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Before we get started, let's get a few disclaimers out of the way.
This is not alter trading, headmate economy, system hopping, or anything of the like. I am taking the requests I receive and making a list of information for the asker to then latch on to and try to firm a member based on. I do not form the member in my system and will not be transferring said member to asker.
This blog is not radqueer, please don't mention being radqueer in your request or your request will not be answered. This blog is pro para and assumes anti contact for anything harmful. Please respect boundaries and do not interact if you are pro contact harmful paraphilias, transids, or radqueer. This blog will also not answer requests for transids or MUDs we feel are harmful.
Now, What exactly does this blog do?
We create headmate packs. These are packs of information that can then be used to try to split a member
Each headmate pack will come with a "letter from the member" as well as an example for what their handwriting will look like. These handwriting examples may be borrowed from the internet.
We also create typical requests media for members we have created. Playlist requests, care package requests, stim/moodboard requests, and more!
We do not engage in a lot of media, so there's a chance we won't know much about the member you are requesting if you chose to go that route. If you request a member based on something previously existing, you give us permission to go as far from canon as we please. You may fix details afterwards.
I want to thank everyone who gave their input and everyone who learned and changed their ways. I have noticed more posts talking about the racism in the community lately, and can't help but to wonder if it is because of my post.
I've had lots of reblogs and gotten some new followers in the past few days, which is nice, but I do urge people to follow @honourablepresents instead of me. This is Honour, not me, and any emotional support being given should go to them.
Further id like to remind about the game things. We want to tell the moderators that allowing someone to say a slur because they don't identify as bodily human is unprofessional and shouldn't be allowed, right? I've had a few reblogs on this post, but a total of zero people have reached out to me asking for the email. I remind you that even if you don't know what topics to bring up, even if you're scared of emailing, I will help you make the email. I simply can't send hundreds of emails myself, and that's what we need, enough emails to change someone's mind.
If you are capable, please, help us make a change for the better.
hello! thank you for making the post about the M word (word for mixed breed dogs + animals that is a slur when used in reference to human-bodied beings). do you have recommendations for other words or phrases that refer to mixed breed dogs that therians + other alterhumans can use in place of that word? the only one that i'm personally familiar with is "mongrel," which has also been used as a racist slur.
It depends on what specifically you're trying to get across.
If you're trying to introduce yourself or share your information, saying something like "Im a crossbreed between a [blank] and a [blank]" is hundreds of times kinder than saying "Im a mutt."
If we're in the topic of names and pronouns, I don't know of anything specifically mixed breed, but I also feel urged to say I don't feel clarifying within your **pronouns** that you are mixed breed is the most important thing. Would you tell somebody "This is my mutt" or "this is my puppy" when referring to an actual dog. Canidae related names and pronouns don't have to scream "mixbreed". You dont have to be the "Dog alter named mutt" (example from a racist white friend whou wouldn't change it after I asked multiple times), but simply the dog alter with pup/bark pronouns and a name like Canidae. That's pretty cool.
I usually see therians and alterhumans use mutt pronouns when they have "dark" or "graveyardy" aesthetics. Not always, but, its often the the/it/rot/corpse/blood/pound crew that also has a mutt thrown into their pronoun list. If your person or aesthetic REQUIRES you to specifically use a mixed dog because just saying dog isn't "dark" or "edgy" enough, maybe ask yourself why that is. Mixed dogs are what? Less pure? Less tame? Scarier? Its almost like there are direct parallels to why this slur is used against mixed humans.
In cases like that, I recommend using terms that describe the dog in some way. snarl/growl/howl/bark are words that fit into the aesthetic above, still give the doglike vibe, and to not single out mixed-ness being the reason they have their vibe
As for other terms, I am literally begging individuals to start coining stuff themselves. You don't need terms like BPDMUTT, MUTTFAG, etc. Especially when the description or definition is "Those who have BPD and relate to being a mutt!" (and yes, Ive messaged people who coin things like this, and yes, every one I've messaged has said they know its a slur but THEY mean mutt in a special alterhumanity way so it doesn't even count.
So much of the alterhuman community is coining. You can literally make up a word that means alterhuman or therian or other of a species with mixed breeds. And hopefully when you do, your community can work so that the word you decide to make for mixed does not become synonymous with "dark", "dangerous", "scary", "unsure", or "untamable". Because I'm fucking tired of people using mine.
Can you alterhumans stop using the word mutt you have people thinking the harassment of being a therian is more important than the harassment of being the racial fucking minority the slur is against
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If this gets enough reblogs and enough people are educated, I will come back to this account and go back to posting. Share this with accurate words and into the accurate communities
Some quotes from Honour themselves. (In regular text below the cut. I chose to put them in smaller text here so it didn't get super long)
"The mods aren't going to do anything about the racism in the site...I'm so sick to my stomach about this."
"We have forced minorities to be okay with seeing and saying slurs. Gay people *have* to be okay with other gay people saying the F word. Trans people *have* to be okay with other trans people saying the T word. Black people *have* to be okay with other black people saying the N word. People are so eager to say slurs that they strip the meaning away and then it's just a special word that only I can say.
I am not okay when I see, in any context, the M word. It makes me ridiculously sick to my stomach. It makes me unable to eat. It makes me unable to speak. It can't be stripped into a nothingburger word for me specifically because most the time I see it, it's used like this. It's used by people erasing my past, taking my label for themselves. I see it more as a name and pronoun and stupid made up Tumblr identity than I see it used on a dog. It's erasure.
But because of the therians that specifically think their identity is more important than generations of racial abuse brainwashing other white therians into thinking this word is okay to say, I am the only one to tell anyone this word shouldnt be said. I am the person left in the front lines to educate people that a word that makes me literally sick to see is a word they shouldnt be saying. And 99% of the time they act like this."
This is my call to action.
The mods of the website and app cited the individual involved "not identifying as human bodied" as the reason they should be allowed to say the slur. We find this ridiculous. At the end of the day, a users identity on a website should not be encouraged to be used in a way which takes away from people who are negatively affected by it.
It is strange to me that the moderators are just okay with "don't identify as being a some being in a human body" as a reason for this behavior to continue. Because, like. What's the difference between this and someone using a different racial slur because the "identify as that race".
"they identify in a way they are not and therefore this slur is actually on limits to them"
It's unprofessional. And I think we need to say this. Especially those of us who are in the alterhuman and therian communities.
Anyone. Anyone is either is or is not directly influenced by the usage of this slur, I ask that you lend your voice. I ask for the sake of people who are affected by the slur, for my own sake and for Honour's, let us have one moment where the voices of people saying this is not your word to say overpower the voices of those who want to steal it.
If you have the ability to email them, even if you don't know what to say, please message me. I will provide you with the mods emails. I will even provide you with speaking points if they are needed. I beg everyone to spread this message specifically around.
Honour said that they are always left in front educating people. Can we, please, band together to form an educative and safety circle around them.
I truly believe it we can do this, it will be the first small win which inevitably leads to our victory. But it starts with this.
Yes, it's ridiculous. Because it is a forum pet game. But that's why it might just work. They don't have the resources NOT to listen to all of our voices. And getting someone to listen to us would be more empowerment than we've ever had before.
Please spread this. Spread this to anyone. Spread it in your discord servers if you can, spread it in Tumblr communities. Reblog it. (Maybe don't put it on twt bc that's where people will flame you) , but I beg that you spread this post anywhere you can so that we can get enough people to make a change.
Thank you for you help
Plaintext on two of Honour's statements
"The mods aren't going to do anything about the racism in the site...I'm so sick to my stomach about this."
""We have forced minorities to be okay with seeing and saying slurs. Gay people *have* to be okay with other gay people saying the F word. Trans people *have* to be okay with other trans people saying the T word. Black people *have* to be okay with other black people saying the N word. People are so eager to say slurs that they strip the meaning away and then it's just a special word that only I can say.
I am not okay when I see, in any context, the M word. It makes me ridiculously sick to my stomach. It makes me unable to eat. It makes me unable to speak. It can't be stripped into a nothingburger word for me specifically because most the time I see it, it's used like this. It's used by people erasing my past, taking my label for themselves. I see it more as a name and pronoun and stupid made up Tumblr identity than I see it used on a dog. It's erasure.
But because of the therians that specifically think their identity is more important than generations of racial abuse brainwashing other white therians into thinking this word is okay to say, I am the only one to tell anyone this word shouldnt be said. I am the person left in the front lines to educate people that a word that makes me literally sick to see is a word they shouldnt be saying. And 99% of the time they act like this."
Can you alterhumans stop using the word mutt you have people thinking the harassment of being a therian is more important than the harassment of being the racial fucking minority the slur is against
Image IDs have been added in the reblogs. Every time I try to link the reblog with the image IDs, it only links back to the original, so I'm sorry I couldn't put it here
Update post here
If this gets enough reblogs and enough people are educated, I will come back to this account and go back to posting. Share this with accurate words and into the accurate communities
Not a request (cuz your closed) more so a question?
I didn't see it on your black list so I wanted to double check before I send a request when they are open
Are you fine with the game "Dead by Daylight" ?
We're unfamiliar with the game, so there may be some glaring inconsistencies and personality changes between what I put out and the source media, but I'm not against doing that. Really it depends on how accurate you want the introject
I'm currently still too busy to work on BAHs (readjusting to society after getting out of rehab), but I do want to let it be known from this point on that Roblox game requests are permanently blacklisted (until they get a new CEO at least), and any asks asking for any Roblox game will be blocked
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Letter:
Hello!
My name is Cati-P
I am a kin of the very hungry caterpillar.
I absolutely love children and the entire kindergerden/education scene. If I could have one goal in life, it would definitely be teaching kids how to read. I just love everything about that kindergarten room nostalgia
Do you have any bah games that you prefer rather than others or anything is fine?
Let me explain: if I send an ask with the emoji and the link to the respective bah game is it fine for you?
I'm just asking this for clarity, since there's a lot of Bah games going around. Sorry if it sounded rude or mean, this is not my intention.
We don't have any preferences as long as there are none that have specific source themes we don't know anything about. I won't do package from a "Roblox games" or *anime" but if it's just the general ones, sending a link with the corresponding one you want is perfect, thanks for asking
hi! i was the jirai anon, thats perfectly okay!
would you be okay with doing a twee aesthetic instead then? (with the same reqs as before !!)
return address is to alice!!
Thank you for your order, Alice! Your package has been shipped and is out to be delivered.
Your packing number is #00100110, please use this number if you'd like to request further services regarding this member in the future!
I just think it is incredibly selfish to show up, demand changes to the template we already provided or ask for the most complex template we offer and not even have read the rules. You want me to take the time looking for, remembering to add, and building extra things onto your package, but you can't even take the time to read the rules? Am I the only one who thinks that's fucked up?
hello there, do you do very controversial headmates? I’m a persecutor, can I request a softboy/femboy whose purpose/role it is to be harmed? Details I want: Only 1 gender (boy) only 1 Pronoun pair (He/Him) Sexuality is gay, also include fears/insecurities and things like that that would flesh out his character/role
hii!! we have a new two time fictive- well not really a fictive, but an alter who is based on two time (from forsaken) and they feel incomplete :( if you could make a bah on the complex level for them, that would be greatly appreciated! they use they/them and dev/devotion pronouns.
Frontcalls: the slightest smallest bit of anxiety, scary media, blood
Likes: funny short chapter books for kids (big fat zombie goldfish, my weird school daze), video games
Dislikes: Analog horror, infection AUs, things that will give him anxiety or dread
Appearance:
Image ID: Jackson Jekyll from Monster High. A white masculine doll like character with black hair and bleached tips. He wears a yellow button shirt with a blue bowtie and a green and back plaid(?) vest
Extra: Can exist with, as a part of, or without Holt, but he's not a part of this package.
Sign off: -🕶️ -🎧
Fears: blood, getting hurt, permanent death, religious afterlife, being judged
Kins: N/A
Happy place: headspace
Hobbies: Drawing
Passion: N/A
Favorite memory: N/A, has no source memories
Handwriting:
Image ID: Black writing in a cursive font reading "This is how I write"
Letter:
Im Jackson.. 👋
Sorry, this is like.. really awkward.. I.. I don't know, I've never had to do something like this before.
I really hate loud noises, they freak me out. I like to read and stuff… I don't really know what else to say so.. I think that's it.. bye.
Could I have a complex alter form thingy for any monster high character you like
We are going to make this because we already started and we liked making it but it's going to be regarded as self fulfilled and it won't be complex because we do require return addresses to make packages for people
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