im that bitch

here's my tea. sip it nicely. star - male (he/him) - gay - black - autistic. This is a personal/frequent discourse blog.

[whoasked]

nonbinary people arent trans.

 if you don’t have a gender tht you ultimately want to Transition to (even without HRT, voice therapy, or surgery, you can transition to wanting to pass as the opposite binary gender), you’re not transgender. 

and no, its not transphobic for a trans person (me, in this instance) to say that he doesn’t believe nb people are a part of the trans community. they’re a part of the nonbinary community.

[satanhaus-deactivated20220217]

me, beating my depression with a stick: not today you emo fuck

[itsamedicalcondition-deactivate]

@ Tumblr: Stop romanticising being trans.

Just fucking stop. It’s not cute and fucking fun. It’s making my whole life harder so just fuck off. It’s insulting to hear “I wish I was trans!” “Trans boys are so lucky” You haven’t got a fucking clue.

[cartnsncreal]

White people “discovered” Chocolate and Coca as well. Turned an indigenous drink into “Coca Cola.” Almost everything they have is stolen.

[dynamicafrica]

Colorized Historical Photos of African-Americans

[melodicsiren]

is it just me, or does seeing old pictures in color make the time period feel more real?

[recoveringminds1stepatatime]

Having a great day but then suddenly getting intrusive thoughts.

[hellishgayboy]

nt: you control your own thinking!

someone with intrusive thoughts: lmao ok

[hellishgayboy]

What she says: I'm fine

What she means: I hate the fact that obsessive compulsive disorder is characterized in media as an obsession with neatness, not only because it is an inaccurate portrayal of the disorder, but also because it actively excludes obsessive compulsive people with hoarding tendencies who may never realize that hoarding is an OCD tendency as a direct result of this.

[c-ptsdofficial]

mood:

intense leg shaking

[ocdblog]

U ever wish ur mind would just shut the fuck up

[theblasianbarbie]

im sick of having crushes its time for the tables to turn and ppl to have crushes on me!!!!!

[fullpraxisnow]

[palehand]

I hope my back didn’t break your knife.

[goffiks]

“pshh ill totally have the motivation to do that thing tomorrow, lemme just push it off for a bit” says i, the person with chronic depression, never been motivated a day in my life

[avpdnoisearchive]

depression meals™ and depression shows™ are a thing but what about depression video games™?

The Sims Obsession. you think maybe 2 hours have passed. you look at the clock. it’s been 3 days

wanting to play your favourite game but instead just listening to the music for 3 hours straight

solitaire on your phone for 50 minutes while listening to sad music (or the video game music)

starting up old favourite games and then exiting out of them once you see the menu

spending two hours making a new character in an rpg and then realizing you can’t be bothered to actually play the game

an amazing new video game, one that you’ve been waiting for for months. it takes you 3 days to finish a 40+ hour game because anything that makes you feel this good and distracted is immediately an obsession. once you finish the game you feel absolutely dead inside

[kc-the-great-writer]

But yeah its totally the antis that are posting in the pro tag all the time right???

Bloody hypocrites.

[azuladosia-blog1]

You know what I do not see enough appreciation for? AtLA’s historical allusions. I don’t just mean in terms of the dress and art and things like that, though that definitely is cool. I mean in the fact that it dealt with the suppression of Tibetan Buddhists and Imperial Japan’s colonialism and racism and the attempt to wipe out Native cultures. And it shows all the different ways people respond to these issues, from the blithe disregard of the people at the Northern Air Temple to Jet and Hama’s extremism to Pakku’s ironclad grip on tradition to Katara’s balance of change and presevation to the Fire Nation children’s casual racism to Zuko’s gradual unlearning to Aang’s desperate fight to ensure his culture survives. AtLA was so much more political than people give it credit for. That shit is really cool and complex and if anyone wants to talk about that, I am always down.

[aangarchy]

Also the way that these nations are not only separated by element but by culture, skin color, music (we heard very different music in the fire nation as we did in the earth kingdom) Also different food, different kind of government, different type of ruling (earth king, fire lord, chief of the water tribe) This show isn’t a kid show, even though I enjoyed watching it as a kid, I would’ve never learned all of this if I didn’t rewatch it as an “adult” I love this show soooo much