i bet it feels good as fuck to intend to do something and then actually do it
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i bet it feels good as fuck to intend to do something and then actually do it
Discord is a popular Tumblr extension where you can feel even weirder about never messaging your mutuals that you want to talk to
you people will make anybody a daddy dom it’s so scary
what doesn’t kill you makes your nervous system more sensitive for the rest of your life
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We've got to talk about the escalation of predator protectionism in this fucking community.
I'll be honest that I can sympathize with the knee-jerk reaction to not believe call-outs made against transfems. There are spurious accusations made to fuck people over. However, its now gone full blown abuse apologism.
It starts out with "don't believe claims made against transfems" > "assume that all accusations are made with malicious intent" > "even if it is true, you shouldn't do anything about it" > "you should side with the accused even if they ARE guilty"
If you want to see this in action, check out how they talk about pedophiles vs how they talk about transmascs
"You shouldn't abandon or crucify vulnerable pedos just because of their desires"
"Trans men are untrustworthy abusers, and their desires are indicative of real harm"
All this to prove the point that they actively wish to protect real, actual predators (that being rapists and child sexual abusers) so long as they're transfem!
But if you're a transmasc, either engaging in a kink or literally just existing!! You're an active danger to the community.
And this shit is not new, even 10 year old books on gender politics have this rhetoric that even so much as being AFAB makes you inherently more dangerous
While I generally avoid speaking of birth assignment, this is one of the times when its necessary, since DFAB violence towards the community impacted by transmisogyny is real... It would not be safe or acceptable for a DFAB person to show up in a space for transfeminine people. Indeed, it would just be another example of DFAB violence towards us.
The end game of this rhetoric is absolute to cast all those who were assigned female at birth as privileged, dangerous, and predatory, while casting all those assigned male at birth as eternal victims incapable of doing harm.
I can't add anymore screenshots, but this post demonstrates evidence that this movement absolutely includes cis men, because they're all "potentially TMA" and therefore potentially capable of becoming the class incapable of doing harm.
And here's another quote extremely similar to the arguments above:
Regardless of the personal repugnance we may feel for any crime, including rape, we must remember that without an overarching concern for justice, laws invariably become nothing more than the instruments of tyranny.
Voting not guilty on any charge of rape is the only way to remain faithful to the concept of presumed innocence. And any participation in the system as it stands, other than with the intent to undermine it as much as possible, is taking part in the destruction of that sacred presumption.
And where are these quotes from?
Oh! They're from infamous MRA Paul Elm. Making almost identical arguments to that of those in the screenshots above.
Its almost as if this rhetoric isn't exclusive to our community, but is a symptom of rape culture we live in that seeks to protect one demographic at the expense of another.
gonna be completely honest and a bit harsh, I think responding to "giving boys positive male role models and teaching them that men who treat women well are the pinnacle of manhood can help reduce misogyny and violence against women" with "why don't we just eliminate the gender binary though" is stupid as fuck and very discoursebrained.
imagine if I said "we need to create and support programs to provide children with accessible and free high protein/nutrition meals" and you responded with "why don't we just eliminate poverty/capitalism though".
the world isn't full of hypotheticals and ideal moral positions one can hold, it's also full of serious practical problems with immediate and bodily consequences, and mitigating solutions which can be implemented on <5 year timescales...
can we get 36 hours a day? not for any productive purposes i just want to finish my to watch & to read list in this lifetime . also probably get enough sleep
no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever
people are calling me ableist for this lol
can you imagine how good shows would be if writers thought of women as human beings
Quarterly "am I a lesbian" pondering
What about a kindness and loving your partner fetish what about that
its still funny that this is the site where ppl love to pass mental illness diagnostic labels around to each other like tokens as some sort of bonding ritual but the second you so much as allude to anything actually inhibiting your functioning or being legitimately disabling in some way suddenly its 'omg you people cant do anything' screenshots all the way down
i think too many people operate under the assumption that emotions are some frivilous fantasy of the mind and have no impact on the physical world, which is a cute thought when Humans are an animal that can die from being kinda stressed out
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if your website's cookie popup only allows accept all and edit cookies and i have to click the edit button to reject your cookies then i fucking hate you
almost everything men say they love about their culture is actually reliant on the labour of women. that’s why it’s so easy for them to feel proud and protective over it. taking care of elders and not putting them in care homes? the care is always done almost exclusively by female family members. the yummy traditional food? cooked by women. the fun events and gatherings? organised and hosted by the women. men love taking credit for their culture but in reality they barely participate in the actual hard work, they just get to sit back and enjoy all the benefits of it. it’s a scam 🤷🏻♀️
can we go back to safe sane and consensual. you all used to love safe sane and consensual.