it seemed like you had too much love to give, wasn’t it? That’s because all those people weren’t compatible with you, so it was too much for them. To someone who’s compatible with you, it would be the perfect amount and it would be equally and easily reciprocated.

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Let Your Ideal Partner Come to You

Don’t use the time that you’re single to look for a partner. Instead, use it to have as much fun as you can and make yourself as happy as you can.

Then, your ideal partner will come to you. You’ll meet in a cool way that you might not expect.