I see a lot of guard dog content and I love it, but I wanna show some love to soft, traumatized and/or anxious dog doms.
Dog dom who is strong, yes, undoubtably so, but whom only utilizes that strength when they’re comfortable. Dog dom that doesn’t act so tough and scary. Dom dog who is fiercely caring and protective, even if they aren’t eager and able to aggressively stand their ground in a stressful situation. Dog dom who holds their ground in a stressful situation without feeling the need to bite, and still never breaks skin when backed into a corner, even if they can get a bit nippy when forced into that situation. Dom dog who gets jumpy and skittish, and can benefit from a puppy to soothe them, no matter how tough they can be, because they shouldn’t have to be on high alert all the time. Dog dom that gets scared and whom you feel the need to be brave for when someone needs to be on guard. Dog dom who needs your sweet affection to snap them out of a bad episode, who feels cheered by your blatant brattiness. Dog dom who builds cozy little nests to self-sooth and is eager to share their sanctuary with those they care about. Dom dog who is gentle and sweet and takes pride in frequently checking in with their pup or kitty to make sure you feel just as safe and happy in the moment as they do. Dog dom who melts into a puddle with praise. Dog dom whose nature is to make sure you’re cozy and fed, but who also needs those same acts of love returned, even though they aren’t keen on asking for them. Dog dom who makes a lovely little spoon and fantastic hummus. Dog dom who loves to play, oh how they love to play so joyfully and freely when in a thriving environment. Dog dom who gets the zoomies and becomes overwhelmed with all the exciting things you can do together. Dog dom who showers you in affection and makes you feel so smol and safe and free. Dog dom who can absolutely pick you up or pin you down with the gentlest eyes and the sweetest praises. Dog dom who shares clothes, mingling your scents.