[jasg0]

[someboredsimp]

[anxietyproblem]

[transxfiles]

not to be That Person but nonbinary people shouldn’t have to have a complex knowledge of the history of gender in every culture and scientific studies on gender vs biological sex and a history of all the neopronouns ever made and then be able to explain all of these to people we’re meeting for the first time ever in order to be respected and not misgendered. nonbinary people should be able to just go up to someone and give their pronouns and gender and have no one question it. we should not have to be scholars in a wide array of subjects and then have to articulate this to strangers in order to be taken seriously. thank you and have a nice day.

[feministism]

[drankinwatahmelin]

4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.

5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger

6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights

7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)

[bando--grand-scamyon]

That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving

8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.

[gaylittlepieceofsh1t]

Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time

[uncleromeo]

girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.

[twilightt-fantasy]

guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis

[guiltyidealist]

(I’m an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)

[cryptidinks]

- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back

[witcheshaven]

Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.

E.g.

[whatchagonnadoabooouuutttit]

I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.

DO NOT SCROLL PAST

[anonymousmothman]

Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone

[deadlymodern]

Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.

If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Don’t risk it. Your body knows.

If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but you’ll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.

Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.

Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.

Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say “hey dad! Yep, I’m almost there, I’m sending you the route.” outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.

If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say “Betty, oh my god, I haven’t seen you in so long!”. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know you’re trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.

If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like “hey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If you’d like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.” This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when you’re in a crowded train and you notice harassment.

Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.

[goodgirl81]

If you ever feel unsafe or need help, anyone is welcome to run upto me and ask me for help! I’ll go all mama bear and keep you safe!!!

[v1b3ch3ckl0s3r]

https://docs.google.com/document/d/166g6Vo8Fb9H3FIZF2H6faEBHtFQSf7nVn_QxcJ9NMi0/edit?usp=sharing

I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided I’d come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.

EVERY TIME I SEE THIS I REBLOG BECAUSE THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT!!!!!

[cvntyblogger]

i fucking hate this world. anyways R E B L O G

[anabsolutelyremarkableblog]

Just saw a video explaining why putting a key between each finger is more likely to hurt you than them (the keys will just get pushed back into your knuckles). A better way to hold them is to get your longest key and just clench your hand around it, like you’re making a fist. That’ll give you a lot more force and means you can use them in more scenarios (if someone grabs you from behind, you can use the key this way)

[aliceaddellheidde]

Not only for girls and women but also for boys and men.

[youre-deadangel-deactivated2024]

i feel obligated to reblog this.

[notaserialkiller-deactivated202]

I hate that we need these things, but this is so so so important, it can literally save someone’s life

[insertchaoticenbyname]

How to tell if your drink has been spiked:

1. The colour of it has changed

2. It’s become cloudy-looking

3. There more bubbles in it than should be

4. The ice in it sinks

If you are being followed, go to somewhere with high security like a jewellery store or a bar, if you can, and say what’s happening (the jewellery store and bar are best shots because they’re the most likely ones to believe you, the bar for obvious reasons and the jewellery store because there’s not likely to be a huge presence of toxic masculinity so you’ll be believed)

[daydreaming-reader]

I hate it so much that i have to reblog this and that we still need this, but it’s so important!! Please everyone (yes also boys/men/enbys/genderfluids/everyone) stay safe out there!!

[wafflesandschemingfaces]

but I was never taught these things.

The first time I was groped, I was 10 years old. Do you feel sick yet? 10 years. What kind of fucker gropes a 10 y/o?

All I have learnt is to use my elbow or knee or fist or just duck and avoid contact. This post helped a lot, thanks.

[naz-yalensky]

It was the english teacher at my old school tho I did broke his nose and stabbed his stomach with a pen so

Also carry pointie / sharp or that which has a edge, it helps a lot, yk, just stab

[poly-mechanisms]

-if you’re walking alone w/ headphones in, either have one earbud out at all times or have the music/podcast/audiobook/whatever you’re listening to on low and always listen for footsteps or other noises coming from behind you

-If there is a strange looking man in front of your building who doesn’t live there, walk around the block until he leaves so he can’t figure out that you live there and so he can’t kidnap you

-if a man is groping you against your will, go for the balls. always go for the balls. It’ll 1) hurt like hell, and 2) shock him to the point where you can probably run away and get help.

- carry pepper spray or some other type of weapon

[maribridgerton-deactivated20250]

As this site is full of readers,

1: if you’re reading a book with a large number of pages, you know, those BIG ONES, or with the hard cover, don’t leave it at home and never bring outside. I’m not saying to bring it everywhere, but if you are going to any possible dangerous places alone, bring them, in a purse or even by hand (to show it to everyone). Believe me, if you hit someone with it, it will hurt them!!

2: hairspray works just like pepper spray

3: if your being attacked, and you don’t have any pointed objects, neither training, put your fingers on the predators eyes and press it. With all your strength, it will leave them blind or disabled. Use it only if your life is in risk!

4:

5: the iPhones have a great setting that if you press it will call police, send them photos of your back and front cameras and send a message to the contacts you select saying your in danger; press 5times the “turn off” button and it will appear -sometimes you have to activate it before-

6:

I’m so happy to share these tips.

Don’t ignore pls it might save your of someone else’s life

[blexmar-deactivated20221003]

truthfully, it’s a shame that this is a problem in the first place.

thank you to everyone who gave tips, and please reblog! it may help someone in the long run, and maybe even save their life.

[mcyt-sh1t]

DO NOT SCROLL PAST

[valkosdesidoll]

always reblog!!

[ts2m]

[kal-el3333]

Bi

[pauletteimasissy]

Oh god so yes Iam

I’m bi and a sissy

[sisyvanessa]

Oh yess

[tspaceman]

Pansexual

[bones0691]

Bisexual

[sailinginci]

Bisexual

[hard2love61-deactivated20221012]

Yes

[us24u1or2]

We are both bisexual

[slavery]

[industrial-horror]

[industrial-horror]

[nevena-san]

SEMI EITA as your boyfriend ♡

ʕ you know kuromi and my melody, yea thats you guys lmao °˖✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧˖°

ʰᵒᵗ ᶜʰᵒᶜᵒˡᵃᵗᵉ ⁻ ᶠˡᵘᶠᶠ | ᵈᵒ ⁿᵒᵗ ʳᵉᵇˡᵒᵍ !

× he softens so much when he's somewhere private, because he doesn't wants to get teased by tendou

× your dates are either going to a concert or either staying at home cuddling

× you guys have "promise rings"

× he has a guitar that looks so gothic & creppy and yours is a pink & sweet one [ like I said he is kuromi and you're melody in a whole relationship ]

× sometimes when he's tired he will lay on your tighs and rest on them

× makes you a playlist

× you can read him like a book [ like you know who got him mad, what he wants, etc... ]

× he also likes to put your make up on

× when he is putting your lipstick / chapstick on he will get all blushy, he will eventually get closer to your lips and kiss you

× I headcanon that he used to have an emo phase

× he happens to adore / spoil you all the time

× likes to take pics with you that remind him of "soft grunge"

× he made your so extra, but when you made it he was so embarrassed

× if your hands are small, he would compare hand size & and then cry from cuteness

× he gets all tough when others stare at you

× when it was christmas he brought you and himself matching christmas cups

× him seeing you in his hoodie makes him so happy

× he gave you secret love letter and heart shaped chocolate box in your locker ♡

× lazy mornings

× he sometimes facetimes you at late random times to hear your voice because it makes him sleepy

× when you were once sick he came to your house and made homemade soup

× teaches you how to play guitar and just in case has those cute baind aids

× before going to bed he will send you a half long paragraph about you being the best person in the whole world

× Semi is that type of guy to buy you a boba tea

× when it was summer festival he brought you one of those historical japanese masks that everyone wears and took a picture of you wearing kimono [ its even his wallpaper ]

⚠ ᴾˡᵉᵃˢᵉ ᵈᵒ ⁿᵒᵗ ˢᵗᵉᵃˡ ᵐʸ ᵖᵒˢᵗ, ᵐʸ ⁱᵈᵉᵃˢ ᵒʳ ᵃⁿʸᵗʰⁱⁿᵍ ˢⁱᵐⁱˡᵃʳ ᵗᵒ ᵗʰᵃᵗ, ᵗʰᵃⁿᵏ ʸᵒᵘ ᶠᵒʳ ᵃⁿ ᵃᵗᵗᵉⁿᵗⁱᵒⁿ ᵃⁿᵈ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵃ ⁿⁱᶜᵉ ᵈᵃʸ / ᵉᵛᵉⁿⁱⁿᵍ / ⁿⁱᵍʰᵗ !

[chris-evans]

Men shouldn’t be making laws about women’s bodies.

[youngdumb-and-horny]

💯

[anarchistmemedistro]

[spanish-mami-deactivated2019091]

I’m actually really insecure. I feel like I’m always gonna fuck things up or people will lose interest in me cause I’m too clingy or too passionate or too much of some other trait that bothers them

[fat-and-sapphic]

A small gentle reminder that you never ever have to apologize for the size of your body. You’re lovely. 

[zouisbreakup]

rb to give a flower to the person you rb this from

[classicalphan-deactivated201805]

respect girls with a chubby tummy respect girls with stretch marks respect girls with big thighs respect girls with hairy arms respect girls and their clothing of choice respect girls and their privacy respect girls and their confidence respect girls and their rights respect girls who arent fully transitioned yet respect girls with scars respect girls who like girls respect girls who like both guys and girls respect girls who are asexual

respect girls. dont treat them as objects.

[aerisuggestions]

I am sending you strength, and love